In a word of spiritual understanding, the suffering of cognition is the "cocoon" that tests us.

Personality is the final product of all our habit systems (Watson). There is a mouth on the right, which means everyone has food. On the left side of the harmony is a sentence that everyone can say.

I have never made an accidental invention in my life. All my inventions are the result of careful consideration and rigorous experiments.

Happiness should be accompanied by sadness, and after the rain, it will be fine. If rain remains after rain, if sorrow remains after sorrow. Please let us face this parting frankly. Smile to find an impossible you!

Moths break through their cocoons and dance with their wings. The flower seedling unearthed the jack, revealing the fragrant color butterfly protection. You and I don't need to be different, and we don't need pain and worship. Don't be afraid of setbacks and failures, and enjoy the benefits of suffering.

For me, the meaning of life lies in putting yourself in others' shoes, worrying about others and enjoying others' happiness.

Learn to praise others. In life, you should be both a good actor and an audience. Many times I always feel alienated from others. In fact, I just lack those simple greetings and a hug.

The suffering of cognition is the cocoon that tests us. As long as we work hard, life will eventually become a butterfly.

Life is made up of various changes, endless cycles of pain and joy. That kind of eternal blue sky only exists in the depths of the soul, and it is extravagant to ask for it from real life.

Stop dreaming, it's just an illusion. Don't let your dreams just be thought about. One action is worth a hundred fantasies.

The torrent of life has emerged to the cliff. As long as we go further, it will become a magnificent waterfall. Go forward bravely and set off the boat of life without attachment and trust. A boat that breaks the waves opens new flowers all the way.

Studying the truth (that is, pleasing the truth), knowing the truth (that is, being with the truth) and believing the truth (that is, enjoying the truth) are the noblest virtues in human nature.

Even so, if you can't find your own position, life is mediocre. On the contrary, if you find your best position, you may have amazing creativity.

Everyone will always experience many setbacks and setbacks, but when these come to you, don't give up. Never forget your childhood dream. Life is beautiful only if you have a fiery dream in your heart. Often you will find that when you stick to the end, all the setbacks will be replaced by the happiness of success.

I miss the first time we met, and I was a little gentle in my formality. Perhaps the best time is when we haven't fully understood each other and are eager to know each other. If life is like the first time, I would like to get to know you again, starting with your name.

Those who have achieved great things in ancient times are not only brilliant, but also determined to persevere.

Optimism inclines you to happiness, health and career success, while pessimism inclines you to despair, illness, failure, depression, loneliness and cowardice.

Every woman wants to live a good life, and every man wants to have a beautiful woman.

People of noble birth are often not diligent, but they are often jealous of those who work.

Love is like two people using rubber bands. The injured one is always unwilling to let go.

Strive to find what you can win in the cruel competition in the Red Sea and find your real core competitiveness.

Once the youth is gone, it will never come again, and you will never see the arrival of the next day. It's time for people to encourage themselves when they reach middle age. Time goes by and waits for no one. (Tao Yuanming)

It is mortal who obeys fate; It is the strong who dominate their own destiny; Those who have no opinion are blind followers, and those who think twice are wise.

I have never doubted myself. I have never been discouraged.

Being a man or for yourself is to outline a person's inner world in his own name.

Successful people have lofty spirit. They are brave and fearless. In their dictionary, there is no word "fear". They are confident that their ability can do everything. They think they are a very valuable person, Dale Carnegie.

People are stronger and unyielding in adversity than in hardship, and it is easier to preserve their body and mind in misfortune than in luck.

Diligence is a shortcut to the peak of knowledge, and you can travel freely in the ocean of knowledge without fear of hardships.

Because truth is brilliant, as long as there is a crack, it can illuminate the whole field.

If you don't reach out, you will be caught. It is difficult for the party and the people to escape under supervision and in full view. You said you were afraid of grasping the hand, and you would be conscious if you didn't reach out. In fact, if you want to reach out, people will shrink back.

A word to understand life

1, life is a glass of water, poverty and wealth, power and humility, and so on. These are just seasonings added to life according to your own mentality and ability.

There is nothing in life that can't be let go. If it hurts, it will naturally be put down.

3. We can't control other people's thoughts; We can't force others to do anything. The only thing you can do is to do your own thing wholeheartedly, go your own way and live your life according to your own principles. Even if someone mistreats you, time will not mistreat you, and life will not mistreat you!

4. The bitterness and joy of life are like two sides of a coin, one side is bitterness and the other is joy. When you are lost, you are bitter, and when you hope, you are happy; Experience is bitter, and aftertaste is pleasant; What I think today is bitterness, and what I think of tomorrow is joy.

5. There are no eternal joys and sorrows in life. Bitterness and pleasure are often only in the moment of human heart! Therefore, we should not be ecstatic about what we get, nor should we be miserable about what we lose.

6. Smart people are not necessarily happy, but smart people will see happiness; Stupid people are not necessarily happy, but open-minded people will definitely find happiness. Happiness and wisdom are always accompanied by openness.

7, let go of the pressure, tired or not, look at the mentality; Let go of troubles, happiness is actually very simple; Put down your inferiority complex and delete it from your dictionary; Let go of laziness and try to change your destiny.

8. What matters in life is experience. Bitter or happy, let bygones be bygones. Recalling the past will only increase sadness. When you hide your face and sigh, time passes and happiness slips through your fingers.

9. There is no injustice in the world, only an unjust heart. Don't complain, don't hate, don't care about everything, and the past is like smoke. Experienced, drunk, awake, broken, finished, forget it!

10, every step is a new starting point, and these starting points are connected with the trajectory of our lives. Don't be afraid to start. Only after experiencing the initial difficulties can there be a leap in evolution.

1 1, because with new goals to struggle, life will be more exciting and life will be more fulfilling.

12, life is alive and doomed to suffer many grievances. And the more successful a person is, the more wronged he will be.

13, in your life, no one can be responsible for you except yourself.

14, what matters in life is not where you stand, but the direction you face.

15, all great actions and thoughts have a negligible beginning.

16, in the red dust, we need an indifferent attitude, decline prosperity and return to simplicity. Face life with a calm smile.

17, don't be too demanding in life. If you have tried your best but still got nothing, then think like this: Since God doesn't care for me and won't let me stand out from the crowd, why should I persist? Others are famous, but mediocre. We might as well comfort ourselves like this: this is yours, you can't hide it; If it's not yours, you can't have it.

18, life is a choice and a kind of abandonment. People who can choose freely are happy, and the heart that can give up moderately is free and easy.

19, life is an impromptu performance until every journey becomes my stage. It is better to open up your own territory, hit the south wall and never look back.

Don't care about the bitterness and pain along the way, be grateful for yesterday's experience and pursue tomorrow's happiness.

2 1, life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, it is a feeling to find that people are alive. Rich or poor, regardless of gains or losses. Everything is in the past.

22. Don't hesitate in the first half of life, and don't regret in the second half.

Faced with many choices in life, we should not only have the determination to make a decisive decision, but also have the courage to never regret it.

24. Seize the moment, have the courage to pursue your dreams, and try hard for the first time in your life.

25. Proverbs of life: it is wisdom not to know how to pretend to understand, and it is wisdom to know how to pretend not to understand; Weakness is not bravado, clumsiness is not bravado; Only by putting up with what people can't stand can we do what people can't do; The wise are not sharp, the wise are not proud, the schemer is not exposed, and the strong are not violent.

26, life, there is no eternal pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal.

27, life, there is no hurdle, you can't sit on the edge of the hurdle and wait for it to disappear, you can only find ways to cross it.

28, life, there is no eternal love, no ending feelings, always end.

29. It is difficult to take responsibility for major events, to see prosperity in adversity, to give up wisdom and to persist in success or failure.

30, big heart, let the world; Empty your heart and love the beauty of the world; Calm down and talk about things in the world; Keep a correct attitude and deal with the changes in the world.

Mental perception sentence: mental perception

Once upon a time, there was a smart rich man who saw many people living in pain. He advised the world like this:

1. The past is the past.

If you are still telling others about your glory yesterday, then you have entered the early childhood. Don't regret your past life, whether it is right or wrong.

2. Life is to live one year less.

Death is inevitable. People always live one day less. Don't panic, let alone worry. Everything in the world is like this. Life is death.

3. Don't be jealous of others.

Every era has its own heroes. Don't be jealous of the next generation of heroes, you should be happy for them, which shows that each generation is stronger than the next.

4. Appropriate tolerance.

Forgiveness, tolerance and peace should be the purpose of life. Forgive everything that makes people angry, not care about everything.

5. Wish you a happy life.

Look for the happiest thing in the day, and don't think about those angry and troubled things. The more troublesome life is, the less happy it is. Think more about beautiful things and see more beautiful scenery.

6. Live a good day.

Although there are not many days to come, it is better than every day. Don't think about useless things, be friendly and kind to others. Don't think about other people's shortcomings and deficiencies, or you won't be in a good mood.

7. Everyone's lifestyle is different.

Old people have the way of living for old people, and young people have the way of living for young people. Don't compare with their lives, there is no comparison. Don't give young people trouble.

8. Old-age care is guaranteed.

You must have money to support your old age. This problem, in fact, people should consider and prepare well in middle age. Don't wait until you are old and have no income and energy to prepare. This is very unfortunate and tragic.

Now they are all only children. Whether the children are filial or not, it is a big problem to support four old people. Don't have too many illusions about children. When you have the ability, you should consider and prepare as soon as possible.

When you should be preparing for the old-age security, you are not ready, but when you need the old-age security, you complain about this and that. This is incompetence and stupidity.

When a person has gone through decades of ups and downs, at the end of his life, he will leave some experience and other valuable wealth to young people. Otherwise, it is a pity and selfishness to bury one's life experience with the end of life.

9. Put your heart on yourself.

Life is fragile and time is short. There is no time to waste, so don't focus on others or things that bother you. Enjoy the last time.

10. Keep the relationship of old friends.

Life without a partner is lonely. Leave your old friends alone and don't be picky. If you find fault with others, others will find fault with you.

1 1. Be considerate of others.

Children have children's difficulties, and others have others' difficulties. Try not to get into trouble. Life is casual, light and physical exercise. Don't ask too much, or it will be more painful when you can't get it.

12. Learning and love.

The most terrible thing for people is that they have nothing to do, and they should do something, so that their spirit can have sustenance. People who are not busy have a lot of troubles.

13. Don't nag or complain.

It is the most painful thing to nag about this today and complain about that tomorrow. A person's anger is mostly found by himself. If he is not angry, he must be open-minded and tolerant.

14. Don't care about other people's insults and comments.

It is normal to offend some people at work and be reviled and evaluated by some people. As long as you do it right, you are not afraid of being scolded.

15. First, don't think that these people can have good words to say. Second, don't listen to that nonsense at all.

If you live one day, you will be happy one day. Live optimistically every day, don't think about those troubles, don't think about the fear of death. If you don't get upset, your health will be fine.

16. Make your life colorful.

The real meaning of life is to make your life colorful, not to make money desperately.

17. Choose your favorite job.

If you like something, you have passion and creativity. What you don't like will lack passion and vitality.

18. Think twice about important things.

The road of life, the key time is such two or three steps. So don't make mistakes.

19. Never underestimate your potential.

I am me, the unique me in the world. Do your own thing, do your best, don't think about anything else, even if you want to, it's impossible.

20. Childhood is not suitable for prosperity.

Too smooth environment is not conducive to its future development. A child deeply loved by his parents will never grow up.

2 1. Middle age is not suitable for leisure.

Full of energy and rich experience, it is a good time to make great achievements.

22. Old age is not suitable for adversity.

At this time, it should be a time for a person to enjoy a happy old age, rather than struggling painfully on the poverty line and struggling to make a living.

Confucius advised people all over the world: a gentleman has three precepts: when he is young, his blood gas is uncertain, so he should quit with color; It is also strong and bloody, and it is fighting; Even when you are old, your blood will decline, so you can get rid of it.

In short, say a classic, say a word.

First, remember one thing, be quiet: talk less and listen more. Second, slow down: do things slowly and steadily, not in a hurry. Third, forbearance: in the face of injustice, don't be angry or vent. Tolerance is wisdom. Fourth, let: take a step back and broaden the horizon. 5. Dull: Everything is gloomy, and many things will turn into clouds over time. 6. Ping: Ordinary, insipid and balanced.

Second, you can't force others to love you. You can only make yourself a worthy person, and the rest depends on fate.

Third, all doubts are growing pains.

Fourth, all the prosperity, all the prosperity, all the sadness. All snuff, all snuff, all disappointment.

5. If you love someone, you will love yourself. Love is also an invention, which needs constant improvement. However, this invention is different from other inventions. It has no patent right and will be taken away at any time. The worst viruses are love and lies.

6. Secret love is sacred and should be based on mutual happiness. If there is pain, keep it for yourself.

Seven, 10 What young people need to do ① Save friendship; 2 learn to let go; 3 sow kindness; 4 understand music; (5) can avoid the pain that can't be obtained; 6 learn to bear; ⑦ Always be grateful; 8 love work; Pet-name ruby diligent in learning; Attending to enjoy sports.

Eight, the characteristics of psychological maturity ① have opinions, do not complain, right and wrong; Appreciate yourself, but don't pursue perfection; 3 smile and tolerate others; 4 understand that things are not black and white, and there are many intermediate States; 5 don't compare with others; 6 communication is the most difficult, but more communication is needed; ⑦ Knowing that good motives do not necessarily lead to good results; 8 There is always a dream, and there is hope if there is a dream; You know it's hard to be a good person, but be a good person anyway.

9. At the end of reading, let us understand how complex and inclusive the world is. Reading affects your potential, which will unconsciously affect your thinking, logic, speech, dealing with people and other aspects. week

Ten, to make love simple, it is best to choose the object that suits you. A person who is truly worthy of love and knows how to love in return will naturally make love simple. In this way, two people usually don't need to guess their minds, worry about their whereabouts, be afraid of being unintentionally provoked, and doubt their motives for doing anything. Between two people, there is a little concern, but it will not be entangled; Between two people, I miss you a little, but I won't be sad.

Xi。 "Culture" can be expressed in four sentences: cultivation rooted in the heart; No consciousness of reminding; Freedom based on constraints; Be nice to others.

One of the manifestations of having a good life is that you no longer need to prove to others that you have a good life.

Thirteen, one thing, no matter how beautiful, once there is no result, don't entangle, you will be very tired for a long time; A person, even if he remembers it again, can't catch it, but he should put it down at the right time. After a long time, you will get hurt and your heart will break. Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the splendor of summer flowers, you will definitely walk into the quiet beauty of autumn leaves. Everything, anyone, will become the past. Don't embarrass it. No matter how difficult it is, we must learn to get out.

Fourteen, we always look down on ourselves, always feel that the sky is too high and the sea is too deep, dare not move forward, and deny ourselves again and again. In fact, life should jump up bravely, speak your mind bravely and take that step bravely. Although we are short, maybe we can break a hole in the sky by jumping up, and there will always be miracles in the world.

15. To be a lover, you have to put yourself in the other person's shoes. Don't call more than mom when the other party is inconvenient to disturb. Don't say hello when the other person is at home. Even if you are crazy about it and hit the wall in the bathroom, don't send a message saying: I miss you! Being a lover is a flower that blooms quietly at night. Not only can't publicity, even the fragrance should be given to him alone when he comes. If you love him, you must make sure that he is perfect and calm. If your appearance destroys his life, you are not qualified to say love.

Some people say that it is more difficult to deal with people than to do things. If you just do things, as long as you show your skills and work hard, you won't worry about no results. Communicating with people is not that simple. People are often offended by neglecting the details of getting along with people. Because of the uncoordinated personnel, the work was hindered, so that what could have been successful failed. Or although successful at work, it is not popular.

Seventeen, many years later, you find that your usual honest classmate has become a gangster, your playboy senior has become a full-time mother, your kind first love has actually sat in a bar, your stingy poor boy has become a boss, and your playboy brother works in a construction team to get enough to eat. You suddenly feel that the world is puzzling. No one knows what will happen next. Many years later, we will all be different, and the beauty of life lies in uncertainty.

Eighteen, loneliness is a kind of feeling, whether lonely or not, only the individual's heart knows. Are you numb or something? When you feel lonely but enjoy it, you won't feel lonely. Numbness is already morbid, while enjoying oneself has other channels to realize dialogue with society.

19. Taboos for China people to take chopsticks ① Three long and two short (uneven placement); (2) Immortals show the way (pointing people with chopsticks); (3) the sound of chopsticks (chopstick head); (4) knocking on the cup (knocking on the plate); 5 patrol the city with chopsticks (search in a bowl); ⑥ Dig graves (pull bowls); ⑦ Tears (vegetables and soup); (8) Turn Gan Kun upside down (with chopsticks upside down); Pet-name ruby needle (chopsticks inserted vegetables); Attending to burn incense in public (chopsticks inserted into the rice bowl); ⑾ Cross (chopsticks cross); ⑿ The landing was shocking (chopsticks landed).

Twenty, interpersonal psychology: conversation skills to talk with smart people, you must be knowledgeable; When talking to people with a wide range of knowledge, you should have the ability to distinguish; Talk to people in high positions with a grand gesture; Be generous when talking to rich people; Be emotional when talking to the poor; When talking with people with low positions, be modest and polite; When talking to the boss, be sure to impress him with strange things; When talking to subordinates, you should convince him with your own vital interests.

Twenty-one, the biggest blow to you from bad friends is not to destroy friendship, but to make you no longer sincere. The biggest blow to you from a bad lover is not to make you scarred, but to make you afraid to invest in your feelings again. Frustration or injury is always a past tense, a floating cloud. The terrible thing is that you kidnapped your future with these past. Others may have kidnapped your feelings for a while, but you have kidnapped them for a lifetime.

Twenty-two, think of many things, think of many people. Time flies, and I can't catch fear.

23, don't think that you love others is love, if she doesn't love you. Then, no matter how badly you want to follow in her footsteps, it's just wishful thinking. Even in the end, if you really come and she opens the stone, it is by no means perfect love. Because love cannot be exchanged.

Twenty-four, you are not unwilling to let go, but unwilling. The feelings that I didn't want to stick to ended like this. In fact, you can't bear to give him up like this. When I have nothing to do, I keep speculating about my heart, but I am sad, tortured and uncomfortable. What are you doing? What miracle are you waiting for? Why are you still crying? What are you still thinking? Those who love you wholeheartedly will never let you go after capturing you. Brave enough to love, be brave.

Twenty-five, solve the problem ① Germany: solve the automobile problem in China (Audi, Mercedes-Benz, BMW, Volkswagen); ② France: solving China's face problem (L 'Oré al, LV); (3) Britain: solving the next generation problem in China (education); (4) the United States: solving the ticket problem in China (listing, national debt); ⑤ Italy: Solve the packaging problems in China (fashion, shoes); ⑥ Japan: Solve the problem of sex education in China; ⑦ China: Solve the poverty problem in Africa.

Twenty-six, Chinese characters are stronger than Beijing, which is the background; Shanghai is a business sea; Desire is a fishing net; Husband is a worker; In the evening, it is enjoyment; Sex and rain are pregnant; Promotion means appreciation; Cohabitation is a gathering of pain; The oath is a slip of the tongue; Men are difficult to get along with; The ideal is to leave home; Fate is resentment; Losing is picking up; Being awake means being happy; Marriage is to be confused.

27. In the future, he may not be able to repay my willfulness. But this moment is enough. Youth is like this. Great, anyway, flowers can't be wasted. It's better to waste them on you.

Twenty-eight, commitment is originally a wrestling between men and women. Sometimes everyone is very happy, but in most cases, both sides lose. Like a person, there is no pain. It may be a long pain to love someone, but the happiness he gives me is also the greatest happiness in the world. Some people are destined to love each other, and time has nothing to do with heart.

Twenty-nine, it is never difficult to be poor, and it is never naive not to be hit. Maturity is only good at hiding, and vicissitudes are just without tears and injuries.

Thirty, we are tired because we often wander between persistence and giving up; We suffer because we pursue too much; It's not that we have too little, but that we care too much.

Thirty-one, don't get up in the morning, miss a day's work, don't study when you are young, miss a lifetime's work.

32. As long as you never give up, I am willing to accompany you to the end, even for the rest of my life. Friendship or love?

Thirty-three, Buddhists Zen water, as flat as a mirror, clouds roll and clouds are comfortable, and they are happy. Water, with a calm and light heart, drips away slowly, bypasses gently when encountering obstacles, never cares, and flows peacefully and smoothly. Clouds, floating freely in the sky, stretch and elegant, whether to stay or not, floating across mountains and rivers, floating across the ocean, leaving no trace, free and quiet. Life, put your heart at peace, is a piece of calm water.

3420 witnessed the strange phenomenon of working on the wine table and chatting in the office; Cutting down trees in the country and planting grass in the city; Strictly save a piece of paper and waste ten thousand mu of land; From the ruins in the street, I watched the romantic drama and burst into tears; In school, the child is obedient, but in society, he is allowed to start a business; Keep fewer and fewer secrets with more and more passwords; Sympathize with more and more poor people with less and less pity.