Why do people often say, "You are not afraid of getting into the drama too deeply, but you are afraid that it is too difficult to get out of the drama"?

Should you devote yourself to loving someone? In fact, it is easy to invest but difficult to get out

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There are always people around who say that loving someone is difficult. I think it is really difficult to love someone. The difficulty is not to love someone, because to love someone, you just need to love with a good heart. The really difficult thing is that you can't leave each other when you don't love them, and there is always a lot of reluctance in your heart. As the saying goes, you are not afraid of getting too involved in the drama, you are just afraid that it will be too difficult to get out of the drama.

When you love someone, you will put all your thoughts on him, and there will be nothing else in your world except her. In this way, all the things in your life and all your emotions will revolve around him. At this time, when you want to get out, you will find that everything is really difficult.

Sometimes, it’s not the fear of giving, but the fact that after giving too much, you find that you can’t live without someone. Love is very scary, because of love, your happiness is because of him, your distress is because of him, everything is because of him. Without him, the world seems really different. Without him, it seems that we don’t even know the meaning of existence. Therefore, this is the reason why more and more people dare not love casually, dare not give easily, and dare not get too involved in a person.

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Actually, life is like this, there is no 100 perfection, and there is no 100 imperfection. All things are very beautiful in the beginning, but in fact they are just walking. , while walking, I found that the two people were going in different directions. No one dared to talk about love casually, and everything changed.

We are not the kind of people who are afraid of giving in the beginning. On the contrary, when we meet someone we like, we are very willing to give for him, and we are also very willing to give all our time, all our love, and everything we have. Give it all to him. Some people say that when you love, love seriously, and if you don't love, you can just leave. In fact, there is no reason why we can't leave. The principle is simple, but it is really difficult to do.

We like to follow a TV series, and we will also indulge in the story of the characters, and then fall in love with the protagonist. When the TV series ends, you are still in it with endless aftertaste, and you are still thinking about what will happen next. What kind of development will they have? If they encounter the same thing, how will they deal with it? But there is no answer to everything, and we don’t know anything. Only after a long period of time will things about that TV series gradually fade away?

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The same is true for loving someone. When we are in love, we think that we no longer love him. You can retreat. After all, think about it, no one is a fool. If you know there is no result, you will definitely not be willing to persist. But if letting go was that easy, the original love would be nothing. If love could start and end easily, I think we wouldn't have so many heartaches, and there wouldn't be so many people hurt by love in the world.

When we encounter love, we can only try our best to strive for a good ending. If not, we can only accept all the results with a smile. In fact, we have nothing to give up, nothing to lose, and nothing to possess forever.

In an ordinary life, you still need to face all the ups and downs of this life with a calm mind. One day we may also say with a smile, it's not that we don't want to love, or that we don't want to get deeper into the drama of love, but after falling in love, we find that it is easy to get into the drama and difficult to get out of the drama. So, we decided not to act rashly, but we still have to be cautious about some things, so that we won't be hurt so seriously.

If someone says that I am timid, I actually admit that after all, we don’t have so much time to waste in life, and we don’t have such a strong heart to withstand being hurt again and again. I hope that the efforts of all those who have been hurt will eventually have good results. I hope that after entering a drama, I will never have to come out, and I will never have to be sad for a long time because of a short-term sweetness. We can all be well, and we can all be happy. Happy, we can all have a happy ending.