The headline of omnipotence, because of being fat, how can we make ourselves not feel inferior?

It's my personal experience to talk about this matter.

I was a typical chubby girl in junior high school and senior high school. How fat was I? In the school sports meeting, I was the only girl who wore men's clothes, because I couldn't fit into the biggest size of girls' skirts. Walking in the echelon, I was alone, standing at the end of the girls' team, which was embarrassing. I wondered if it was all very graphic.

At first, I felt inferior, too. People always talked about being fat and gave me a bunch of nicknames, such as "cellar" and "stove pit", which made me feel uncomfortable standing in the crowd. So how did I overcome this?

what I do is transfer. How to transfer? Being fat is an established fact. I can change it, but I can't change it for a while. But I'm not useless. I have many other advantages. For example, I study hard, although I'm not a top student, but my grades are passable, especially foreign languages, which is my strong point. Every time I go to English classes or English-related projects, when I shine, everyone's attention gradually shifts from my "fat", and slowly I begin to build up my confidence. There is also my strong affinity. Fat people often get along well with boys and girls except eating. Everyone is willing to be friends with me, which is a great benefit. I don't care much about the word "fat", and it won't cause me much psychological burden.

Life will inevitably encounter one thing or another, which will affect our mood. We just need to find the right way and adjust it in time.

finally, it's necessary to lose weight. Obesity, which affects beauty, is only an unimportant point. The most important thing is that it will seriously affect health and life. A healthy body is fundamental. After I successfully lost weight, my confidence reached its peak. Looking at the incredible eyes of my former classmates, I am completely different.

I hope you can get rid of your misunderstanding, regain your confidence and lose weight successfully. Come on!

Hello, it's okay as long as your family doesn't dislike it and you can control your own diet. I used to feel fat when I just gave birth to a baby. I haven't lost weight in the past two years and I'm getting fatter. I don't know if I want to ask my friends out for a walk. They are too different. I eat at home every day and sleep with my baby.

Right, being fat can really make people feel inferior. When I was fat, There are many things that I dare not do, and I always deny myself that even if I am good at it, I don't want to communicate with others. I have always been closed in my own world. Don't girls like beautiful clothes very much? At that time, because they were fat, they didn't dare to go to the mall to buy clothes. It was very uncomfortable to see people's eyes. Even if people didn't mean anything, they would think a lot and be particularly sensitive because of their inferiority.

At that time, I was ignorant. There was always a boy in the class who was the type that all the girls in the class liked, but he was fat and self-abased, afraid to approach, and afraid to make eye contact with others. Because of inferiority, I always hide. Later, after reading a lot of chicken soup, I decided to lose weight and get rid of my inferiority complex. I went running and dieting, but it was really difficult for a fat man to stick to it. So I went crazy looking for all kinds of slimming products and looking for shortcuts, but it didn't work. Later, by chance, I saw a slimming product recommended by my sister. I wanted to try again. This time I had no hope, and neither did I.

In short, I am very grateful to that little sister, and she will always encourage me. Now I've lost weight, and my inferiority has slowly changed. I can go shopping with my friends with a smile on my face, and I can take the initiative to talk when I see a boy I like, and I won't shy away from talking to others. I know that I am slowly changing, and I am very happy. So, if you are fat, you need to lose weight. You don't have to look for shortcuts like me, because my perseverance is not strong enough. You can find the method that suits you best. It is a three-point poison. I believe that every fat person is a potential stock. You should refuel. When you really lose weight, you will find that the world is beautiful and the air you breathe is clean and comfortable.

well, haha, people often say that I'm fat and that you look fat. I'm used to it now. Now I'm told that I ate your meat or the meat grew on you. Why should I lose it when I finally ate it? It's all accumulated by money. Is it easy for me to eat carrots ... Don't worry too much. I think the easiest way to overcome inferiority or reduce this kind of psychology is like this. Listen more, watch more and move more. That's basically what I do. But in the end, to tell the truth, it's best to lose some weight, because all kinds of diseases are coming ... Try more, take your time and wish you success.

I don't know why you are getting fat, whether you don't control your diet or not. If it's the former, then lose weight. The source of your inferiority is obesity, so losing weight will solve the root of the problem.

The world always has deep malice towards fat people. "I never dare to take pictures of my whole body", and people around me always point fingers and may suffer from depression when they are serious, so they are fragile and vulnerable; "You can't buy suitable clothes, you can only wear sports clothes". The most annoying thing is that if you wear too much in winter, people will say that you are afraid of the cold with so much fat. If you wear less, others will say that fat people are anti-freezing! When you take the elevator, if you are the last one, you never dare to go up, sit in a plastic chair, or weigh yourself in front of others.

After losing weight, you will find yourself braver and your life will be richer. You will find that everything you want can be achieved by yourself. Going to the mall to try on clothes will not worry about not being able to wear them, and the success rate of blind date will be much higher. You will find that you no longer feel inferior, no longer force yourself, and become more confident. This kind of self-confidence will fill all your life, including interpersonal communication and work, and you will find that you are no longer useless and will trust yourself more.

So you should start exercising and dieting, don't stay up late, and don't drink any carbonated drinks. Only by living a self-disciplined life can we get the so-called freedom. To take a step back, obesity always increases the probability of getting sick, and you have to lose weight in order to get your own body. Sometimes people who compromise their weight are actually compromising their lives. Are you willing to do this?

In fact, people have been discriminating and laughing at people who are not fat in appearance, but people who obviously don't like being covered in fat and are unwilling to make changes. You can't control your weight, but you should control your laziness. So lose weight from now on. When you lose weight, you will find a different world. When you ask this question, you actually have the answer in your heart.

Being fat is not the original sin, but the cognition of being fat is. Everyone has the right to be thinner and more beautiful, but that's not to light other people's eyes. Girl, I hope we can all accept ourselves frankly, and then try to pursue a better self.

In late autumn in northern cities, a rain is enough to bring the temperature back to winter.

In the world where long trench coats are the mainstream, a few shorts and short skirts will suddenly break in. The slender legs are like lotus roots that have just been selected, and they look graceful and aggressive.

It is said that fat people are cold-tolerant, but most of them are thin people who feel spring first.

A few friends who are engaged in slimming projects are particularly active. They madly advertise in the circle of friends: "It's the season of revealing meat again, and there are three reasons for you to lose weight: 1. Your best friend is thinner than you; 2. rival in love is thinner than you; 3. My boyfriend's ex is thinner than you. "

The inferiority complex about being fat comes more from being close to yourself or joking between your friends intentionally or unintentionally, or from the "dislike" of the person you like. Every fat man has a period of inferiority complex. I can't tell you how not to feel inferior, and there is no good way to resolve such a stage. It can only be said that you can look at your own advantages, maximize your advantages or maximize your advantages as much as possible.

Being thin is a standard of aesthetics in this era, but it is more or less thin. Not everyone should have a fixed standard, girls can't exceed 1, and boys' 13 is enough, but they are healthy. In the past two days, I heard a story about a girl who tried very hard to lose weight and control her weight because of her obesity. Later, I lost weight and my health was not very good. I heard that I went to the hospital for liposuction later. I lamented that I had given these money to snacks and ate whatever I wanted. Everyone has his own personality and weight, and there is no need to adapt to society forcibly.

I hope you can live happily, and it's not bad to be flexible and fat.

Fat people have an inferiority complex. If you want to overcome this inferiority complex, you must find the root cause.

why are you getting fat? Solve your problem mentally and physically.

First of all, you should see a psychiatrist, and you will get psychological comfort through the doctor's counseling and treatment.

Secondly, whether you are born or acquired, stick to the treatment through the plan given by the doctor.

Finally, you should communicate with friends and others more. Taking a walk, exercising and listening to music when you have time can make you feel relaxed and forget this inferiority complex.

I wish you a speedy recovery from your inferiority complex.

Inferiority means that you despise yourself, look down on yourself, can't accommodate yourself, feel ashamed of yourself, and often put yourself in an inferior position. Be yourself and have confidence. How many fat people give people the first impression that they are cute and simple and honest, which makes people like them.

Actually, being fat has nothing to do with inferiority complex, which is a matter of personality. Being fat is only a reason for inferiority complex. To overcome the inferiority complex,

Inferiority is a manifestation of the weak, not necessarily because of his weak ability, but because his heart is not strong enough. Look at what advantages he has and give full play to his advantages.

Being fat is not the root cause of inferiority complex, but the root cause of inferiority complex is self-denial.

so the first step is to accept yourself first. This is half the battle, and then I can easily change myself and affirm myself ~ < P > Accept myself, make progress every day and live a good life, which is better than unhealthy thinness and struggling with my weight every day.

Of course, it is better to have a positive attitude and a good figure. When you can't have both, mental health is more important.