Will college couples separate after graduation?

Most couples will split up after graduation. A good friend of mine is a senior this year and recently broke up. Let's listen to the idea that college couples should separate after graduation.

(1) Because there are many practical problems.

Our plans are inconsistent. I want him to stay here, but he doesn't want to stay long. I want him to buy a house, but he doesn't want to buy it. His parents also want him to go back to his hometown for development, and his parents will not come here in the future. In addition, he is the only son of his parents. If he wants to support his parents, he can only go back.

(2) In the final analysis, it is because I don't love enough.

All the conditions he promised me can't be fulfilled now. Looking back now, I think it's only a matter of time before we break up, because neither of us loves each other enough to be willing to sacrifice unconditionally for each other.

I quite agree with one sentence: compared with challenging the uncertain future and taking on a heavy and trivial life, breaking up is too simple.

(3) Breaking up is really, really simple, so simple that he can delete my WeChat in a few words. I wonder if he ever felt grateful or guilty.

So I think that if two families can be together, they won't break up, but it's easy to be together. Both parents are experienced people. They know the way of the world, and they are even more unwilling to let their children live a hard and heavy life for a moment of love. How many parents are really willing to accommodate their children and sacrifice for their children to leave their hometown and live a lonely life?

Fallen leaves return to their roots, and so do people. When I was young, I wanted to work hard in big cities, but when I got older, my mind changed. Each of us can only change our destiny to a certain extent and within a certain range. Most people who really succeed in changing their origins live a hard life or pay a great price. It is not easy to change a person's origin, blood relationship, family and clan. These primary factors will firmly restrict us, so most people will stay in the original circle and marry people in the same circle in the end. This is the social reality and rules.