Can introverted men be husbands? What about introverted men?

I can understand this problem from two angles, saying that both are ok and saying that both are not.

If an introverted man can be a husband and an introverted man is good, I can understand his advantages in this way: because introverted people all have the same characteristics: few words, social phobia, blx, shyness, fear of making mistakes, poor understanding, fear of offending people, ink in my heart but don't know how to express it, narrow social circle and few friends, and like to be quiet. Introverts who are not good at communication are also doomed by fate. They don't necessarily look for cheerful people, and they don't look down on introverted people who don't like to talk. In fact, introverts have advantages over cheerful people in many ways. Unless someone else asks, he can simply answer you a few words. Although there are not many words, every sentence can be deducted to the point, especially when friends get together. It can be seen that introverts rarely make trouble. They are usually embarrassing things, and there are few or no bad things to blame on them. They don't attend too many speeches, and they don't tell others this and that to offend others. They just listen and think in obscurity, especially at work, such as librarians, chefs and some technical industries. They are more likely to succeed in scientific research and confidential work, which do not require them to deal with others too much. What bosses need most is their spirit of obscurity to work, and they will be annoyed if they talk too much. As long as the boss arranges the task and does it well, they will be paid and will be promoted when they do it well. Introverts also have jobs that introverts do. It doesn't mean that introverts are necessarily inferior to cheerful people. They are good at thinking and innovation, and like to study and explore. In the end, they will be more likely to succeed in this obscure job. I don't think there will be too much salt in the soil for introverted men. Such a man is relatively obedient and honest, and won't have too many tricks and fancy ideas. It is also your pleasure to find such a good man as a wife in this life. Such men don't quarrel about things, how can they quarrel without the same language communication, and each has his own work to do together. This is good, much better than being with some cheerful animal husbands. Your life will also be very happy. It's okay to be introverted. As long as your husband loves you, even if he doesn't express it in his heart, no matter whether you are poor or rich, he will not be idle. You don't care about each other's little faults. You should tolerate each other, understand each other and live a perfect life together.

If an introverted man can't be a husband and an introverted man is not good, I can understand his shortcomings like this: because from the overall situation of society, truly cheerful people are more popular than introverted people. Cheerful people like to communicate with people at zero distance and hope to have more friends around them. Everyone laughs and laughs together. With friends, the road will be longer, often at work. Working in a company, cheerful people also have the ability to take the lead independently, can guide the employees of a department, can get in close contact with bosses and supervisors, have strong organizational skills, and will give the company great advantages in some aspects. This kind of cheerful people and introverted people are also part of the work. Cheerful people are more appreciated by the boss and easier to get promoted, while introverted people will obey other people's arrangements and do whatever they want. Such people working in such a large enterprise company will not be appreciated by the boss and will be easily frustrated in the workplace. Many introverts are due to the educational problems of small families. They are too obedient, always rely on their parents and lose their independence. If they are afraid of being beaten or scolded for not doing well, they must do as you ask. This habit has become natural, and they will become what they are now. The more obedient and honest people are, the less valuable they are when they grow up. Many times they need the help of their friends. They don't communicate and are not good at expressing themselves, so they have no friends to talk to and no one to help them. You ask questions. I think you are also a cheerful wife. You can only ask questions when you meet a husband who doesn't like to talk. There is really no common language between husband and wife, between a cheerful person and an introverted person. They all know that people of the same type are looking for people of the same type. Introverts and introverts can't talk, or even rarely talk, even when they are together. Their characteristic is that they like to live an independent and quiet life, and they don't talk much. They don't want more people to disturb them. They are better at thinking. As a wife, you also want to have a husband who is as cheerful and eloquent as you. The advantage of a cheerful husband is that he likes to communicate with others at zero distance and has many friends. The circle of friends is full of positive energy. Two people can talk to each other when they are together. Husband and wife can have a lot to say at any time, and they can express their inner thoughts, including that you will encounter contradictions for a little thing in your life when you get married. Or something particularly embarrassing happened. A cheerful person can resolve the embarrassment in the first time, so that it can be quickly resolved and will not happen again. They also have a strong understanding ability, and can understand what friends, bosses or couples want to express. You think exactly what the other person thinks, and you can talk to their hearts, so you will have more friends and be better at humorous communication. They are very popular wherever they go. It is precisely because they can integrate into the collective and tolerate everyone that they have so many friends, and they will go further and get closer to the other side of success in the future. It's boring for a couple not to say a word. When talking, they should say more useful words, talk about the topic of intellectuals and ask about simplicity. An introverted husband can change slowly, or he can read more books, learn more knowledge and see how to survive in the workplace. In the event of an emergency, how should the person who framed you protect himself and listen to what others say? Husbands can do the most basic things. He can completely get out of his introverted personality, change himself and become as eloquent as a cheerful person. Everywhere you go, people applaud, and the chances of promotion and salary increase are higher. The boss also likes such employees to help him work. If your husband doesn't work anymore and doesn't want to change himself, you don't like such a husband and just want to find a talking husband, you can politely refuse him. Rejecting your husband so politely won't hurt his heart, and let your husband know what you mean is that you, as a wife, don't value his advantages and always care about some small faults in your husband. If you express this meaning euphemistically, your husband won't say anything about you, so your wife can find a husband who is as eloquent as you. You can go to the company or work unit to find a man who is conscientious, filial and tolerant. But everything still depends on fate. It's not as simple as you think. It's too easy to find someone. You may not know that a cheerful person also has many shortcomings. Even if you find a cheerful and eloquent husband, some husbands, like animals, beat and scold their wives and are wicked. Such animals will make you have no good life and suffer a lot of grievances. Finding such a man is better than being with the introverted man you found before. Although he doesn't speak, his obscurity, including many advantages, will be worth learning. It is because you don't pay attention to him that you have doubts and feel that you have opinions. If two people are really good together, they won't care about each other's minor problems. My understanding is this. As a wife, you can think for yourself.

Children don't hate ugly mothers, dogs don't hate poverty, and couples don't hate each other's little faults. This sentence means to tell you that real couples live together, they help each other, understand each other, tolerate each other and sympathize with each other. They don't worry so much about each other's little faults. If you have doubts, you still don't like the other person's husband. His shortcomings have affected you. You can tell him gently with your own point of view. It means that your wife refuses to associate with him, but she can be friends in the future, and he can understand what you mean, so you can find your favorite husband. You like to be glib and flatter. You will meet fate when you go to work in a company or unit in the future. When you find another one, you will remember that you shouldn't have broken up with your ex-husband. Now the boat of friendship is going to capsize. Especially after 90 s and 00 s, break up when you say break up. Sometimes it's even worse for you to find the second one, so I think you should have an introverted man as your husband and you should accept him. It doesn't matter if your husband talks less. If you like to communicate, you can communicate with others at zero distance through some social software on your mobile phone, which can be broadcast live. If your husband doesn't talk, he can do whatever he likes, and he won't bother you, and you can't pick out his little faults. Will not cause trouble, be honest and obedient, will not bring bad influence to the family, and will not quarrel. It's much better than finding those animals with you, so I think you should accept him and help him more. He won't talk to you. You can take the initiative to talk to him, no matter how much you say, as long as you can get to the point and understand what you mean is better than anything else. Don't underestimate the shortcomings of introverts. They also have many advantages. No one is perfect, it is impossible not to make mistakes, it is impossible not to have minor faults, and you should not care too much about him. He has something to say, and it is also good to think quietly and independently, that is, he can talk to others if he likes to talk, and he can not socialize with each other when his life is good. Only when the road is easy in the future can he go further. You can think about whether what I said makes sense.

I hope my understanding is of great help to you.