Break up and talk about not deleting.

Some people think that being an ex shows that both of you have insufferable shortcomings of the other, not to mention it is a very decent thing to keep in touch with each other. So it is the most normal choice to die after breaking up; But some people think that since we are together, if nothing else, there is always mutual affection. Say hello from time to time. If there is a suitable opportunity, or if both people are willing to make changes, the second time or so is also a good choice. To say the least, being an ordinary friend is also a disguised form. There are many ways in this world. Today, there is such a problem before us. My ex sent a text message in the middle of the night, saying that she missed you. Should I go back? Or, how should I reply? Bian Xiao thinks: Go back, go back with skills. Then, Bian Xiao will share with you several most suitable reply methods.

1, hope that you are well, old friend.

People who can be called predecessors have at least been accompanied for a while. It is cruel to cut off contact after breaking up, but it is not appropriate to give a relative response to each other's thoughts. Since we can recognize their differences, we should understand that any form of relationship repair is just repeating the same mistakes. The phrase "I hope all my old friends are well" not only expresses my concern for each other, but also gently reminds each other that the relationship between the two people is now an old friend. Since one of the two people is going to "cut the gordian knot" anyway, then the role will be played by you. 2. Have you been drinking? Late at night is the time when people feel lonely most easily. You two used to love each other. Maybe you have let it go, and he still has you in his heart. So I have to send you this short message in the middle of the night, when my inner defense is the most fragile, to express my thoughts in fear. Maybe I never imagined what kind of reply I wanted. However, you can't ignore the last message from the other party expressing your thoughts. An evasive "Have you been drinking?" Cleverly misinterpret each other's words as "this is just unconscious nonsense when you are drunk." Believe that the other person can also feel your rejection. It will always be on. Maybe at dawn, the other party will react. This kind of behavior is too inappropriate. If you give a positive response at night, it will be him who will start to worry about this problem the next day. Therefore, never give the same irrational response when the other party is irrational.

I'll take my boyfriend to have dinner with you another day.

After two people are separated, one party may still have the intention to give up, but when the other party has a new partner, it should not be disturbed again. This is not only a common custom, but also a feeling for former lovers: we met, perhaps because they were not suitable enough, or for some irresistible other reasons, but I wish you a better match in the future. As for the reply, it subtly conveys to the other party that it has found a new partner, but it also expresses that they are still friends, and I believe that the other party will be able to cheer up and move on with their new life. 4. Did you send it to the wrong person? If you want to be tactful, leave some feelings for each other. This sentence is very applicable. When a man says "I miss you", you don't know what kind of mentality he sent it to you. It may be true or it may be playing you. At this time, the safest thing to do is to give it back to him and leave a way out for yourself. For a silly woman or a woman who still likes each other in her heart, maybe at this time, she will be full of regrets and give her a "Are you okay"? But a really smart woman won't reveal her true attitude.

A love is over when it's over, and it's over when it's over. Don't procrastinate. Continued entanglement will only bring more harm to both sides. The modern feeling is that when it comes to breaking up, you must not hesitate. Everyone must remember that when the current person sends you this sentence, no matter whether the other person is sincere or false, don't talk to him about anything related to feelings because he is temporarily soft-hearted. Women are always more emotional animals than men. When they are hurt, thousands of emotions in the past come back to their hearts, hurting others and hurting themselves, which is not worth the loss.

There is always a discussion on the Internet that lovers who get back together after breaking up will eventually break up. In fact, there is no lack of truth in this sentence, because the core problem of "the same formula, the same taste" cannot be changed, and it is a time bomb that will explode at any time. But the ancients said that a person's own personality is the most difficult to change, and this sentence is very reasonable. Therefore, I hope that if we can't repeat the same mistakes, we will try not to.

For those who have been close, we should also keep the last trace of dignity. Although there are billions of people in the world, few people can really have a lifelong connection with ourselves. However, we can't clearly understand our relationship with people we used to know. For example, we can't make friends with different views. Similarly, for lovers who have been identified as unsuitable, we should also keep an appropriate distance. Then, at this time, the way we speak is very important. Don't be too ambiguous or too indifferent, so as not to hurt each other. So the above lists some key points for you on how to express your true wishes without hurting each other. So, are these technical answers provided to you today helpful to you?