Man's heart: Marry me and you will give me happiness.

"Dear, marry me and I will give you happiness!"

The man knelt down with a diamond ring in his hand and said this line to the woman affectionately. The woman was filled with joy, nodded shyly and then kissed each other.

Is this scene familiar?

Such pictures appear in too many film and television works.

But how many girls have thought,

Dude, do you really think so?

Don't! What men really want is:

Marry me and you will give me happiness!

At the end of 18, a "marriage list" appeared in Weibo. That's a 29-year-old Dalian guy, a migrant worker, with a monthly salary of 4000 yuan. On a blind date, he met a girl who had a "marriage list": the man had to provide a house, a car and a bride price of 200,000 yuan, but the woman didn't accompany him and didn't go out to work after marriage.

It is said that the girl is plain-looking and her family is average. At present, her monthly salary is 3000, and she can't see anything special at all.

The only special thing is to have special confidence in yourself.

I believe that if the young man agrees, the girl will find happiness, but will the young man say "marry me and I will give you happiness"?

Never been together, let alone in love. I just made such a condition when I was dating. The young man can't see what happiness the other party can bring him, and even sees oppression and exploitation. How can he say "give you happiness"?

A truly wonderful marriage.

No one insists on giving,

One side keeps asking for it,

But to warm each other,

Help each other,

You can always get happiness from each other,

Is the true meaning of lifelong companionship!

In fact, this sentence when proposing marriage should be regarded as a man's promise:

"If you are willing to marry me, then I promise to give you happiness!"

He is willing to make such a promise,

Because he believes that you can give him happiness by marrying you.

However, what kind of girl will make a man willing to make a commitment?

The most important point: be reasonable!

This idiom is absolutely the wisdom of our ancestors.

The first is empathy, communicating feelings, understanding each other's emotions and understanding basic human feelings.

Then there is reason, knowing the basic things, understanding the truth of the world and acting reasonably.

There is a saying on the internet: smart women are reasonable, but stupid women are unreasonable.

Take Sister Lin upstairs and Sister Zhang downstairs as examples!

Sister Lin upstairs is in her forties, and her figure and skin are well maintained, just like rice rolls, who has just been made, and she is still in the state of Q-bomb.

My husband is an executive of the company, and he often socializes from Monday to Friday, but Jason never complains, and will help him prepare various drugs for hangover and liver protection, telling him to pay attention to safety.

Occasionally, I can give him advice at work, help him deal with human feelings, and even be his diplomat in the mall. Sometimes a man's war can turn a bad thing into a good thing after she resolves it.

And her husband, as long as he is at home on weekends, often goes to the kitchen to cook all kinds of delicious food in person, saying that it is to reward Sister Lin's contribution. Two people are kind and loving, and seldom quarrel.

Sister Zhang and Sister Lin downstairs are about the same age, but they have a round figure and a rough face, like the white paint of an old house, which will peel off when touched.

Her husband is the director of a public institution. He used to like to drink two cups, but now he can only drink two cups because he will be beaten if he drinks too much.

Sister Zhang said that her husband doesn't do business every day, and he doesn't make money in this business. If he makes money, he is afraid of losing his old capital and is unwilling to do it hard.

Anyway, when her husband was drinking, he said he was doing nothing. If you don't drink, you say that you are incapable, and let her husband go out to drink with people on the pretext of working overtime every day. She complains constantly at home and leads a life of chicken flying and dog jumping.

Do many people also see their own shadows from them? In fact, men are also trained by women. You are reasonable, and he naturally takes care of you. You are a lion roar, he will never be gentle.

Actually, every man has his own pressure. What women should do is how to decompress men, not create a burden.

Home should be a shelter from the wind, but how many women have turned home into a stormy pier.

Female writer Zhang Xiyan wrote in "Be a reasonable woman":

A reasonable woman,

She is not only a virtuous lady,

A lovely and kind woman,

She is also a tolerant and confident woman.

Girl, please be a reasonable woman,

Then the person you love will naturally get down on one knee and say to you sincerely:

"Marry me and I will give you happiness!"