He has a strict mouth, but he is obedient to his children in behavior. Parents will eat if their words and deeds are different.

Parents remember! Children's demands are both reasonable and unreasonable. When judging that the child's request is unreasonable, no matter what tricks the child plays, he should be resolutely rejected with a gentle attitude. Only in this way can children's awareness of rules be established and children can develop good habits of self-discipline and obedience.

A friend once complained to me that my baby (her baby is over three years old) really can't do anything about him. I saw an Altman toy in the supermarket yesterday, and I had to buy it. I explained to him that there are many Altman toys at home, so I can't buy any more this time. I just don't listen. In public, I roll around, crying and making noise. What a pity!

I asked: Did you buy it?

"Yes," my friend replied.

I then asked: Is he often so disobedient?

"Yes, as long as you don't give him anything, you will always roll around and cry." The friend replied.

Who is responsible for my friend's disobedience? !

It is clearly a friend's own words and deeds that lead to being eaten by children!

In fact, crying is not harmful to children. Which parent hasn't experienced rolling and splashing water? There is no shame in waiting for him to cry quietly.

Therefore, parents must hold their breath when they meet their children's unreasonable demands: no matter what tricks the child plays, you can't satisfy him, because you are too kind-hearted and too soft-hearted, otherwise you will spoil, and spoil will not reach the quality of true love! (except that the child has a physical illness)

When rejecting a child, the language can be gentle, but the attitude must be firm! In this way, the child will know that crying and other means can't achieve the result he wants, and he will be obedient next time!

For example, when my daughter was a child, as long as she didn't meet her unreasonable demands, she would cry and shake the floor. I also called to stop her, but it was useless. Later, I changed my strategy. Whenever she cries, I will gently say that mom thinks your crying voice is a little low. Could you speak a little louder? Or the whole building can't hear you.

After a while, the crying must have subsided (without stage and attention, she would be bored), and then I took the opportunity to come over, give her a step, stop immediately, and then tell her why she couldn't meet her requirements.

Postscript: parents, strict mouth and consistent behavior, our baby is much smarter than we thought! Otherwise, you will be eaten by the baby if you are not careful, and you deserve it! [I want to be quiet]

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