Tell me how I found out my wife was cheating on me.

There is a 38-year-old man who has been holding something in his heart. His virtuous wife is unfaithful to him on weekdays. After the derailment, a series of unexpected and serious consequences occurred.

He struggled for a long time in the quagmire of forgiveness or not, and finally came to my side when he was about to suppress his internal injuries. He said, I'm afraid my feelings will go crazy if I don't find a place to vent. The following is his oral record, without any polishing.

It's sad to say.

My wife and I are childhood friends, and outsiders seem to be a match made in heaven. Even we will encounter this problem.

We all come from the countryside. (I won't say the specific person. I still have a sense of privacy protection, and I can't be recognized and laughed at for the rest of my life. ) We grew up next door, playing with loaches, catching loaches and stealing other people's seedless melons. We did all the good and bad things together and gave each other our first kiss and first night. I have long realized that the other person is the one who will accompany you for life.

After graduating from high school without going to college, they went to Guangdong to work together. At the age of 22, she got married naturally under the care of her parents and soon gave birth to a son and a daughter. Later, my wife's sister and brother-in-law also went to Dongguan to work with us.

We have a good relationship, have a good baby and never spend money indiscriminately. After years of hard work, we saved a sum of money to buy a three-bedroom apartment in Dongguan, and the children also took it to school. In order to relax my wife, I asked her to concentrate on taking care of the children at home and work outside to earn money. She is also very attentive to her children, doing laundry and cooking well, and is a competent mother.

Not long after, my wife's sister and brother-in-law also bought a house in our same community and took the children from their hometown. In this way, our children often play together, and our adults often move.

However, after being a full-time housewife at home, my wife's mood was obviously not as good as before, and she began to indulge in mobile phones and dramas. I understood her boredom and didn't say anything about her. In order to facilitate her to catch up with online dramas, I specially bought a desktop widescreen computer (she is not tired of looking at her eyes), and she is extremely happy.

But it didn't take me long to find out that she had a problem.

Things should start with the home network. In order to prevent others from surfing the internet, I bound the addresses of several home devices, including the mobile phones of friends who often play, and then turned off dhcp. Then one day I went on a business trip for half a month. When I came back, I found that there were many strange mac addresses in the binding list. (Note: Orange Jun doesn't understand this either. Based entirely on his story. )

My wife is a computer idiot. Ask her why there are so many strange addresses. She vaguely said that a friend came to do it at home, but she didn't understand anyway.

I deleted this address without saying anything. But I was a little confused, so a month later I pretended to be on a business trip and said I would stay outside for three days. Before leaving home, the desktop computer didn't turn off the power, only the monitor.

As a result, at my friend's house that night, I connected back with a remote desktop and found that the address had been filled in again. I immediately felt bad, so I took a taxi home to see what was going on.

I got caught red-handed.

What makes me angry is that that man turned out to be her brother-in-law!

Only then did I know that her brother-in-law specially bought a phone card and contacted her with a mobile phone.

Only he and his wife know the phone number of this card, which means his mobile phone address is not restricted by me. I saw this strange number outside, and I don't know who it is. I found out because her brother-in-law is also a computer idiot. He only uses this mobile phone for the convenience of contacting his wife.

At the moment I knew the truth, I almost had the urge to kill him.

My wife was scared by me and cried and begged me for forgiveness. His brother-in-law begged me in front of me that he was possessed by a ghost and knelt down and begged me not to tell my family all this.

Until now, I don't know how to get her brother-in-law to leave home. I should be stupid, and then I am at a loss. Anyway, I opened my bow and slapped him a few times. He didn't fight back and then slipped out of the door before I was too slow.

After I calmed down, I thought of divorce. As a result, my wife jumped off the building as soon as she heard it. I'm afraid of death. After all, there are two children. Although she cheated, she didn't deserve to die. I also thought that if we really divorced, it would be exposed. Sooner or later, outsiders will know and others will be surprised. The relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, how can they divorce? Those people in my hometown are quite gossipy, passed around and eventually ruined their reputation.

Even if he doesn't commit suicide, after the divorce, his brother-in-law can't divorce his sister and marry her. Besides, she will face the fate of being abandoned. Sisters are bound to fail, will be spurned by their families and our whole family, and will always look down on them in front of their children and relatives.

What's the difference between this consequence and killing her?

After all, I am a soft-hearted person. Counting the feelings from childhood, plus the marriage of 16, my feelings with her can be counted as decades, so even if my heart ached, I couldn't beat that heart.

But you should know that the biggest weakness of men is not lack of money and career, but being cuckolded. This is the torture of killing without bloodshed. I can be nice to my wife, but I can't be nice to her brother-in-law!

After I recover, let him compensate mental damage compensation for me. It's not much, 300,000 yuan. He has to pay. He said timidly that he had spent all the money to buy a house, and there was not much money left in his hand, which made me very angry and threatened him to give him a week to raise money, or he would kill his family!

He looked at me in horror and begged me to let him go. Looking at him like a bear, I was angry and despised. Didn't you consider the consequences when I said you did that? If I sleep with your wife, will you leave me alone? Are you going to give me your wife to enjoy the resources now?

After giving him the deadline, I threatened that he had installed a pinhole camera at home. Even my wife doesn't know about it. If I don't see the compensation after a week, then send your nude video to all my acquaintances and friends in my hometown. Anyway, I have no dignity, and it doesn't make much sense to want that face. As for your shame, what will your children think of you then? Do it yourself!

Unexpectedly, three days later, the news of his death came that he committed suicide by jumping off a building! He jumped from the fifth floor of his house. When her wife and sister called to report the funeral, I didn't even look at it. I heard it was horrible, and brains exploded everywhere.

Her sister never knew what made him commit suicide.

But I know he is afraid that his scandal will be exposed, especially because he knows he can't get the money. He has always been a coward, which is why I can't figure out why my wife would roll with him.

Seeing my sister crying her eyes out with her child in her arms, my heart was full of sadness, but I didn't feel the pleasure of revenge. My wife was also frightened by all this. After helping my sister deal with these things, she fell ill. She is weak all day and won't talk to her.

On one hand, I regret threatening her brother-in-law. In fact, I really don't need to ask him to take out the money. It's just an evil spirit. As for my wife, I'm angry with her for going away with him. Maybe I can forgive her for cheating with a garbage collector, but cheating with relatives is really unforgivable.

If you forgive me, will this relative still come and go? Where did you say your face went?

But it has been done, and it can't be done forever.

You can't publicly expose your scandal. Playing dumb is always king. I am worried about my wife's depression now. I can't untie the unhappy knots in my life, even hers.

I used to wonder why she cheated, but now I just want her to get back to normal as soon as possible.

When I slowly calmed down and recalled our childhood feelings for decades, I believe that she was just confused for a while and didn't really abandon her family and children. I pushed her too hard and pushed him too hard. Now I have no hatred, only unspeakable regrets.

This is destiny. At the beginning, we all wanted to protect a perfect life, but life was always incomplete. I just hope this secret will be revealed and no one will mention it again.