Don't misunderstand yourself.

1. Learn to refuse, no one will appreciate your kindness, they will only push their luck. Not only in the workplace, but also in life.

2. Others may not remember what you said, but they will always remember how they feel about you, so just ask more reliable questions and be good at listening.

3. Don't bring negative energy to people around you. I believe everyone likes you who is optimistic and cheerful, not a yellow-faced woman who only complains! More sunshine, more positive energy.

People who are too enthusiastic when they meet for the first time usually ask a lot, and only plain and moderate can last long. Freshness always has a shelf life. How to keep a lasting freshness depends on your emotional intelligence cells.

When you are most angry, you should also hold back the sentence that hurts the other person the most. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. Perhaps it is because of your words at this time that others have completely changed their previous views on you.

6. If you can't see through it, you are still good friends. This is how high emotional intelligence comes from, so we call it "no matter how smart people are, they are stupid"

7. The greatest confidence is that you don't need to prove yourself to anyone. Don't live by other people's standards, because everyone's standards are different and we can never be satisfied. Being the best of yourself is the happiest thing.

Never explain yourself to anyone.

1. Never explain yourself to anyone.

Because people who like you don't need it.

People who don't like you won't believe it.

2. Don't make someone a priority in your life, when you are just a choice in their life.

The relationship between people can only play its best role when they are balanced.

When we wake up every morning, we can have two simple choices.

Go back to sleep and keep dreaming.

Or get up and chase your dreams.

The choice is in your hands.

We always make people who care about us cry for us.

Always crying for those who will never care about us.

We care about those who will never cry for us.

This is the truth in life, strange but true.

Once you understand, it's never too late to change.

5. Don't make a promise when you are happy.

Don't answer when you are sad.

Don't make a decision when you are angry.

Look before you leap, and act wisely.

6. Time runs like water.

You can never touch the same running water twice.

Because the passing water will not come to enjoy every moment of life!

7. When you keep saying that you are busy, you will never get space.

When you keep saying that you have no time, you will never have time.

When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, your tomorrow will never come.

You don't have to prove anything to anyone in this life except yourself.

Seven, years through the body, leaving some deep and shallow sadness.

8. No matter what happened yesterday, no matter how embarrassed, helpless and bitter I was yesterday, it's all over. I won't come back and I can't change it. Let yesterday take away all the bitterness, all the tiredness and all the pain. Today, we should clear our minds and get back on the road! Chew out the fullness and satisfaction from the plain life and seek happiness and excitement from the busy work.

You don't have to prove anything to anyone in this life except yourself.

10. Like you, when there are fewer and fewer orders to dial on the phone and fewer people can chat all night, I also become flustered and nervous. Always worried about who to lose and who to leave. But in the end, you will figure out some truth and accept some reality. Before this world makes you independent and brave, it will always help you get rid of some unstable relationships and some people and things that hinder you and bind you.

Never fail your heart, because it can give you all the love.

12. It makes sense to judge a book by its cover. Character is written on the lips, and happiness is exposed in the corner of the eye. Rational sensibility is put in the voice, and sincerity and hypocrisy are reflected in the pupil. Standing posture shows talent and tolerance, and gait shows self-cognition. There is a recent mood in the expression, and the past years are in the brow. Clothing shows aesthetics, and hairstyle shows personality. Career depends on hands, cultivation depends on feet. Spiritual poverty will radiate from the whole body.

Thirteen, people who really love you will not be hot and cold for you; The person who really wants to marry you just won't make random promises. Once is a lifetime.

Fourteen, don't choose to be lazy at the age of struggle, only after a period of self-moving, you will become the best yourself.

Fifteen, soft-hearted people are not easy to be happy. Others hurt her or she hurt others, which made her feel uncomfortable.

Sixteen, anything, as long as you are willing, can always become simple. No matter what people say, I think my feelings are right. I like it naturally, but I don't like it for long. Never envy other people's lives, even if that person looks happy and rich. Never judge whether others are happy or not, even if that person looks lonely and helpless.

17. If there is such a thing as conservation, I hope you can make it up this time and stick to at least one thing. A person's greatest weapon is the determination to throw caution to the wind.

18. Many people come into your life just to teach you a lesson and then turn around and leave.

Nineteen, only when you are calm, the prosperity outside will not distort impetuousness, and you can listen to the true voice inside.

Twenty, people who like to talk about you are often people who don't know you.

202 1 classic introduction: never explain yourself to anyone.

1. Don't be a bad person, because there are always people who trample on your tolerance and accommodation as weakness.

Sometimes it's not that the ending is not good enough, but that sincerity is not treated well.

3. Live up to the past, be not afraid of the future, live in the present and move forward bravely.

Night is a lonely condiment, which can release your mood and fatigue all day.

You should try to be the right person instead of waiting to meet the right person.

6. Being understood is lucky, but not being understood is not necessarily unfortunate. A person who places his own value entirely on the understanding of others is often worthless.

7. Sleeping is also a relief. When you fall asleep, you won't be sad, angry, worried or lonely. This is when God gives you a brief amnesia.

8. If you give yourself a height, the world will always give you a measure. Whatever life is like, don't forget to smile. May you be your own sun, independent of anyone's light.

9. I've been meaning to tell you that I'm not doing well. I will still miss you often and dream about you often, but time has taught me to shut up. Because loneliness is the norm, many roads have to be walked alone, just get through it.

10. Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can't find it, some people can't find it, and some people can't find it.

1 1. Go your own way, cherish the people around you and do the things in front of you. This is all you can master now.

12. Fight for what you like, because there are not many people and things you can like.

13. Similar life, different wonderful. Life is like a dream, and the years are ruthless. Looking back suddenly, I found that living is a kind of mood. Whether you are rich or poor, whether you win or lose, everything is fleeting.

14. The rainy day in childhood is the most muddy, but it is the cleanest in memory.

15. Never explain yourself to anyone. Because people who like you don't need it, and people who don't like you won't believe it.

16. What forces you forward is not the faint light of the small target in front, but the abyss of reality behind you.

17. Single girls don't have to worry. Maybe the idea in God's mind is that I want to leave a special person for this lovely girl.

18. Please believe that there will always be people who put down their dignity to cater to you and put down their bottom line to accommodate you. Not everyone has a good temper, but loves you too much. I would rather be wronged and try my best to warm you.

19. I found that it is a good strategy in life not to talk when I have nothing to say and to remain silent when I don't know how to answer others' words.

20. People who may be too emotional will eventually have a bad life. Trust, dependence, nostalgia, and minute-by-minute abuse make you doomed.