What happened to the people around you who were arranged by your parents?

Live a life of muddling along. As a bystander, I don't know whether to sympathize with them or criticize them when I watch them get married for the sake of marriage, have children for the sake of having children, and live for the sake of living. I still can't understand what makes them willing to lose themselves, become puppets, and perform according to the plot set by their parents. One performance is a lifetime.

One of these arranged marriages is my best friend. I tried to stop her and failed. Now, our distance is getting farther and farther. This distance does not refer to geographical distance, but to the distance between hearts.

We once agreed to work together to find a small world of our own in a foreign land. At that time, her fate was better than mine and her career development direction was better than mine, but she was arranged by her parents to return to her hometown. There are still great differences in lifestyle, job opportunities and career development among small counties and cities, which will lead to differences in concepts and values. Nowadays, apart from recalling those years, my boudoir and I have no other topics, so we have less and less contact. Occasionally, we can only tell each other about our living conditions.

From her words, I can hear her helplessness and misfortune. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. A man with three children is also responsible for eating and drinking Lazar. Her life can only be centered on the family, without any personal space. She said that she wanted to change, but at the sight of her three children, she felt that she had no way out but to maintain the status quo.

I really wanted to encourage her to make up her mind to give herself some space and live for herself, but I never said it. One can never change one's life by relying on other people's opinions. Only when his own thoughts change can he change his life.

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I am Ann Bunny, a happy and emotional person, and the words of gratitude let us meet!