What are the taboos in falling in love? These are the 12 most taboo things in falling in love.

Falling in love is a very beautiful thing, especially for men and women in love. After work every day, they think about their lover’s smile and sweetness. If they are in a good mood, they will be more motivated to work. But not all love will make people happy, and some love will turn into distress, causing both parties to gradually drift apart. When one party discovers the other party's indifference, it is too late to wake up.

Guoguo and Dalei have been dating for two months after I introduced her. Guoguo is good-looking, outgoing, loves to eat, play and dress up. Dalei likes her style and feels that she is the one he likes. , and started a fanatical pursuit.

However, in less than two months, Dalei was already exhausted. He was no longer as ready to call Guoguo as before, which made Guoguo very puzzled. I asked him why, and he just Sorry to tell the truth:

It turns out that Guoguo is a carefree girl who likes snacks, karaoke, and is very passionate about fashion trends. Every time she goes on a date with Dalei, she always changes her outfit. Dalei went to eat, play and shop. At first Dalei actively paid the bill out of politeness. Often when the two of them are walking in the snack street, Guoguo will try whatever she sees that is delicious or something she has never eaten before. It is natural for girls to love to eat, not to mention that Guoguo will not gain weight after eating it, and Dalei is also happy to do so. Satisfy her appetite.

However, snacks don’t cost much, but shopping is expensive. Guoguo loves beauty and has high requirements for cosmetics and clothing. Every time he pays for it, it makes Dalei feel pain, but Guoguo is happy to see her. With a smile on his face, he gritted his teeth and bought it.

For people who are in love, one day is like three autumns without seeing each other. Dalei’s monthly salary is only more than 5,000. Calculated, the two went on dates 2-3 times a week, and each time they spent 300. Yuan or so. When I met Guoguo while shopping, a piece of clothing cost about 500 yuan. Sometimes she also liked to match it up or down, which made Dalei bleed more, make his body ache, and make him feel a lot of pressure. Psychologically, he loved and feared Guoguo. However, Guoguo never planned to pay for herself. Within two months of their relationship, Dalei's wallet was empty.

Ever since Dalei's financial burden increased, he felt that Guoguo was not a good person. Guo Guo is an employee of a company, with a salary of just over 3,000, but she is a moonlighting person. Dalei was a little worried that the two of them would not be suitable together in the future, so he broke up, which made Guo Guo very hurt.

From their relationship, I see that Guoguo acts recklessly. She also likes Dalei, but during the relationship, it is really wrong for Dalei to bear all the burden of her own life such as eating, drinking and playing. In Guoguo's mind, it is a wrong perception to think that Dalei will be willing to give everything for her if he likes her. Especially when the two are in the early stages of their relationship, I don't agree with spending each other's money. It is polite and gentlemanly for a man to pay the bill, but he is not your cash machine. Guoguo's self-confidence puts Dalei off.

There are many examples like this. There are reasons why the relationship between a man and a woman fails or the relationship between the two suddenly weakens during the relationship. As long as the cause of the matter is found out and both parties make changes or self-restraint, everything will be fine. Let the relationship take a turn for the better. 1. So what aspects of love between men and women can make each other taboo, thus affecting their relationship? 01 Treat the other person as a cash machine

In fact, this kind of girl is the most common. They like to pursue new things. When they want to get what they want but are short of money, they place their material needs on the person they are in love with. This kind of thinking is the most common. intolerable. It is recommended that both men and women have an AA system during the relationship. The girl takes the initiative to pay. In fact, most men refuse but look at you with admiration. Your positive behavior will add points to yourself. 02 Don’t ask a woman’s age

When some men and women first meet, after seeing each other’s appearance, their first sentence will be to ask a woman’s age. This is the most taboo thing. If the other party is an older young person in a relationship, she may not like you asking directly and clearly because age is a woman's privacy, and it is best not to ask when you are not familiar with her.

03 Commenting on others

When a man and a woman are in a relationship, it is important not to comment on other people’s faults in front of the other person. This can easily give the other person the illusion that you have an opinion or are dissatisfied with them. Because the speaker is unintentional and the listener is intentional, your unintentional words will cause the other party to guess. 04 Don’t ask about the other person’s income

People are very realistic nowadays. Whether it is an introduction or free love, when you are not familiar with someone, don’t ask how much the other person earns in a month. Some people say that when it comes to money, you become vulgar, making people feel that your taste only stops at material benefits. For young people who have a low monthly income but are starting out, they are resistant to this problem in their hearts. 05 Damage the other person’s self-esteem

Women tend to value self-esteem more than men. Women have very soft hearts and are easily hurt. Therefore, when talking to women, you must avoid asking about the other person’s past and saying things that hurt them. If you are conceited, it will cause the other party to be unhappy and resentful. 06 Laugh at each other

When men and women are together, never use a teasing tone to talk about each other's weaknesses, especially appearance. This is a person's first impression. Do not use the other person's weaknesses knowingly. This is against the rules. If you laugh at others, it will definitely make the other person feel uncomfortable. Regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, you must pay attention to your words and deeds, and speak appropriately. Be careful that bad things come from your mouth, hurting others, hurting yourself, and colding the other person's heart. 07 Swearing

Some men don’t pay attention to what they say, thinking that roughness can show their masculinity and attract women’s attention. However, they don’t know that this is counterproductive. Your words are unobstructed and dirty, which is very off-putting. Women should pay more attention. I find that there are also women who use curse words in their words, which makes people feel very rude. Therefore, when men and women are in love, it is most important to pay attention to civilized language and bring a sense of security and comfort to others. 08 Spreading and disseminating rumors about others

We all know that gossip is unreliable. Do not spread and disseminate unconfirmed news, because your words and deeds will bring trouble and harm to the other party, which can even make people sad. seriously affect family life. If you talk about other people's rights and wrongs in front of the person you are in love with, it will make the other person think that you are a person who likes to gossip. Since ancient times, "people's words are fearful" have been despised. 09 Compliments should be appropriate.

Everyone likes to hear good things, but being able to speak and be able to speak may not necessarily make people like to hear them. Boasting is the most undesirable. Women especially like to be complimented. If you are pursuing the other person, then you must give appropriate compliments, and be careful not to overpraise them. Everything must have a limit. If it exceeds this limit, the compliment will change its taste and make people feel disgusted. 10 Women should not dress too revealingly

Modern women like to pursue fashion and beauty. Especially when they are in love with their boyfriends, they must pay attention to their appearance. Male appreciation. In fact, no man wants the woman he is in love with to be judged as "indecent". 11 Being entangled with others

When men and women are in love, they must break up with their ex completely before starting a new relationship. Nowadays, there is the term "male bestie". I don't like such an intimate relationship between men and women. You must know that there can be friendship between men and women, but don't confuse romance with friendship, which will make the other party doubtful and cast a shadow over your love. 12 Avoid physical contact

When you fall in love to a certain extent, hugging and kissing are inevitable. Female friends must stick to some principled issues. They must not engage in excessive behavior until they are talking about marriage. When it comes to male requests, women cannot act impulsively and make themselves regretful. Men should respect their girlfriend's wishes and save the beauty on the most touching night after marriage.

So, when you understand these 12 taboos about male and female love, you will avoid these pitfalls.

2. In love, what aspects should men and women pay attention to to make their relationship more stable?

Falling in love is like planting a tree. It requires regular watering, fertilization, enough sunlight and suitable temperature, so that the tree will thrive. This requires men and women to communicate in a timely manner when they find problems when they are in love, and to care and take care of their lovers. Even if the relationship enters the passionate love stage, while keeping the love fresh, they must do the following three points: First, maintain financial independence

Now is the era of women’s rise. Women who have plans and confidence in themselves will never rely on men for their lives. When you become financially independent, men will respect you and like you more. When love is still immature, you must not have financial dealings with the other person. Just like Guoguo above, she blindly relies on Dalei to maintain her own consumption, which makes Dalei overwhelmed.

You must know that money is a sensitive topic. If you are not talking about marriage, don't spend unlimited money on the other person. Not only will you not get love, but you will also make the other person look down on you. When you are unable to spend too much, you should restrain your spending. Secondly, lovers should have a sense of distance

In the above example, Guoguo and Dalei dated too frequently. When falling in love, they can contact each other more at first, and do not necessarily have to meet. Nowadays, communication is developed, WeChat, voice chat , video chat can enhance feelings. Use your time while you are young to improve your self-ability, so that this kind of love will not be empty and boring.

Meeting less often does not mean not meeting at all. It is said that only distance leads to attraction. For lovers, not seeing each other for one day is like three autumns apart. It is precisely because of the infrequent meetings that your relationship retains a sense of mystery. Having a certain amount of private space for both parties will help the other party to better understand your thoughts. There are topics to talk about every time you meet. Talk about your own growth and work, let yourself relax, and give the other party some time. Wouldn't it be better to have a surprise? Again, don’t lose yourself when falling in love

Why do you say don’t lose yourself? Because many men and women completely give their time to each other during their relationship. They have no private time and space of their own, and even cut off contact with their best friends. This is the most undesirable.

If you want to have a long-term relationship, it is best to avoid getting along day and night. Because the most important thing in a relationship is to make the other person feel comfortable. If you make the other person feel tired, the relationship will end sooner or later. So give each other more space and respect, and you can win sweet love.

Not to get lost, but also requires women not to get trapped in each other's love. You must maintain your independence, live with dignity, have your own hobbies and interests, and have your own social circle. Only when your independence is recognized by the other person can you be liked by the other person.

Anyone who has experienced love knows that it is a very happy thing to have a long-term love with your lover. This kind of love is the longest. As long as you love the other person with your heart and focus, a sweet and happy love will definitely belong to you.