Classic quotes about parenting: Parents should not only teach by words but also teach by example

Classic quotes about parenting: Parents should not only teach through words but also teach by example

Some articles I have read recently and some things I have encountered mentioned the issue of parenting. Although I am very familiar with the word upbringing, I still curiously searched for the word upbringing, and the explanation I came up with is: the state of moral cultivation manifested in behavior. It is the result of social influence, family education, school education, and personal cultivation, especially the moral standards of behavior developed in the family since childhood.

Well, for such a comprehensive explanation of the meaning of the word, it still makes me feel that my previous understanding of education is not enough. In my mind, the so-called upbringing refers to the habits and moral qualities developed from the family education of the parents. Of course, Baidu also emphasizes that education, especially the moral standards of behavior developed in the family since childhood. It can be seen from this point that family education is actually the most important factor in a person's education level.

My parents are not well-educated. They have only read books for one or two years and don’t know many Chinese characters. However, they taught me some habits since I was a child and have always influenced me. For example, they repeatedly emphasized to me some behaviors that I should pay attention to at the dinner table: I can eat as much rice as I want, and there should be no leftovers; the rice bowl must be eaten clean, without rice grains sticking to it; if you like to eat one dish, you can’t just eat one dish; You cannot pile all the dishes you like in front of you; you cannot use chopsticks to turn over the dishes to pick out what you like; you must sit properly when eating and cannot lift your legs on the chair. Of course, in addition to these, my parents also taught me a lot. Their education has become a habit that I have consciously developed.

I got married last year. On the second day of the Lunar New Year, my parents’ house hosted a banquet for relatives. My husband and I were also there. My uncle, aunt, and family all came, and it was a big table full. During the dinner, my husband drank some drinks and ate some food, and then gently told me that he was going to serve the rice. Not long after the food was served, everyone had not eaten much and were still drinking drinks and chatting. . I thought it was not very polite for him to serve the rice first, but it was not convenient to tell him directly at the table, so I touched him with my foot several times. My husband didn’t seem to understand, and after a few minutes he told me that he was going to serve the rice. After dinner, I had no choice but to let him go. He went to the kitchen to fill the meal and met his mother who was cooking. Her mother told him that the meal was not ready yet and asked him to wait, so he could only sit back down. Later, my mother told me that the rice was actually cooked, but she said that on purpose. She hoped that my husband would not lose his etiquette and just eat with the guests for a while. As the son-in-law of my family, my husband is also considered the master compared to my aunt and uncle’s family. The guests are still drinking drinks while the master starts eating. This is indeed not polite. Of course, I know that my husband didn’t do it on purpose. Later, when I mentioned this to him, he said that because his parents didn’t tell him about this since he was a child, he didn’t understand the daily etiquette of the dinner table.

Last year I was admitted to a unit, and there was another girl who was admitted to the same system as me and was assigned to another unit. However, not long after joining the company, I continued to hear some strange things about her. For example, when her boss asked her to look for information, she said she was too busy; she called her much older colleagues by their first names; the driver at her workplace kindly sent her out to do some errands, but she went back to her workplace directly after finishing the work without telling the driver. She waited for several hours; an old colleague enthusiastically taught her work experience, and she said that she was already good at it, but they influenced her to think about it. Once, she happened to meet a colleague from her work unit, and when she talked about this girl, she was full of dissatisfaction. This colleague of hers said directly in front of everyone that such people have poor parenting. Compared to this girl, for me, entering a new environment is really like walking on thin ice. For old colleagues who are leaders, I address you with honorifics; I don’t dare to delay for a minute what my boss tells me. If an old colleague can give me some pointers, I remember that I will go home and tell my mother something about the work within five days. She always says, then You should remember the kindness of others and work hard.

My second uncle’s house lives very close to my home. The second uncle’s family has two daughters, my cousin and my cousin. These two sisters have not been very popular since they were young.

Once, a neighbor came to my mother angrily and said that my cousin acted like she didn't see her and didn't even scream when he saw her. In fact, my two cousins ??not only don’t say hello to their neighbors, but my mother says they don’t even call out when they meet her. Living in rural areas, neighbors are very familiar with each other and have close contact with each other. When I was a child, when I met elders, my mother asked me to call them, so since I was a child, I have known this person to be called uncle, that person to be called uncle, this person to be called aunt, and that person to be called aunt. Of course, there are a few moms who didn’t tell me how to call them, and I couldn’t tell what to call them based on seniority. When I met them, I smiled at them and said something like that as a greeting. People don't care what you call them. Sometimes when they see me, they will greet me first and say "I'm back" and so on.

I once saw a saying that parents are the mirror of their children, and children are the epitome of their parents. Yes, from children, we can always get a glimpse of their parents. Parents are the first teachers in their children’s lives and their natural role models. A child's initial behavior and moral character all reflect the upbringing of his parents. Excerpts of sentences describing teachings by words and deeds

When Feng Jiu was young, he learned from Bai Zhen’s words and deeds that when it comes to collecting debts, it is especially important to avoid small talk. . ----"Three Lives and Three Worlds Pillow Book" by Tang Qigongzi

Promises should be kept. Integrity is the cornerstone of establishing trust between people. If a person does not have faith, he will not know what he can do; if a person does not have faith, he will not stand firm; words must be deeded and deeds must be resolute; commitment is the first step in teaching by words and deeds. Only by taking the first step well can we achieve success step by step until we reach our hearts. Commitment is the beacon of the soul.

A word of gold, gold and jade, good words, obedient, lenient, down-to-earth, generous, stable, heroes and talents in troubled times. The heroes and talents are briefly seen, mottled and scattered, saying nothing, four and four, stable, like Mount Tai, beautiful mountains and clear waters, beautiful appearance, wisdom, the mainstay pillar, the sky is on the ground for a long time, and the days are long. Misfortune never comes alone. I am dull and taciturn. I teach by words and deeds. I have a place with a small space and a wide range of people. I am curious and weird. A family in the world has a homely meal, a lunch bag, a clothes hanger, a sea of ??gold, a beam, a beam, a beam, a meng, a respect, a respect for the elderly, a virtuous wife, a good mother, a noble son, a humble ear, and a blind eye. Five thunders hit my head and bowed down to worship. General Feng. Hou Houmen is like the sea, the sea is vast, the sky is empty, there is nothing, people are different, little cocoa can sing, weep and cry, six gods have no owner, subjective assumptions, meaning out of context, words cannot convey the meaning, spirit is high-spirited, strong-minded, smiles, hidden swords, swords and shadows----"Longmen Bookstore"

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, giving people roses , there is lingering fragrance in the hands; dedicate love and gain hope. One act of kindness from you will bring you a piece of spiritual comfort. Your loving heart, your selfless care, and your acts of kindness are the greatest blessing for our family. At the same time, my mother-in-law married into her husband's family not only for food stamps, but also for financial freedom. A good daughter-in-law may be a good placebo, as well as the subtle environmental influence and parents' words and deeds.

The best education in the world is to teach by words and deeds

One of the saddest aspects of traditional Chinese education is that it does not provide the correct guidance for love. Love is the most advanced thing that human beings can do, but it is hidden too deeply by our society and our parents; it is rarely taught by words and deeds, and it is too utilitarian. If a child knows how to bravely follow his or her heart, gain and establish feelings, and know how to cherish and persevere, career success will seem easier, and happiness will not seem so difficult.

Sigma covered his heart and said sadly: I was very immature back then. I followed the principle of not offending others if they don’t offend me. If someone offends me, I will repay you a hundred times. This is actually wrong. , after all, when is the time to retaliate? The words and deeds of several bosses in recent years have taught me. It made me realize my own shortcomings. Throughout history, human beings have always hurt each other and repeated the same mistakes, wars.

War Never Changes Why does this happen? Why must anyone who commits rape against me be punished no matter how far away he is? Why do I have to wait until someone offends me before paying back a hundredfold? So, I decided that if human beings are destined to hurt each other, then I will bear the sin alone. So I met people I didn't like. You should take the initiative and knock him to the ground. Not only should your attack be steady and ruthless, but you should also eradicate the root cause without leaving any future troubles. If this is the case, this hatred will not continue, even if it will bear the reputation of being cruel and ruthless. It’s also worthwhile.

In the Vietnam War, the weak Vietnamese Air Force also used the MiG-21 to play 12 aces (more than 5 aircraft). In addition to teaching by words and deeds, the instructors sent by the Soviet Union also shot down 6 American planes themselves and became an ace. ----"The Military Subplane"

☆Law of Belonging: Ensure that children grow up in a healthy family environment; ☆Law of Hope: Always let children see hope; ☆Law of Power: Never compete with Children fight against each other; ☆Management rule: Before children reach adulthood, it is the responsibility of parents to control them; ☆Voice rule: Although children have no decision-making power at home, their voices must be listened to; ☆Example rule: The influence of words and deeds on children is Huge; ☆The rule of seeking common ground while reserving differences: Respect children’s views on the world and try to understand them; ☆The rule of punishment: This rule can easily make children rebellious and retaliatory, so use it with caution! ☆The Law of Consequences: Let children understand the possible consequences of their actions in the real world; ☆The Law of Structure: Teach children to understand the boundaries of morality and law from an early age; ☆The 20-yard Rule: Cultivate children's sense of independence, and keep parents at least 20 yards away from them ;☆The Four Rules: Under any circumstances, you must know who your children are with, where they are, and what they are doing

Except for a very small number of geniuses or extremely lucky people in this life, others We are all the same, and no one can avoid the pitfalls and pitfalls that need to be strenuous. It has nothing to do with reading books or the words and deeds of our predecessors. The only difference is that some people don't climb the hurdle, some people fall to their death in the pit, and some people survive because of luck or other reasons. And guess what? Ahead is a pit that no one has ever seen before.

Of course, maybe I am too weak as a person. It is precisely because of weakness that we follow the crowd in a muddle. I should have noticed where I should have noticed and stopped, but I didn't do it---although I am not qualified to teach you by words and deeds....--"After Dark" by Haruki Murakami

Don't always use your words and deeds to teach me what it means to bark in the alley.

The most educated people are teachers, not students. The most educated people are parents, not just children. Uneducated teachers are shameful. Uneducated parents are despicable. Look at how many students have gone astray. Whose responsibility is it? Look at how many thousands of miles of horses are buried by the hands of ignorance. Whose mistake is it? How many people read the family precepts of famous masters in the past? How many people look at how many teachers are not qualified to be teachers. How many parents are not qualified to be parents. Look at how many nobles. It is the role of tutors to produce sages from generation to generation in the millennium. It depends on how many children of aristocratic families are noble, elegant and refined. This is the inevitable result of a scholarly family. It is better to improve oneself than to cultivate oneself and to retain wealth and property. It is better to teach by words and deeds. To be a teacher and to be a parent requires both moral character and learning. It is a kind of knowledge. If you want students to excel in their studies, it is better to study wholeheartedly. If you want future generations to be prosperous and virtuous, it is better to change your past mistakes and work hard to educate the virtuous. Those who are loyal will not be forced.

Xuan Su suddenly took it away angrily. With the peach in her hand, she looked at the confused Fu Yao and said sincerely: Brother, I am very disappointed in you. This is how I always teach you. If someone offends me even one foot, I will repay him ten feet! . At this time, Liu Yuan appeared out of nowhere and slapped Xuan Su on the head. Her charming face was full of pain and sorrow, her fingers trembled and she said: You two bastards are really worthless! You always seem to be quite clever, but all the years of words and deeds I have given you, the Great Protector, have been in vain. Now you remember, I will not offend anyone unless they offend me. If someone offends me, I will eradicate it, you know?

Only if you lose hope first will you try to find a better hope.

The words and deeds we tell you through words and deeds are only guidance after all. What really benefits you is that you are the only one who can understand the wonderfulness of one person through your own journey.

Education is the respect and awakening of individual life, and the development and expansion of people’s inner potential. To allow children to grow healthily, they need a peaceful state of mind, a wise mind, and a kind of wisdom. Unique charm, all this must be based on tolerance! Every child is our angel, and every parent is the child's guardian angel. Let us treat our children with a tolerant heart, teach by words and deeds, demand more of ourselves, demand less of our children, and grow together with our children. !

As time went by, under my words and deeds, Lao Xiang began to talk in class and skip classes instead of doing homework. His grades dropped rapidly. Some people pointed out with dissatisfaction that Lao Xiang’s words really sounded like Lao Liu. The same ruffian spirit, every time I hear this kind of words, I feel a sense of accomplishment as if I have reached the highest level of a nurturing game——"The Minimum Story"

Educating children is an art The art of teaching by words and deeds

The dignity of a teacher moisturizes things silently, and teaching by words and deeds is like a spring breeze. He who accepts karma and resolves doubts without asking for feedback is respectable as a moral teacher in life. Classic quotes from parents

1. The reason why family is important is mainly because it allows parents to gain emotions.

2. My father’s life was bitter. I knew that my father was an orphan when I was a child. I never knew who my biological parents were. In order to repay my adoptive mother’s kindness, I worked a lot of hard work, but never said a word. Complain.

3. A father is a source of wealth, a brother is a source of comfort, and a friend is both a source of wealth and comfort.

4. Maternal love is the laughter that accompanies a lifetime, maternal love is the yearning that wanders around the world, maternal love is the concern and anxiety of children before their sick beds, and maternal love is the eager expectation for their children to grow up.

5. The family habit of giving gifts to each other helps to enhance the sincere friendship between parents and children. Its main significance does not lie in the gift itself, but in the concern for relatives and the hope of thanking relatives for their concern.

6. Father, I love you! Thousands of thoughts solidify in the air, and the wind blows towards you, carrying my blessings, my thoughts, and my extreme blessings. Thinking of you is my happiness, my beloved father.

7. Mom, my father and son usually take care of you. Today, let us work hard all day, and you can enjoy your blessing.

8. We will never forget our mothers, and our deep love for our mothers will never diminish because of the passage of time.

9. Mom, how can the small screen express all my love for you? I just want to call you from the bottom of my heart: Mom, I really thank you!

10. Mom, the wrinkles on your face are just the places where you once had a smile. In my mind, you will always be the most beautiful.

11. Care and warmth are still there. Revisiting the scenes of past life, feeling happiness or sadness, and absorbing nutrition and strength are compulsory courses that everyone cannot escape.

12. Father’s love is hidden in the rough hands, which worked tirelessly to support our home; father’s love is hidden behind the stern eyes.

13. Gratitude is the least of virtues, and ingratitude is the worst of conduct.

14. My mother is my greatest teacher, a teacher full of love and fearlessness. If love is as sweet as a flower, then my mother is that sweet flower of love.

15. There is no ourselves. The kindness of a drop of water is repaid by a spring of water. Caring for parents makes it our responsibility.

16. Maternal love is the way the mother wolf looks at the killed wolf cub in the hunter’s trap and howls in the moonlit night.

17. The sweetest word that human lips can utter is mother, and the most beautiful call is mother.

18. Mother's love turns out to be a kind of wine. After drinking it, it turns into longing. Mom, I will always miss you! A gentle greeting turns the blessings in my heart into the warmth of the sun and stays in your heart forever.

19. Bees are busy and working silently and diligently. Day by day, year by year, dedicate sweetness. Kind mother, I will never forget that deep maternal love.

20. Feel time, we know the flow, feel life, we know transience, feel friends, we know happiness, feel parents, we know deep affection, feel family affection, we know selflessness, say thank you to parents, May my parents have a safe life.

21. Father's love is as selfless as mother's love. He does not ask for anything in return. Father's love is an unknown and invisible feeling that only those who are attentive can understand.

22. Mother, by the small river to the east, are the series of footprints still there? On the dam to the south, is the flat boat I drew with my pen blown by the wind and submerged in the water?

23. Mother's love is a clear spring that keeps your emotions clear and clear even if they are covered with years of dust.

24. Maternal love is like a needle thread. As long as there is a small pinhole, it will flow like spring water and infiltrate your lonely, tired and even scarred heart.

25. Only mother is good in the world. Without heaven, there would be no earth. Without you, there would be no me. Thank you for everything you have brought to me.

26. The bees sipped honey from the flowers and thanked them Yingying when they left. The flamboyant butterfly believes that the flower should thank him.

27. Maternal love is the graceful gesture of the female eel always arching her middle body to protect the eggs in her belly while the oil is boiling.

28. Mothers all over the world are so similar! Their hearts are always the same, they both have an extremely pure and innocent heart.

29. There is a kind of love that is silent and serious. It is often impossible to describe it in detail at the time. However, it will make you feel more and more flavorful in the days that follow, and you will never forget it for the rest of your life. , it is the broad and boundless father's love.

30. Maternal love is like a landscape painting, which washes away the lead and ornaments, leaving freshness and nature. Mother's love is like an affectionate song, melodious and softly sung.

31. Having the moment of thought is happiness; having the joy of feeling is happiness; having father's love is also happiness.

32. Without the sun, flowers cannot bloom; without love, life cannot be happy; without mother, there are no poets and heroes, and there is no whole world. Mother is great.

33. Dear dad, dear mom, I will be your baby for the rest of my life. I will honor you and love you forever. We will always be a family if we love each other. I wish my parents good health, peace and happiness!

34. My father is very careful, responsible and conscientious in his work, and he is a man who goes forward courageously when encountering difficulties. My father has a serious look on his face, tall and majestic. Some people may look frightened, but in fact my father is a very easy person to get along with.

35. The love of parents is the greatest love in the world. Since we were born and came into this world, our parents have loved us forever.

36. In the eyes of parents, children are always a part of themselves, and children are an opportunity for their ideal self to come back again.

37. Dad, I really miss you. I will take this longing to recall your teaching and care for me. I will work harder, speed up my pace to catch up with the tide of the times, and succeed in success. The door embraces you.

38. Father's love and mother's love. Mother's love often makes you feel more familiar, but father's love does not exist. It appears silently by your side. It is not expressed externally, but that kind of love. Hidden, deep family affection.

39. Father’s love is actually very simple. It is like liquor, spicy and warm, which makes people easily drunk; it is like coffee, bitter and mellow, which makes people easily invigorated; it is like tea, plain and friendly, which makes people addicted without knowing it.

40. Time has burned your youth, but your care and encouragement will accompany me through the ups and downs of life. Use my heart to smooth the wrinkles on your forehead, and use my love to blacken the white hair on your head.

41. My mother will always be the harbor of my soul. I wish my dear mother health and happiness! Your love is a noble love, just giving, not asking for anything, not retroactively, not asking for favors.

42. I am grateful to my parents. If I were a painter, I would use various colors to depict the love my parents give me.

43. A mother’s love will never dry up. This shows that maternal love is very great and is always with us.

44. It is at our mothers' knees that we acquire our noblest, most sincere and most lofty ideals, but there is rarely any money in them.

45. Mother’s love is the ultimate destination for wanderers in the world. It is a clear spring that moisturizes the hearts of children. It accompanies the children’s drinks and sips, and is continuous and continuous. Therefore, in the children’s laughter and tears The lingering maternal love is blended into the shadow.

46. May my blessings be like a little flower, blooming forever in this warm harvest season, embellishing you with joy every moment.

47. The wind and rain outside torture me, but the warm sunshine inside the house warms me. Because you are in the house, I love you mom, forever and ever!

48. Life has made me sensible, and life has also made my parents much older. I feel distressed when I look at the wrinkles on my mother’s face and the white hair on my father’s temples. I look at them both smiling. , smiling so happily, they love me so much.

49. Maternal love is a simple, natural, rich and never-failing thing in a woman’s heart, just like a major element of life.

50. This is my dad. Sometimes he is funny and sometimes very strict. I love my dad, I love him very much, because my dad is a mountain!

51. In life, father's love is not as great as mother's love, it is small and ordinary; father's love is not as deep as mother's love, it leaves a shallow trace in life; father's love is not as beautiful as mother's love, it spreads in Every little thing in life.

52. There is only one best woman in the world, and she is a loving mother. There is only one most beautiful voice in the world, and that is mother's call.

53. Missing my parents is a long journey that requires children to say goodbye to a lifetime. On the road, there are no beautiful scenery, only deep thoughts.

54. The black hair is mixed with a few white hairs, the skin color is slightly dark, but the eyes are bright and bright. That is my father.

55. My father is a thick and solid book, which contains profound philosophy of life and has benefited me a lot. His love for me is deeper than the sea and higher than the mountains. No words can describe everything he has done for me.

56. Mother: You are comfort when I am sad; you are hope when I am depressed; you are strength when I am weak. You are a source of compassion, compassion, love and forgiveness.

57. Missing your parents, even if you lie in bed alone, you cannot let your body and mind settle down. You have to accompany your parents, walk far under the sun and moon, let your thoughts ferment affectionately, and use pain to Mature yourself and comfort your soul in heaven with your remembrances.

58. Pour a cup of tea, leave warmth, send a bouquet of flowers, express your feelings, make a phone call, send blessings, send a text message, resolve missing, smart feelings, pass on with heart, share love, Warmth is flying, and may my parents always be healthy.

59. When I was young, my mother’s love melted into my blood, sucking it, and it was sweet; after I went to school, I put my mother’s love in my schoolbag, and I carried it on my back, and it was heavy; when I grew up, my mother’s love was hidden in my pillow, Resting on it, you feel happy.

60. Even if you are a master of painting, it is difficult to outline your strong backbone, father; even if you are a literary master, it is difficult to portray your unyielding spirit; even if you are open to all rivers, it is difficult to include your father. Your love for your children!

61. After so many years, I know deeply that the person who loves me most is you, mother. Turn countless thoughts into infinite blessings in my heart, silently pray for you, and wish you health and happiness!

62. Parents, I am grateful for your kindness in raising me, and I will repay your kindness. Learn skills and become a person who contributes to society and mankind.

63. My father is somewhat feminine, very considerate and meticulous. He is a father just like my mother. My father doesn't smoke or drink, and he's very clean. He doesn't smell like a man at all.

64. Father’s love does not have the tenderness of extending, the warm words of consideration, the blessing that can be carried with you at any time, or the warmth that accompanies you day and night. Father’s love is A drop of tear sums up the whole language.

65. Father’s love is a ray of sunshine that makes your heart feel warm as spring even in the cold winter; father’s love is a clear spring that makes your emotions remain strong even if they are covered with the dust of the years. Pure and clear.

66. Love is delicate, and maternal love is selfless and great. I have to experience it with my heart and feel it to be qualified to accept this love, this priceless love.

67. If mother is the rain, then I will be the rainbow after the rain; if mother is the moon, then I will be the star holding the moon. Mother is the root of my growth, and I am your ideal fruit.

68. Missing is the fragrance of flowers for a season, spreading across the valley and enveloping you; blessing is the affectionate gaze, overflowing from my eyes to the bottom of your heart.

69. I am proud to have such a father. Although my family is poor, we enjoy it. They are not only my parents, but also my close friends.

70. After working hard for most of my life, toiling for most of my life, and giving for most of my life, my son has not been able to repay his parents well. I feel ashamed. I send a text message to greet the two elders. I wish you good health and a happy mood. , live a happy life!

71. Each happy moment is left to childhood, each warm memory is left to teenagers, each regretful rebellion is left to youth, each guilty concern is left to the warmth of the present. , a phone call, a few words of concern, warm the hearts of parents, and happiness will last longer.

72. Maternal love is the most selfless love and the most selfless emotion. It is like the dew of spring, falling in our hearts. Although it is silent, it nourishes the seedlings of life.

73. Thank you, my dear mother, you are like my guidepost, guiding me on the road all the time.

74. All outstanding and extraordinary people have outstanding mothers. In their later years, they respect their mothers very much and regard them as their best friends.

75. Father’s love is like a mountain! It will give me strength when I am in difficulty, it will give me direction when I am confused, it will give me confidence when I am lost, and it will give me congratulations and warnings when I succeed. Father's love is the great foundation that supports my life. The mountains!

76. I won’t do anything illegal, and I don’t have the guts. I just want to live a life outside, a life of freedom. Is there anything wrong with that?

77. The wrinkles on your forehead record your ups and downs, and your bronze face marks your steadfastness. Your life is a beautiful and moving poem.

78. You have not been written into a word, you have not been sung into a carol, but you are the land that gave me life and nurtured my growth. I love you deeply.

79. You have devoted your whole life to cultivating me. You have spent your whole life thinking about me, and you have never said: You love me. I feel with my whole heart, I hug with my whole body, and I shout with the loudest voice: Thank you, I love you.

Tu Lei's classic quotes about parents

1. For a man, there are three most important women in his life. They are mother, wife and daughter respectively. The mother gives him life, the wife accompanies him throughout his life, and the daughter is the continuation of his life. It would be incomplete without any part of it.

2. Although it is our partner who will accompany us throughout our life in the future. But none of this would be possible without our parents giving us life.

3. Without parents, we are just small cells and cannot survive.

4. If he cannot be a filial son, he will certainly not be a truly loving husband.

5. Parents’ nurturing of their children is enough for us to spend our entire lives repaying it.

6. We are always good at hurting those who love us, because we cannot hurt those who do not love us; we are always willing to be hurt by those we love, that is because we love them.