How to treat the sky-high bride price in rural areas today?

I think this is a bad phenomenon. The nature of marrying a daughter has become "selling her daughter", and the sky-high bride price has made this originally happy thing a little less pleasant.

Personally, I am very opposed to the sky-high bride price. Maybe I, as a man, think that the price of marrying a wife is too high, but I look at this issue from a neutral standpoint. Getting married is a very happy thing, but sometimes the bride price is naked on the table, which is a bit vulgar.

It's not easy to raise a daughter, but you can't spend so many years to increase the demands on the man, which will make outsiders look unreasonable. Even if you want more bride price to supplement your other children, it's really inappropriate.

Most of the bride price given does not mean that the man's family is well-off, perhaps because this sky-high bride price will make your daughter marry a family with foreign debts, and it is your own daughter who suffers. Therefore, opposing the sky-high bride price is beneficial to others and to oneself.

Because marriage is a major event in life, as long as both parties love each other, it is the most essential part of marriage. You can make the wedding more grand, but you must not aim at the sky-high bride price, which may lead to the failure of the marriage, and may seriously lead to the disagreement between father and daughter.

In our hometown, a father asked the man for hundreds of thousands of bride price, not including the house and car. This money is very unbearable for ordinary families in small places. In desperation, the girl and the boy secretly got the marriage certificate without telling the adults. It is said that the girl has never been back to her family. This result is not caused by the sky-high bride price.