Why is Yongzheng's mother particularly disgusted with Yongzheng's walking on thin ice?

An analysis of the reasons for the disagreement between Yongzheng and Debei's mother and son

Yong Zhengdi, sejong of Qing Dynasty, was Kangxi's cousin since childhood, and was raised by Tong Jiashi, the imperial concubine of the emperor (that is, the first-class male Tong Guowei's daughter, Empress Xiao Yiren). Although she was not adopted, due to her long absence, Tong Jiashi took charge of the harem as the deputy queen. (Tong Jiashi was deeply loved by Emperor Kangxi and loved by husband and wife. Empress Xiao Yiren is also the only woman among Kangxi's descendants who got a poem written by a saint after her death. Besides, Tong Jiashi's knees are still empty, and Yin Zhen gave birth to her daughter only a few years ago, and soon died. Therefore, Yin Zhen was regarded as his own, attentive and considerate, while Yongzheng was sheltered by her and benefited from her kindness. Is the second brother of Kangxi philosophers (biological mother is Mr. Tu Tu's niece, Hersai Rihara, who was the first "Empress Renxiao". As a child, Yin Zhen was in Kangxi Palace with this unique opportunity, and was personally nurtured by his father. The so-called "mother's lover's child hug" suddenly became happy and very warm and harmonious. The emotional foundation between their father and son is also particularly deep and solid because of this relationship.

According to the custom of the Qing court, the prince was raised by officials or other concubines after his birth. In a word, he has to be raised by his own mother after he is born. This may be to put an end to harem politics, so the Qing Dynasty basically put an end to the evil politics of concubines and consorts except Cixi. However, this "anti-fraud" strategy is not perfect. Due to the lack of contact and communication, it is very likely to lead to embarrassing situations such as alienation, mutual suspicion, emotional anxiety and indifference between biological mothers and children. Unfortunately, the relationship between Yongzheng and his biological mother, Princess De, is so strange and tense, indifferent and helpless. In my opinion, the reasons can be summarized as follows:

First, because Yin Zhen was raised by Tong Jiashi from birth (when Yin Zhen later recalled Tong Jiashi, he was impressed by his "Records of Sejong in the Qing Dynasty", volume 11, page 9, "Take care of his age, take care of his recovery, prepare for his benevolence, look back ten years, and do not report to Daide". ), until Tong Jiashi died around the age of eleven, Yin Zhen grew up day by day under the care and guidance of this noble and gentle mother. "It is better to be born with kindness than to be nurtured with kindness", so it is natural and human nature for Yin Zhen to feel the kindness of his adoptive mother and be close to Xiao Yiren, but alienated from his biological mother. (Even this emotional affinity extends to the descendants of Yongzheng. During Qianlong and Jiaqing years, Tong Jiashi praised her many times, but the emperor's biological mother Wu Yashi just didn't have this honor, as if she were an irrelevant person, left out in the cold, vaguely revealing the "intriguing" "mother-child" relationship between Yongzheng and De Fei. )

Second, Tong Jiashi is Kangxi's cousin, with a prominent position. Since the second queen of Kangxi (that is, Empress Akihito, the daughter of the four auxiliary ministers of Kangxi Dynasty, was very anxious) and her sister Wenxi Guifei, when Kangxi wanted to recall Ao Bai, they also chose to fill the harem. Obviously, she entered the palace for political reasons, and there may not be true feelings between Kangxi and her. ) After her death, she has been listed as the imperial concubine (because Kangxi thought she was the queen and refused to let her be the queen until Tong Jiashi was seriously ill), the so-called deputy queen, who was in charge of the harem, the wife of Emperor Kangxi, the holy father and the first mother of all princes. Her dignity must have given young Yongzheng a sense of dependence and security. Out of instinct for survival, he will try his best to get the good foster mother. Over time, under this subtle influence, he will inevitably "become" a snob who knows how to read and listen, and his attitude towards his own mother is likely to be too close because of the existence of his foster mother, the need of court survival and the formation of his ancestors. He may even consciously or unconsciously show a "small" emotion of pretending to be the son of Tong Jiashi, and his biological mother, Princess De, sees it in his eyes.

Third, "inherit the wind is eccentric", which is common sense in ancient and modern times. Moreover, most mothers especially love to spoil their young children, which is their natural complex. Ginza (the sixth son of Kangxi, the second son of De Fei) was very painful when he was there. Ginza died, and she naturally hurt fourteen sons (Yinzhen, renamed Ginza in Yongzheng). I want to come to Yongzheng's heart and have been worried about this. The gap between mother and son is getting bigger and bigger.

Fourth, of course, I have to talk about May itself. This child with curly hair and extremely fast speech was described by Kangxi as "moody" from an early age. It can be seen that when he was young, he was in a bad mood, and his heart couldn't bear the heavy pressure brought to him by various aspects. He often had a sudden attack, sometimes even bordering on hysteria. Most mothers like obedient children. For a somewhat melancholy child like him (American historian Shi Jingqian thinks so. See Self-Portrait of Emperor Kangxi of China, page 172, Shanghai Far East Publishing House. ), naturally it is difficult to please the mother. Fifth, when Yin Zhen acceded to the throne, he named Roncodo (Tong Jiashi's younger brother) as his uncle, but ignored his first uncle. This does not mean that he announced to the world that "I only admit that my foster mother Tong Jiashi is my only mother". His practice is exactly the same as Tanchun in A Dream of Red Mansions. Obviously, he still doesn't like his mother in his heart, and more or less. ) translocation, if you are a princess, I'm afraid you will be angry to see your son despise yourself so much. Think about which son in the world would choose to pay homage to his mother at five o'clock every day (3-5 a.m.) (Volume I of A Lost Sense of Justice, Volume IV of Qing History Materials, Zhonghua Book Company, 1983 edition, 1 1 page). Yongzheng), they are called mother and son, but in fact they are strangers. There is nothing to say between them, and even most of the time they are lovers, but in order to avoid being accused of unfilial, Yongzheng can only go to "inquire after his mother" before she gets up (in fact, it's just a formality) to avoid embarrassment. To tell the truth, this move is really unique, but it also vaguely reveals Yongzheng's inner helplessness and bitterness.

Sixth, specifically talk about the reasons for De Fei. After all, "it takes two hands to make a sound." Frankly speaking, Princess De is a person I hate most, because her eccentricity, her "ruthlessness" and her eccentricity are, in my opinion, the most cruel and vicious weapons in the world. She deeply hurt her son, and this shadow has always been with Yin Zhen. De Fei was originally a maid-in-waiting and had a low status. It was because of the birth of Yin Zhen that he was named as Aide the following year (the 18th year of Kangxi) and was later promoted to "De Fei". So some scholars speculated according to some scattered historical data that Princess De was a maid around Tong Jiashi, who was taken by Kangxi and gave birth to her eldest son Yongzheng. Tong Jiashi resented the betrayal of Princess De, so he raised Yongzheng around him and instilled some remarks against Princess De into Yin Zhen, thus alienating their mother and son, and also alienating Yin Zhen and Princess De in a subtle way. Naturally, the jealousy between women will also continue to their sons. At this point, princess de is undoubtedly completely lost (it is better to be a dead man! ), the resentment in her heart is palpable. Of course, there is still no clear written data to prove this assertion, and whether it is exact or not is uncertain, but it can be used as a reference to explain the reasons for the disagreement between Yongzheng and De Fei.

Seventh, there is indeed something very rude about De Fei doing things. When Kangxi died, De Fei was going to die (in fact, she was going to escape from Yongzheng), which forced Yongzheng to say to her in a hurry: "The imperial examination is a great achievement. If this mother insists, what can I expect? " What harm will it do to the people of the world? Also follow your ears. "(yongzheng's" sense of honor ". Data of Qing history, 1 1 page, the fourth series, Zhonghua Book Company, 1983. If you die, I will die, so I won't have the face to face all the subjects in the world and bear the notoriety of unfilial. "Their mother-child suicide is threatening, and watching the twenty-four histories is also' sensational'. ) The opposition between mother and son has reached the situation of "tense" and "with you and without me", which is sad and regrettable!

Eighth, Princess De deserves to congratulate the "Emperor's birthday". Salute me. What's the matter? "("Xiao Xuan Yong Xian Lu "Volume 1). The reason is that he refused to accept the emperor's salute to himself, so that the ceremony of Deng Ji could hardly be held, which made the opening ceremony of the first ceremony of Yongzheng Dynasty so disappointing and doomed the tragic tragedy of Yongzheng Dynasty.

In addition, my mother once said that Yongzheng's accession to the throne was "beyond my dreams." What does this mean? ! It's not obvious to tell everyone that he-his first son (! ) inherit the unification, even my own mother never dreamed, in fact, I just refused to admit the legitimacy of Yongzheng's accession to the throne and challenged him. In such a sinister political environment, so many political opponents are eyeing her son. Obviously, she will be manipulated by others when she says this, which will obviously push Yongzheng to the wall, but she didn't even think about it, even afraid, so she said it and did it! ! ! Such a rude and extreme experience is so obvious, if I can't get on well with her, what's more, I am as strong and famous as Yongzheng? !

Princess De flatly refused to accept the title of Empress Renshou before her death, and refused to move from Yonghe Palace where she originally lived to Ningshou Palace where Empress Dowager Cixi should live. So when she died, Yongzheng moved her Zigong (coffin) to Ningshou Palace and put it in Shouhuang Hall, where she should stay after the queen's death. The twists and turns reveal the grievances in Yongzheng's heart, and Samadhi is really intriguing.

Besides, Yin Zhen is particularly afraid of heat because she worked in this department in her early years. After princess de died, although the weather was very hot, in order to avoid leaving it to others (? ! With ammunition, he insisted on a wake, so that he fainted several times and was exhausted. In a secret compromise with Nian Gengyao, his confidant, he said, "I'm safe. You really can't support my strength, and you can't afford to lose face. I have experienced the heat in summer, and I can't stand the heat at all. I want to bear the burden of my body and really cherish it. I don't have to worry too much about me. " A feeling of anger and resentment is clear at a glance. If the mother-child relationship is like this, it is really a great sorrow in Yongzheng's life.