A statement about self-care

How many things in the world are not official? I'm already busy. How should I take care of others? -Tianxiang Night Feather "Meteor" Who will have the leisure time? Are you stupid enough to save others when you are busy? -Meng Wude's "The Child is Rescuing"

Some things I didn't say, I thought you would understand, and some things I didn't do, because I didn't dare, and I didn't dare to think about you, because I was afraid that thinking about you would become a habit. I just want you to be happy every day and stop worrying. Although I am busy, I still care about you all the time. This is my most pitiful place. Can you understand why I am like this?

Today, the depth and breadth of spiritual hunger of ordinary people in China are unprecedented. Spiritual hunger can only be saved by spiritual food. This used to be the task of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism. Today, although the three religions are divided, even if they are complete, I am afraid they are not enough to cope with this brand-new spiritual crisis. Although the foreign words of intellectuals are colorful, this situation cannot be solved by rhetoric. -Yu Yingshi's China feelings.

strive/scramble for fame and gain

Farewell in the pursuit of profit, lose contact in self-care, and think of too many people and things after loneliness and boredom. You pretend that I'm acting, and you can make up sweet words and clever words to deceive the dead. It is not easy to live a bosom friend when there is a thief in front of you, and a bosom friend is not simple. I don't care about myself. How can I care about you?

Because of self-care, so heartless. -Hello, Kate.

No matter how blood is thicker than water, there are times when you can't take care of yourself. It's really just you.

Who works in the sun without sadness, trouble and pain? If I have to take care of myself, how can I share the pain of others? -Liang Fengyi's nine grievances.

I will still care about you when I am busy.

Because of self-care

And heartless, so I never ask too much of others, and don't expect too much of me. -I'm too busy to miss you.

I have no strength to comfort your feelings. I don't care about myself, but I have nothing to say.

Finally, there are only two people left to face. But Andy looked at Xie Bin for a while, turned around and said in dismay, I want to discuss with you the fears in our hearts and tell you with confidence that the problem you encountered is just pediatrics. You should listen to me and do what I want. But I just found out that I am too busy to overcome prejudice, put forward arguments and have the courage to say it-A Nai's Ode to Joy.

I am the most elegant woman in the world,

The most attractive man in the world. I am a raving old man, a good man who can't take care of himself, a distant and perverse villain, and a poet with endless poison. In fact, I am not a human being, I am a gust of wind, an ancient yellow sunset, a wild dog, I am the cold light of the new moon, a longing dream, a piece of air-dried loess, and an old tree that inhabits crows. I am a stranger who looks at flowers. Your small temper is no different from the death of the victim in that year, but in the end, either you are cruel and tearful, or one side is grovelling in return. At that time, everyone's stubbornness made a lot of words overflow at once. Fear of silence, fear of misunderstanding, fear of loss, especially sensitive. Sometimes, we are all too proud.

Life always creates all kinds of troubles that people can't take care of themselves, and all kinds of loopholes make people fall into it unintentionally. Sometimes we can recover quickly, and sometimes it takes years to adjust and make up for the wrong decision. It's really a trick, but ordinary people, even if they have a thousand words, who should they talk to?

I'm too busy to save others now. When I get well, I will cut candles at the west window.

Flowers bloom on our other shore, but we have taken care of ourselves.

Leaning against the bed, listening to the song and crying for you, I only have time to think at night. Since yesterday, I have decided that I don't want to argue with you anymore. I have taken care of myself. I want to learn to put up with your things and learn how to stop caring about me. I understand that there is some kind of tacit understanding that I must abide by the past. I always share my troubles and pride, but now we are becoming more and more polite. I know everyone doesn't like me very much, but I still live the same life.

1965438+February 2, 20091day, the North-South Peace Conference opened in Shanghai.

The meeting was off and on, and it was held eight times in all. During this period, both sides put forward a series of unacceptable conditions. Generally speaking, the south has put forward many conditions and is in an offensive position, while the north is generally passive and basically in a defensive position in exchange for the recognition of Xu Shichang's presidency by the south and the diplomatic failure and the May 4th Movement. -Deng Ye's "The Internal and External Game between the Paris Peace Conference and the Beijing Municipal Government" Everyone is struggling in the quagmire of society, hoping that someone can save him from the cage. However, I have taken care of myself, how can I care about your life?

You think I'm heartless, but I'm actually taking care of myself.

First, it is better to enrich yourself than to please others; It is better to laugh at life than to escape from reality.

Second, everything can be traced back to the source. There are no accidents in this world, only fate.

Third, to live, you should have a job that you cherish, and the people you cherish, they also cherish you, so that life is worth living. There are always other disturbances in the world of mortals, and those noises are not important.

Fourth, there are often some "small roles" in our lives, which do not occupy too much space in our lives. But incredibly, some people just want to keep these "small roles" in their hearts and say them. Even though things have changed, they still have to let these "little characters" haunt them for a lifetime!

When you can't take care of yourself emotionally, economically and emotionally, your ability to love is extremely limited, and your needs and demands for others make it impossible for you to really love. Control, dependence, fear and anxiety often occupy you, and unconditional love becomes your luxury.

Six, sometimes, too literary, just because of loneliness. The reason for loneliness may be that you don't have enough friends, but more often, your world is too small.

7. Now, in the future, whether you are poor or rich, whether you are in prosperity or adversity, please settle down every morning, whether it is sunny or dark, be a sunflower and bloom in the sun.

Eight, a lot of trouble stems from not being ruthless enough. Everything you do should take into account the feelings of others. If you always take care of others, who will take care of you

Nine, those who loved in those years, they got off early and gave you so-called harm. It's good to think about it later, at least at your most ignorant age, to teach you to love and let go. Now a person can be optimistic even if he is lonely. He would rather be single than easily waste his best self on the wrong person. Love is like driving a slow train. You can't wait. Fate will arrange to meet you. The right person for you is the best person in the world.

10. You think I'm heartless, but I'm a mess.

Eleven, get along with people with Oedipus or father complex, to find out the parents' marital status and love pattern, especially the communication deadlock, they almost completely copy their parents' pain.

Twelve, there are people who like loneliness, but they are fed up with disappointment.

Thirteen, meet more generous people, you will unconsciously be generous. The total falls behind others. Why? After a long time, I will become narrow-minded People, changing in the environment, are also their own environment.

Fourteen, there are only two emotions in the world that can be called romance: one is sympathy, and the other is forgetting each other; What we have to do is to strive for friendship with the people we love most and forget the people we love for the second time.

Fifteen, you think your boyfriend loves you very much! Funny, try asking his lol account and say he can rank. Try to unplug it when he is ready to be super amazing, try to delete the girls in his QQ, try to take his mouse, try to take his cigarette, try to step on his trouser legs, and you will find that this sentence of love for you is nonsense.

Sixteen, when you love me, I love you desperately. But if you don't love me, I will stop at once and never be a bitch. Love is what you want. When two people fall in love, it is called love. Only one person posted it, so it's better to forget the Jianghu before it's too late. Ordinary people have the romance of ordinary people, which does not need to be earth-shattering, but it lasts forever. Because what you remember most is not love, but the love that has been with you for the longest time.

Seventeen, the less the preset expectations, the more comfortable it will be to care for people.

When you give up control of your future, you can have more happiness.

Nineteen, the smallest good deeds are better than the greatest good thoughts.

Twenty, when you are present, you feel close and don't cherish it; When you leave, you will know that it is unique and precious far away.

If wrinkles will eventually be engraved on your forehead, you can only do it. Don't let wrinkles be engraved on your heart.

No one is a fool. It's just that sometimes, we choose to feel that little thing called happiness foolishly.

Twenty-three, there are two realms in life, one is silent pain, and the other is silent laughter.

Twenty-four, a person's life is worth understanding, even worthy of praise, which proves that he still has contradictions in his heart and is unwilling to compromise with life.

25. All victories are insignificant compared with the victories of conquering oneself.

Talk about the realistic mood of friends circle; Everyone is a clay idol who can't take care of himself.

1. Life never waves and says, "Come here, son, let's be reasonable." Life is just a big mouth that hits you on the ground and says, "fool, learn."

2, all affectation and tearing B, growling and depression stem from lack of money and love.

3, the face is the most wonderful part of the body, it can be large or small, thick or thin, and even dispensable.

Everyone is a clay idol who can't take care of himself. Don't expect someone to help you cross the river of reality.

5, you are tired, because you can't put down the shelf, can't bear to lose face, and can't solve the unhappy knot.

6, good temper is ground out, bad habits are used to it, and love to pick things up is idle.

7. Do women think that if a man says that I support you, you can plant flowers and grass at home, learn piano painting, practice yoga, go shopping with your sisters in the afternoon, have afternoon tea, get a manicure and apply your face? In men's minds, I raise you just to wash clothes, cook, take care of children, honor parents and carry on the family line.

8. No matter how big the day is, tomorrow is a trivial matter; The biggest thing this year, next year is a story; Everything must be happy, anyway, no one can leave this world alive in the end!

9. I thought that life was about cats eating fish, dogs eating meat, and Altman beating small monsters. The reality is that the mouse plays the cat, the sheep plays the wolf, and two bears play Logger Vick to death. It's not that we are not strong, but that the world is crazy!

10, never overestimate your position in others' hearts. In fact, you are nothing, not much more than you, not much less than you.

You think I'm heartless, but I'm actually taking care of myself.

First, don't be so lonely. Please believe that someone in this world is really living the life you want. I hope you and I will take the thinnest luggage and the richest ourselves and wander in time. -ice "lovely, touch your head"

Second, I finally saw the hand I wanted. Bright and dark. I found a gesture, not saying goodbye, not related to love, or related to the distance of the lights.

Third, everything can be traced back to the source. There are no accidents in this world, only fate.

Fourth, before we know the darkness of the day, the night will come grandly. In the meantime, the moment, bright and dark, love and not love, hope and despair, is dusk.

Five, one day. Memories and nostalgia will not last longer than our lives; But between me and that day, how long is it, how far is the space, how many other people's things, my things, your things, how many trains have been driven, how many people have left, and how many people have come back. Is that day mixed with many things, many people, many moments, many distances, you don't remember? I don't even know when that day will come. I won't say, for example, I forgot you in Tiananmen Square on April 5, 1976. I thought of you at that time, but I couldn't remember the feeling of things. So forgetting is meaningless, just like saying silence in words.

You think I'm heartless, but I'm actually taking care of myself.

7. People who come from the dust can understand the bitterness behind laughter and know that humor is the best way to face an imperfect life. -Chai Jing

Eight, many people think that there is no love when two people are as familiar as relatives. In fact, love is dull and it is the beginning of life. Strong love is often fluid, and loving you will also love others. So the important thing is not to fall in love with you, but to love you only. What matters is not how much you love, but whether you can love to the end. It's easy to find someone to fall in love with, but it's hard all your life. Loving the person you love is eternal.

I don't want to mention my past to others. Those lonely and barren people who are struggling in nightmares still leave time and slowly become indifferent. -How many meters?

10. If someone is nice to you, cherish it. Disappointment always accumulates slowly in small things. Don't wait until you have exhausted others' feelings to realize that you are wrong, and don't wait until others leave to wonder how he has changed.

Eleven, a good friend is a book that can open the world and create a better life; A friend is a mirror, and you can see your own shadow. Tolerance is the deepest virtue in the world.

Twelve, casually promised, it is better to seriously refuse. Commitment is limited and energy is tense. You can learn two other skills: reject people you hate casually and promise your sweetheart seriously.

Thirteen, girl, you must study hard, whether it is a junior college or an undergraduate course, choose a major with good employment or a major you like, and have a decent job in the future. Only in this way can you fall in love with a good boy in the future, and you can marry him with dignity, and his parents will respect you and treat you as a pearl.

Fourteen, time always saves the best person for you to the last. After all, like is like a gust of wind, and love is a long stream.

Fifteen, all choices have to pay a price, and no choice is perfect. If you choose bread, you may give up love; If you choose wealth, you may give up health; If you choose a career, you may give up your freedom. All your choices can only be made by yourself. Therefore, when choosing, you must be clear about your ability to pay. A choice is a price, and different choices make different lives!

No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start.

17. True courage has a contract system and premise, and this premise is righteousness. Courage is sometimes manifested as inner self-confidence and calmness under rational constraints. Courage without moral restraint is the greatest disaster in the world.

18. Happy people don't have everything, but know how to appreciate the beauty in ordinary life.

Nineteen, a person can be loyal to his well-thought-out choice, or he can be loyal to his heart without thinking. -Cangyang Jiacuo

Twenty, like is a kind of feeling, a kind of relaxed feeling, like light affection, like mellow friendship, prefer deep love. It has less blind obedience to love and more appreciation with a smile; Less suffering from acacia, more leisure and freedom; Less helpless ties, more harmonious trust; Less heavy responsibility, more romantic ease; Less unforgettable injuries, more rational silence.

Twenty-one, to get along with people with Oedipus or father complex, we should find out the status quo of parents' marriage and love patterns, especially the communication deadlock. They almost completely copied their parents' pain.

22. The person you think of when you are happy is the person you love; When you are sad, you think of someone who loves you.

23. Now and in the future, whether you are poor or rich, whether you are in prosperity or adversity, please settle down every sunny or dark morning and be a sunflower that blooms in the sun.

24. Give yourself the best gift: that is, go to the place you have always longed for. I'm fine, not bad, not surprised or happy, but everything is fine.

I try my best to keep my unhappiness and discomfort in my heart, and I never expect anyone to sympathize with me and bear everything for me.

Twenty-six, many contradictions between people come from arrogance; Everyone thinks that they are smarter, more knowledgeable and more correct than others, so they despise each other and contradictions gradually arise.