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SMer’s marriage

I have wanted to write this article for a long time, but I have been lazy. Until the wedding day is approaching, I will become the most despised married slave S in the industry. Before doing it again, I will write something humane.

However, this is my family’s opinion, and it should be used as a reference. I will just give it a try and be fair.

First of all, let’s talk about a way of getting along with master and slave that everyone likes, which is wife-slave husband-master, or husband-slave wife-master. The former is easier to implement, the latter is slightly more difficult. Anyone who knows me knows that I do not agree with wife-slave marriage. The detailed reasons can be found in my previous Weibo. But it is undeniable that such a marriage will not carry any moral risks. As a young couple, no one can care about how we like to play. However, this kind of marriage is very similar to the marriage of children of the Hui ethnic group. I have a friend of the Hui ethnic group, and his wife is from the Hui ethnic group. I once asked out of curiosity, why don't you marry XX (one of his ex-girlfriends)? I feel like she is more suitable for you. He smiled. For people like us who have special beliefs, it is better to find people of the same race, so that we can eat more easily. I asked him if this was a common phenomenon, and he said that it is common for parents to be very religious. This sounds ridiculous, bringing together two people who may not actually be suitable for a meal issue. And if the basis of marriage between SMers is for the convenience of sex, then it is more or less a pity. However, after all, there is no moral hazard in this model. For some SMers who are unwilling to fight against this society and just want to conform to the public, this is undoubtedly a very good choice.

I personally think that the best way for masters and slaves to get along with each other in marriage is to live together. What I mean by cohabitation is not just short-term captivity, but long-term or even lifelong cohabitation. If I had entered the industry a year earlier, I would definitely have chosen this method. I would travel around the world with my little M, live together when I had free time, and go on vacation together when we were free. Dabao has mentioned it more than once I really miss the days when we went to the beach for vacation together. There is no moral hazard in this model. The only pressure comes from the family. As long as you resist the pressure and don't take the secular route of marriage, then the two people will be really suitable and will stay together for a long time. Some people may ask, what if the man changes his mind midway. Let me say one more thing about this, women may change their minds. But the essence of change of heart has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is not a piece of paper with a marriage certificate written on it. Marriage is the promise of long-term companionship. If you want to change your mind, you can still change even if you have a marriage certificate. If you don't change your mind, nothing will change. However, this model has a minor weakness, which is that it requires a certain amount of economic backing. Otherwise, no matter how good the master and slave are, they will have to give up if they have to worry about three meals a day. Currently, the only people I know in the industry that use this model are the Ye family. It seems that Ye Jingyi is still showing off her kindness and affection in various ways. As for why they don’t get married after being together all their lives, please refer to my previous long Weibo post about wife slaves.

Next, I want to talk about SMers who are secretly married, that is, people like me. Alas, people like us will be scolded by others. There is nothing we can do about it. Some people just like to stand on the moral high ground. I'm not excusing myself, it's just that some people simply can't understand why they go out to engage in SM activities behind the back of their wives or husbands even after they're married. People have basic desires. If you are hungry for three days, you will put aside your morals and steal steamed buns from the canteen. There is a lot of secular pressure in today's society. If you can't find a suitable SMer to marry, and you are forced by your parents, family, society, or even yourself to marry a non-SMer, then it will be difficult to avoid a hidden marriage. To such colleagues, I just want to say, please take good care of your family, and then, if possible, satisfy your desires through safe channels. I have met some SMers who have hidden marriages, and they all face this problem calmly. Because I have just started to face it, sometimes it is very uncomfortable. However, I gradually began to convince myself to accept it, and became calmer. . Take care of your family.

As for some friends, they said that they should quit the circle before getting married. I just want to say, you can try it. Attributes will not disappear automatically after exiting the circle. Unless you are a fun player, I still have reservations about quitting the game. It’s not Zhao Yun, he can advance and retreat freely

There is another thing that I just thought of some time ago. A LES friend told me that there is often a pattern in the gay circle called physical marriage. In other words, in order to cope with social pressure, a GAY and a LES get married, and then the two people have their own relationships outside. I think if there is a chance, SMers can try it under strong social pressure, male S and female S, male M and female M.

Of course, this is just an assumption, because I think the premise of this marriage is that both parties have known each other before and understand each other, at least they are friends.

Of course, there is a better way which is not to get married. This requires more courage and pressure resistance.

In fact, since you enjoy the pleasure that others cannot enjoy, you are destined to live a life different from others. I wish you all the best