Money is face. Tell me about it.

In the adult world, everyone needs a "shameless" courage.

People often regret it, and often take "I knew ……" as a reflection after losing the opportunity.

We know that loss and regret are just the most useless but unbearable faces, but we still really feel that "face is greater than the sky", grievances can be tolerated, pain can be eaten, and only face can't be lost.

Half of life, after everything, we begin to understand that it doesn't matter whether the result is good or not.

After all, if you can't save face, someone will get away. Compared with the mess of "throwing caution to the wind" for a while, missing and regretting is the most unbearable.

Therefore, don't look down on a person with thick skin. If you are thick-skinned, the road will get wider and wider.

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Desperate to save face and live a miserable life.

Face is worthless in the face of happiness.

In real life, there are always some people who feel that with face, they have everything, and with face, they have self-confidence with their heads held high.

But as the saying goes: "The pride of death is bitter to eat!"

A person who cares too much about face often misses a lot of scenery of life and even loses his life because of "face".

Freezing Point Weekly once reported an accident in which a famous school student died of drinking.

Wang Yaodong, a freshman, and his classmates went to a bar to spend money. The rule here is that if you can finish six 300 ml cocktails in three minutes, the consumption within 500 yuan can be exempted.

Encouraged by his classmates' high-fives, he drank five glasses of wine in one breath in the center of the stage amid waves of "cheers".

Then, he walked down the steps, retched a few times and waved his hand to say "that's it."

However, the applause around us was louder, and many people turned on their mobile phones, ready to shoot this "glorious moment" and witness the miracle.

Then, he drank the sixth cup.

However, thinking that victory was in his grasp, his body began to lose control, his feet trembled inexplicably, then his head tilted and he fell heavily, and he never woke up.

Face is skin, dignity is bone.

In life, many people equate face with dignity, and feel that losing face means losing dignity.

But the fact is that those who exaggerate their seemingly insignificant lives and put too much burden on their thin shoulders in order to gain recognition and envy from others are never dignified.

Therefore, people who live very tired do not live for their own dignity, but because they can't let go of their face and vanity.

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Put down your face to get more.

The process of putting down face may be awkward, but the gains after putting down face are quite rich.

In the final analysis, a person's life is actually three things: knowing how to choose, knowing how to persist and knowing how to cherish.

"Pie falling from the sky" can only be a dream after all, and only the strong can never lose face.

Therefore, when you put down your face and try to fulfill yourself, you give yourself the best dignity.

Before 2003, Deyun Society was very popular. Business in the theater is slow, so we can't afford the rent. Every day, it can't make ends meet, so Degang Guo has to look around.

Just then, a variety show of Anhui TV wanted to recruit a host, so Degang Guo ran to apply.

The column group wanted to test his endurance, so they set up glass windows on the busy road, where he could live for 48 hours and perform with the audience during the period.

The audience regarded Degang Guo as a monkey, let him punch, let him make a hullabaloo about and let him knit a sweater. ...

Degang Guo felt very sad, but he had to put on a bright smile.

"I am going to collapse."

After biting his teeth for 48 hours, Degang Guo finally became a host and hosted a program. Anhui TV gave him 4,000 yuan.

Yan Jiehe, former president of Pacific Construction Group, said: "What is face? We are never ashamed to do great things. We can tear off our faces and throw them on the ground, kick a few feet and leave. "

In real life, people have to face up, many things they want to do but dare not do, and many things they don't want to do but are forced to do. They are busy every day, but they still accomplish nothing.

On the other hand, truly successful people are never afraid of being looked down upon. They are willing to start with the smallest and most difficult things.

They live honestly and don't care what others think. They can let go of their fetters, and they can move towards their goals wholeheartedly and get the results they want.

Therefore, a person's maturity and stepping on the right track does not lie in how much cowhide blows and how much face he gives himself, but in your "losing" face.

03

To be a man, you have to be thick-skinned

Face is a fig leaf for the incompetent. People who can really do great things never care about face.

I have heard a sentence before: "You are embarrassed here and embarrassed there. Then how can you be ashamed of life? " When you are embarrassed about the world, your growth will increase day by day. "

Life is thick-skinned, open-minded, able to play, open-minded, open-minded. When you truly become such a person, you will be fearless.

So, the difference between you and success is that you have the cheek to take a step, which can sometimes change your life.

Today's young people, everyone wants to be Ma Yun, but we must admit that more than 99% of people can't be Ma Yun.

Ma Yun's success depends not only on his strong ability and good opportunities, but also on his thicker skin than the average person.

Ma Yun only got 1 in mathematics in the first college entrance examination. People around him were laughing at him, but he did not hesitate to take the college entrance examination.

In the second college entrance examination, Ma Yun only got 19 in mathematics. His parents advised him to stop losing face and learn a trade to make a living, but Ma Yun had the cheek to ask for another chance.

In the third college entrance examination, Ma Yun scored 79 points in mathematics and finally entered the university. Without thick skin, Ma Yun may never go to college.

Later, when Alibaba was founded, Ma Yun even had the cheek to ask for help everywhere, selling his ideas everywhere, and met with numerous eyes and rejections. If it weren't for his thick skin, Alibaba wouldn't have succeeded at all.

Everyone wants to be positive and promising, and the best way to achieve this goal is to ignore other people's opinions, act rashly and be shameless.

Because there is no real right or wrong in the adult world, only personal standards. If you take other people's eyes as the criterion of life, you will eventually live like four elephants.

But if we only correct our shortcomings according to others' suggestions, and don't deny our beliefs because others don't understand and conform, then you will certainly seize more opportunities.

Therefore, when you can have the cheek and take the initiative to fight for opportunities for yourself at an appropriate time, you will be closer to success.

Many times, "cheekiness" is our means of survival.

Guevara said: "When you know that the face is the least important thing, you really grow up."

Yes, when you understand that face is just a person's outer packaging, when you have a strong heart that you can afford and put down, you will create and seize many opportunities.

After all, people who are too proud are getting farther and farther away from their desired success because they are afraid of falling behind others, because they are eager for success, and because of these vanity.

And those cheeky people, who dare to put down their faces and enrich their abilities, have become winners in life despite being ridiculed for a while.

So, please put down those so-called faces. Shallow "face" will only make you tired, but if you enrich your heart, you will live a real, happy and more confident life. Your concern is the best support. I am: riding a snail race.