Why are some people always regarded as gay?

The word Gay actually refers to homosexuality in its earliest days, whether gay or lesbian, but I don’t know why in recent years it most often refers to gay men. But since we are talking about this topic today, I will talk about why some people are always regarded as gay. Of course, the gay I am talking about now refers to all homosexuals.

As a newly graduated college student, I have just come into contact with this society. To be honest, I have never seen anything like this in the company. However, I did see a lot of them in school. ?

Some people may say that the reason why some people are regarded as gay is that they or their sexual orientation have problems. For example, some girls like to dress very neutrally, like boys, and do not like to wear skirts. , I actually like to wear shorts and sneakers in the summer.

A friend once told me that most of the girls who like to cut their hair short and wear boys’ clothes are gay. Yes, what we are talking about is that most of them are like this, and not all Anyone who likes to dress like this is gay.

When I was in high school, there was a girl in the next class who dressed very unisexly and liked to wear jeans, but the jeans she wore were different from those of us girls. Hers were very fat and looked like Men's style. At first, I thought it was just because she liked to wear more neutral clothes, but later I realized that it was not as simple as I thought.

In addition, she doesn’t like talking to boys, but likes to talk to girls every day, and even likes to have physical contact with girls. But it didn't seem so strange at the time. At least at that time, I only knew about studying and didn't think about this issue at all.

However, a friend who lived with her said that the girl was really weird. She asked my friend to take a bath with her every day, saying that she wanted her to help rub her back. Of course, My friend didn't agree.

In that high school era, we girls were very shy. How could we be willing to take a bath with others in such a private matter? However, that girl has invited my friend to take a bath together more than once. Gradually, my friend became very scared. She felt that the girl was actually gay.

Yes, it turns out that she is really gay. After her friend moved out because he couldn't stand her, she found another girl to share the apartment with, and I heard that the two of them were really in love. Although we only guessed that she was gay at the time, it turned out that our guess was right.

I wonder if everyone understands after listening to this girl’s story who will always be regarded as gay? In fact, to be honest, first of all, it's because those people dress abnormally. Girls wear boys' clothes every day, while boys wear bright green clothes every day and dress themselves up.

The second reason is that their behavior is abnormal. No matter what they do, they want to attract the attention of the same sex, seek companionship with the same sex, and even repel the opposite sex. I think these two points are the reasons why those people are considered gay!