How hard is it to find a lover?

Many people have lovers, and more than one. Different periods, or many at the same time. But not for a long time. Why? Some people say that if you play enough, you will be as tired as your lover if you stay for a long time. Is it? Of course not. Because I haven't found the right person, it's only a matter of time before I score.

I have seen and heard too many stories about lovers, and I feel that I haven't found the right person yet. Looking for a lover, looking for love, not people. This feeling is not necessarily love, not necessarily passion, but another emotion besides love, an indescribable emotion. Once you find the right one, two people will not be separated.

All breakups are due to not meeting the right person. Once the novelty has passed and no one looks pleasing to the eye, it is not a lover. A true lover will not change because of quarrels and time. An old couple have been together all their lives. Of course, they had quarrels and temporary separation, but they were together all their lives. Not make do, not make do. Two people have been in love all their lives. They are the best lovers.

But many people have been trying all their lives, and lovers have found one after another, but there is no suitable one. Sorrow, pain, torture, repeated. I walked too fast and didn't stop, thinking about myself seriously. What kind of person do you want?

In fact, many people are just looking for a sexual partner, far from being in love. Two people misunderstand, quarrel, separate, hate and become strangers because of a trivial matter. This is not a keyword that couples should have. After sleeping for a while, you will show boredom, silence and drift away. This is not a relationship that lovers should have. You ask a word in the past, and the other party explains it in every way. There's no need to explain. There is nothing wrong with both of them, but neither of them has found the right one. Either two people choose each other when they are lonely, or they just want someone to vent when they are bored. This has nothing to do with love.

For such a breakup, there is no need to suffer at all, because neither of us really loved each other, just the result of impulse. What's so good about it? Even if it's painful, you shouldn't sleep for that long, but you don't understand, but you sleep very confused.

Of course, when I say this, there will be some people who will object: we are real. All right, admit that you are true. Since it's true, tell me how you really feel. Do you trust each other completely? Have you ever doubted it? Did you listen carefully when the other party explained? Do you really believe it? How much position does the other person occupy in your heart? Are you willing to do anything for each other? Will the other person be willing to do everything for you? If not, don't say it's true. A lot of questions. Why don't you stop? A little thing can separate you. Do you dare to say that you are real? How dare you say you really love each other? Do you believe what you said? Do you still think you are true love? Don't be too impulsive, calm down and think seriously, you will scare yourself into a cold sweat.

Of course, there are also many people who choose to be single all their lives, not because they don't believe in love, but because they can't guarantee that they will be kind to each other and trust each other 100% for the rest of their lives. Most importantly, they dare not spend their lives with someone they don't fully trust. When two strangers are together, there is still some separation. How many people in this world who have no career in mind can really trust each other completely?

Of course, it is very rare for those who are not looking for it outside marriage. How many people can really use their feelings? Mostly just for comfort and freshness. After a long time, I will still get tired of each other. Don't talk about eternity. If you can tolerate each other snoring, it will burn high incense.

This is also the reason why many people would rather be plain than find a lover. Because TA can't guarantee that she loves each other very much, let alone for a long time, the most important thing is that the person ta is looking for can satisfy herself forever, which is really too difficult. This is not only to ask yourself how good you want to be, but also to ask the other person to be almost the same as yourself. This is too difficult. One is a lover. However, most people only have a temporary comfort to each other. To put it bluntly, it is to insert it for a while, recite it for a while, and then disappear for a lifetime. That's all.

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