A letter from a sad woman to her boyfriend

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A letter written by a sad woman to her boyfriend 1

Dear:

I'm leaving.

I'm really happy. I can stay with you these days. I can see that you are very happy, but it also brings you trouble. I've been very careful and serious about everything I've done for you these days, even if you don't say anything. I understand! I never ask for anything in return for your efforts, just a smile from you.

Keep the things you don’t know and the things I don’t know in your heart. This will only make you more painful. You are most afraid of trouble. I know, so you have been working hard to forget. Me, I shouldn't appear in your life at this time and disturb you. They say that loving someone means making them happy, so I don't want you to be sad or suffer, so I can only choose to leave.

I don’t want to meet you and then say I’m leaving. I don’t want to experience a separation that is more uncomfortable than death, and we will never see you again! Just treat it as the last letter I write for you, I don’t know Will you see it? Because I really don’t know what else I can leave you to eat less instant noodles and junk food in the future. It’s not good for your health. Be sure to pay attention to safety when traveling on business. I’ve already broken a few of my glasses.

Although these few days were short, they made me feel like home, warm and harmonious. But in the end I failed. The only thing that succeeded was that I pretended to be very good in front of you and smiled very much. Frankly, a strong woman will cry, but she will never admit defeat. I want to leave you the best of me. That’s enough. I will be good in the future and be grateful for everything around me. You once said you would give me stability for the rest of my life. .

I ask you, if you have a next life, what will you choose to do? You said you would be a tree and quietly watch the changes in the world until it dries up! If I had to choose, I would do it your glasses. Through it we can see the whole world, live and die with you.

Remember what you said, I will wait for you in the next life, and you are not allowed to leave me again. We use our whole lives to interpret this happiness and become each other's attachment. We leave this sad city and the familiar you, I don’t know where to go, and I keep thinking, as long as you can be happy!

In every city I go to in the future, I will write I love you there, on the car window or on the tree. . Every day from now on, no matter how happy, sad or wronged I am, I will write it down in a small notebook and treat it like telling it to you. It should be said that it is you in the next life. Then I will still have to settle accounts with you.

If I miss you, I won't bother you, I will put a circle on the calendar. Keep drawing,

Ah! I feel so relaxed now. I don’t have to wash your socks or clothes anymore. I don’t have to worry about what time you will come home every day. I have to prepare meals for fear that you will be hungry when you come back. , the water for washing your feet is boiled, and you won’t have to waste time eating. From now on, I won’t be your free coolie. I won’t have to dry-clean your hair, pound your back, or squeeze you into a big bag.

Don’t worry about everything about you, don’t worry about everything about you.

Xiao Hei, I know that our happiness is lost, so I decided to look for it.

By Little Black Girl

A letter written by a sad woman to her boyfriend 2

Dear:

This is me This is the first time I am sitting at the computer writing to you so late. I definitely have my reasons for doing this.

Now I will humbly tell you how I feel, because I don’t want to misunderstand you easily. Today, I took a photo of us in the dormitory and set it as a screensaver. I miss you and I want to tell you my happiness. However, the answer you gave me was truly shocking.

You can do this even if you don’t reply to text messages. I really can't believe it. I don’t dare to associate the you who is indifferent to me with the one who made a promise to me.

Who was the person who came to see me the day before yesterday and the person lying next to me?

Who was the person who left me and kissed me at the station yesterday?

Can you tell me?

I am angry, why should I be angry, I am so happy. Waiting for your text message, waiting for your call. I'm waiting for you.

However, I was greeted by deep silence and your indifference.

Now, all the sisters in the dormitory are asleep. But, I am writing a letter. Even without writing the letter, I couldn't sleep. Because I'm crying.

Am I sad? I don’t know.

You know what? I think you lied to me.

Maybe you don’t love me as much as you say.

For you, my existence is just the icing on the cake. Without me, you are more successful and satisfied. Without me, your life would still be so wonderful. So, you can be so cold and cool.

Be kind to me when I am here, and treat me as if I don’t exist when I am not here.

Maybe you want to say that you are busy. Busy is relative. You are busy during the day. You are also busy at night. Let me ask you, what are you busy with?!

Can you be so busy that you don’t want to send a text message?

Take a look at your inbox and your outbox. You get it.

My dear, I want to love you well. Because I think you love me.

However, I am a selfish person.

If your love for me continues like this. You'll get this ending too.

Only then can you understand how I feel at this moment. Since ancient times, people only know how to cherish something after losing it.

I will not reply to your text message again. I won't even answer your phone call. I disappeared. So that you can never find me again.

Please don’t make me sad anymore. My feelings for you are limited, and so are my tears. I promised you I wouldn't break up with you. So I won't say.

I was very sad two days ago, but when you came, I was overwhelmed by happiness, I was happy, I was blindly happy.

However, I did not expect that this was just the beginning.

I am so tired!

I clearly feel your speechlessness and indifference towards me.

Do you love me? Do you love me? Do you pamper me?

How can I not feel it.

If you love me, please prove it with your actions.

If you love me, please don’t think about it once and for all.

If you favor me, please don't keep your high profile.

Finally, I want to tell you. I am fragile, but I beg for your love. Although, you said firmly, if I leave you, I can't find anyone who loves me as much as you do.

But, I want to tell you. Even if no one loves me in the future, should I love you humbly like this?

Is the love you get so cheap for you? Is it just entertainment in your free time? Does it accompany you to talk and relax when you are lonely?

I have it too My thing, however, I am willing to separate and miss you. And you are busy. You are so busy as a student, how dare I expect you to give me a phone call or a text message when you work in the future?

Are you looking for a wife? What does your wife do in your mind? Is it the toy in your hand? Use it to play with when you are in a good mood! When you are busy, throw it aside and ignore it.

Your actions and your promises are entangled in my heart and make me heartbroken. I started asking myself: "Does he love me?"

If so, if this counts as love, if this is his love pattern.

So, what should I do?

In my heart, I know clearly that it is impossible for a person to change for anyone. If he changes, he will not be the same person.

So, I don’t have any requirements. From now on, you can do whatever you want and deal with me whenever you want.

After writing this, you sent me a text message saying, let’s have a normal relationship!

I thought it was normal. But, is our love normal?

Which boyfriend can be as arrogant and high-profile as you! Have you ever expressed any concern for me? You are thinking, just leave it here and be fine. I will become your wife.

Do I love you?

Now I want to say, I hate you.

I hate the promises you made to me. I hate your affectionate confession to me.

Dear, let me tell you, I am very angry, disappointed, sad, uncomfortable, and hate you very much.

You are driving me crazy. Madness is followed by a long period of indifference.

The opposite of love is not cruelty, but indifference.

You left, you arrived in your own city, completely changed.

If you have any grievances in your heart, just say it! If you feel that you don’t want to care about me, just say it! If you want to leave me, just say it!

If you If you don’t love me, just tell me bravely. You have to trust my adaptability. You said you didn't love me, but I believed you after you said it a few times. Just like when you say you love me, if you say it a few times, I will believe it. I believe you.

Haha...

I don’t know why, I feel sad. This feels bad. Because I'm afraid of heartache. In order not to feel heartache, I will run away. I will choose to get used to being without you. Why do you make my heartache? I am most afraid of pain. What should I do? Is it really the only way to avoid the pain if I don’t fall in love?

Don’t I have any other choice?

The tone you speak to me is me It is useless, and then you are in so much pain and you are so speechless. Is it so difficult for you to be with me? My dear?! Do you find it so difficult?

Do you feel so tired? Is it so difficult to coax me and make me happy? Just let it go Are you embarrassed? Or am I too difficult to face? Haha...

This is my letter to you. What should I do next? I don't know.

But, I know, I am heartbroken. I don't want to do anything. Don't give me any more lessons. There are too many people in this world who are self-righteous. Too many people like to be teachers. What I want is a husband who loves me, not a university professor or government worker!

Even if you are Song Shiming, I am Haizao. Song Shiming won’t talk about the financial crisis to Haizao all day! And you are not a truly successful person yet!

Finally, I want to ask you, who am I to you, and have you placed yourself in the right position? ?

Where should you go?!

A letter from a sad woman to her boyfriend 3

Dear:

In the eyes of my friends, I have always been strong, but I think I have always been an insecure girl. Can you lend me your shoulder when I need it? Just make me feel warm; I just want a real person People who love me and care about me are by my side. I always hope to be with my beloved, have breakfast with me, walk with me, talk to me, listen to my feelings about life. Maybe in front of you men, these are just complaints, so you You can remain silent as long as you let me vent my inner complaints.

I don’t want roses, beautiful clothes, or expensive candlelight dinners in Western restaurants. I don’t want you to say you love me every day. Don't say that we will never be apart for the rest of our lives, as long as you give me a warm hug when I need it; occasionally send me a message asking me "it's time to eat"; rub my stomach when I have a pain; when I encounter something unhappy You don’t have to say anything when you cry silently over grievances. At this time, I need your tight hug and your warm hands to wipe my tears. That way, I think I will feel happy because of your existence; the most important thing is Don't turn your back to me when sleeping. I like to sleep with your strong arms on my head.... If I can, I believe that I will be a very good girlfriend. Although love is not rewarded without giving, but you can Whatever you give me, I will definitely repay you with my heart.

Don’t love me just because you love me. To love someone, you must first learn to love yourself. Maybe there will be unpleasant days when you are in love. I hope we can all take good care of ourselves. Never try to hurt yourself. When you quarrel, a lot of your words are impulsive and hurt yourself. What hurts the most is the person who loves you the most. Only by improving yourself well can you have more capital to love the other person. I They are not your first lover, and there is never any need to insist in front of me that you no longer love them, but only love me. The past belongs to you. If you have loved it, you have loved it. Never deny it. I am just the person who will accompany you in the next part of your life. Don't think of me as one of those people you once loved, I'm just me.

I can never replace what they have given you, but what I can give you is also what they cannot give. In the world of love, no one can replace anyone. All I can do is to be myself. Maybe you occasionally I will also think of them in the past, but don’t say in front of me that you have forgotten them and don’t love them, and then mention the days when you were with them from time to time. I hope you won’t ask about mine during the days when we are together. In the past...

A letter from a sad woman to her boyfriend 4

Boyfriend:

Hello. After much thought, I still don’t know how to start this letter. So let’s start with why we wrote such a letter.

I am not a person who doesn't like to think. I just like to escape sometimes. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with escaping. Even if it is not good, I don't want to face it. But in these days with you, you have re-inspired my thinking and made me think proactively. I thought this was good. Although I also know that the greatest happiness for a girl is to be with the person she loves and not have to think about anything. But I don’t dare to hope that in a life where I have received so much beauty and touching things, whether I will still be so lucky to be blessed by life and be a woman who is loved by others. Therefore, it is very necessary in my opinion to be a woman who can think independently and live independently. When I am with you, I can still be willful and thoughtful at the same time. In my opinion, it is already a great happiness.

It may also be that I slept too well yesterday afternoon, causing insomnia at night. Or maybe the neurons in the cerebral cortex are too excited, causing me to have such a series of thoughts that make God laugh. But in my opinion, it's not important. What's important is that I did think about it and I do have something to say to you. So there was a letter like this.

To put it simply and concisely, I would like to ask you a few questions. The first one is about the issue of spiritual partners. I have always been known as someone who has high demands on my boyfriend. Although I never thought so. But now, I have to admit that this is indeed the case. The spiritual level of harmony is an aspect that is more difficult to achieve tacit understanding than the material or life aspect. But in my opinion, it is a very important aspect. I don't say this out of breath, I have a basis for it. In my opinion, whether it is love or marriage, every independent individual will collide in the process of integration, but what is generated is not necessarily a spark, but may also be a flaw. Material life is the lowest guarantee of life, and it is also the easiest part to achieve harmony. As long as they have similar family backgrounds, they can establish a consistent consumption outlook over a period of time. Either with a little restraint or complementary consumption, a new harmonious mechanism can be established. This is not difficult. The running-in in life does require a certain amount of time to get along before you can truly adapt. This is a fusion of habits and habits. But fortunately, we have the same goal in life, which is to live a healthy life, which is rare. With this big premise and big goal, many living habits will coincide and it will become easier to get along with each other, which I think is very rare. But I am a child with poor self-control, and I need constant encouragement from you as a teacher, so this big problem is left to you, and you are not allowed to escape.

The second is the spiritual aspect that I value most. It is also the so-called demanding aspect. I am a person with a relatively rich spiritual life, there is no doubt about this. I am sensitive, passionate, and like to think. Although most of them are useless, I still enjoy it every day. I like to get insights about life from a book, I like to learn the attitude towards life from a movie, I like to feel the happiness in life from a piece of music, I like to travel around the world following the author's writing, I like to learn from a plot I understand the Heart Sutra of Anxiety and like to trigger memories and imagination from a line of lyrics. I am a child who loves to dream, even though I have passed the age of dreaming.

You said that we are a pair with coexisting but complementary advantages. I agree with this statement. But in my opinion, you lack such a spiritual paradise in your life. You have told me many times that you long for family because you can go in, take off your mask, take down your defenses, and live a very real and self-sufficient life. This is your desire for family. I understand very much. Although I am not a man, I know that it is not easy for men to work outside. They long for the simple happiness of a light, a cup of tea, a hug, a kiss, a breakfast, and a walk. But in my opinion, these external spiritual comforts are far less refreshing than my own spiritual paradise.

As the saying goes, we complement each other here. You can teach me a lot about how to behave in the workplace, and I can also take you into my spiritual world. You teach me to grow and I make you feel relaxed. That's fine. But I know that I must learn to face difficulties alone, just as I hope that you can have your own spiritual paradise. When you need space, I won't disturb your spiritual world. I will only watch you silently and peel an apple or an orange for you.

But through this period of time together, I discovered a problem. I have also told you this question, that is, your life is so pure and simple. Maybe work requires too much thinking, making your life so black and white. I think simplicity and purity are good. But simplicity doesn’t mean lack of richness. I don't think that's good when you only have two parts of your life: stress and stress relief. Because, even if you expect family life to be a source of happiness in your life, I have to say that sometimes, family is also a source of difficulty and pressure. I am so worried, what should you do at this time? So, I am very encouraging You are also very willing to have a spiritual paradise. This is not about watching movies to learn English, nor is it about swimming to exercise, but just so that you can experience happiness and relaxation, nothing more. Even if you don't want me to bother you, I can accept that. Because when you fully enjoy happiness, I also feel happiness. So, cultivate more such hobbies. It can be used for making models, playing with cars, or outdoors. Of course, I wish I could be with you, even when you want to be alone, I just want to watch you from a distance.

The second thing I want to say is SWEET. I think SWEET is a particularly good word. Warm, sweet, considerate. It’s what everyone wants to feel from life. Men need it even more. Because men themselves lack this ability to self-regulate, especially in terms of experiencing small happiness and joy. Here I will talk about my understanding of SWEET. Through my two small things, although I am not bragging about myself and thinking how SWEET I am, I can’t find such a case through you, and it’s not easy to give examples of other people’s, so I can only boast and ask you. Don't laugh at me. Joe Hisaishi will have a concert on the 25th. I wanted to go to one as early as last year. This opportunity is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. The fare is reasonable and the time is ample. But I know you will not go on this day. I also thought about making up a reason to let you stay at home, and then I would happily go there myself, but then I thought about it and simply stopped telling you. So as not to embarrass you. I couldn't give up and chose to stay. If you need me to appear that day, I will definitely stand by. This is one of them. Another thing is that there are some things that I don’t know whether it’s better to tell you early or wait until they actually happen. I chose to remain silent. I silently endured what I considered to be pressure. The reason for not telling you is this. Neither you nor I can change this reality. Even if I tell you, it will only add to your worries, which will affect your sleep and your work, so I will avoid talking about it. But the problem will have to be faced sooner or later. I believe that when the time comes, you can stand in front of me and want to be in front of me. In fact, I also have many ways of being willful and overbearing, but the above is my way of expressing love. I hope you can accept it happily. We all need to learn how to love each other.

The person a girl wants to marry is very simple, it’s just one person, just treat her well. But there are many kinds of good things. Some people think that buying her good clothes is good for her, and the more expensive the better; some people think that making her happy is good for her, taking her to fun places, and taking her to eat well. Food; Some people think that giving her a stable home is good to her and allows her to enjoy ordinary happiness. But it seemed to me that what was good for me seemed to require more. The reason why I ask for more is because I ask for the same of myself. So you don’t have to worry, you only have to pay, but there is no reward. This doesn’t fit my definition of fair love.

Be good to me, be good to my body, worry about my body, love my body.

Be good to me, be good to my family, love them and care about them.

Be good to me, be good to my friends, and get along with them happily.

Being kind to me means making me feel warm. A phone call, a text message, or a greeting can all be done.

Being kind to me means making me feel at ease. A hug, a conversation, and a vow can all be done.

Being nice to me means not letting me feel wronged, but trying to make myself bear more, lest I think too much and feel uncomfortable.

Being kind to me means that you are willing to pay attention to my inner world, the twitching of the corners of my mouth, the confusion in my eyes, and the melancholy in my heart. You will observe them carefully and always be the person who understands me best.

Being kind to me is not a few tears or love letters, nor a mysterious gift at Christmas, nor the new clothes in the window, nor the romance at the birthday dinner. It is footbath in winter, cool white flowers in summer, purple grapes in autumn, and moisturizing lotion in spring. It is the thin quilt that is put up for me in early winter, the mosquito net that is put up for me in summer, the corn that is cooked for me in autumn, and the hot breakfast in winter. It is too much, integrated into life, but inexhaustible happiness. This is what’s best for me!

That’s all I thought about last night. Other details are of no importance. In fact, I can influence you subtly and slowly make you adapt, but I can't wait to say it out because time does not allow us to digest each other slowly. A direct attitude must be adopted. And I think communication and communication are the best ways. You often elaborate on your views and attitudes at length on the phone, which makes me blindly worship like I am being brainwashed. But thankfully, I also have my own thoughts and reflections. I just don’t know where to start.

I hope we can love deeply, far and long.

Your Girlfriend

A letter from a sad woman to her boyfriend 5

vvX:

Hello Zhanxin!

I estimate that when you read the letter, it will be around July 5th, which is when we have been dating for two months. I am writing this letter, on the one hand, to fulfill your little wish; on the other hand, I want to express what is in my heart.

Sometimes when I think of you, the corners of my mouth will slightly raise.

You look bluffing, but your heart is soft and simple like a child. He has a straightforward personality but is very considerate. Sometimes the way I think about it is like my dad...

The past two months have been different from any other two months in the past. I have more care besides my family. He would care about whether I had eaten on time, whether I had brought an umbrella when it rained, and whether I needed to take a rest when I was tired...the kind of sincere care that I feel like a family member. I see everything you do and say, and I hear it in my heart. It would be a lie to say that I have no feelings for you. After all, I am not cold-blooded, not to mention that I am also a sensitive person. I really don’t know how to answer the questions you sometimes ask me face to face. Even though I have the answer in my heart, I can't say a word when I open my mouth... I think it's because our time together is too short.

Your excited expression and smile from the bottom of your heart when you told me about your college life. I know you were very happy in the past, and it was a fortune in your life when you were in college. I am also happy for you that you could meet such a good roommate and continue the friendship until now. I have always envied the friendship between boys. They are straightforward and generous. If I could be reincarnated as a boy in my next life, I would be a boy!

What makes me most gratified is that you understand me and do not ask about my "past" ”, my family’s attitude towards you, my choices, etc. The appearance of some people is destined to be just customers in our lives, but they only stay for different lengths of time. The best way to say goodbye to those who have passed is to smile and wave goodbye. There are some things in everyone's heart that they never want to mention without the right mood and the right person. If one day, there is something you want to tell me, I will sit next to you and listen quietly. If you don't want to say it, I won't either. Explore. Someone once said something to me: Only know me as he sees me. I think the same is true for me, I only know you in my heart...

Regarding my family, they put some pressure on me. In fact, I am not an obedient child. If I were, I should have broken up with you long ago. After all, my power is limited, and all I can do is delay it again and again. I only believe in one truth: there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain. I don’t want to make you upset or blame yourself, because there are some objective conditions that we cannot change for the time being. Then let us live each day seriously.

People are not afraid of having nothing, but they are most afraid of not having courage, not having the courage to choose, not having the courage to make progress, or even not having the courage to adapt to the so-called "easy" life now. It is a great thing for a person to have no sense of inferiority, because everyone has inferiority complex. When one day you find that it no longer appears, we have truly defeated ourselves, and we will shine! That kind of light is called self-confidence or indifference and calmness! This is what I pursue! I know my general direction, although sometimes I will be irritable and disappointed. But I am not an angry young man, and I have passed the age of dreaming. We curse the bad things in society, but what society has taught me, from losing self-confidence to regaining self-confidence, is the most profound education it can give me!

I have said so many high-sounding words to you, just because I want you not to regret your choice, work or life. I hope that if you still have your own dream, you can give it a try. Because "dream" is a luxury. There are too many things that need to be done in the ten years between 20 and 30 years old...

You may laugh at me, I am too old-fashioned and full of truths. These things are my truest feelings about life. I have done many wrong things in the past, but I didn't realize it at the time. But afterwards and even now, I am very grateful to God for his arrangement for his early appearance. Haha, I am indeed a precocious person! This has a lot to do with my living environment. My own road is a bit tortuous, and I complain sometimes, but I have figured it out. Sometimes the farthest road is the shortcut. After taking a circle, I can see the scenery that others cannot see, taste a different life, and realize Things I didn’t understand before. No matter how low the starting point is, let yourself accept it calmly.

If I keep talking, I will worship myself, haha

I am not trying to be strong, I just know the direction for the time being and am not lost... Haha, in fact, you know everything, it’s just Just don’t say it. I said that I will not talk nonsense before things are implemented. This is my way of doing things, I hope you can understand my selfishness. Doing so is nothing more than reducing some trouble and the need for explanations.

Sometimes I think about happiness = happiness? It’s a weird idea, isn’t it? It’s like me asking you if animals are gay. Happiness is a flower that blooms in the heart, beautiful and enchanting, refreshing. People's memories can be deceiving. I'm afraid that one day, I won't be able to remember today's happiness. When I was old, when I couldn't walk, I would sit in a rocking chair and read these diaries to see my own happiness. Maybe it was Occasionally sad, that is also happy sadness...

Finally, what I want to say is: "Happiness is seeking kindness and getting kindness. It is the most private thing, only belongs to yourself, no one needs to disturb you. ”