If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer.

The old man summed up a lesson. Listening to the old man often can make us take fewer detours and make fewer mistakes. There are many benefits to guide us how to treat life correctly, how to be a correct person, how to face difficulties and accept challenges.

Take the helm, sail safely, and it will rain for over a hundred days. There will always be sunny days, the black sheep spend money like dirt, and the family cherishes dung like gold and helps others. Others will remember themselves, discuss behind their backs, and have no opinion in person ... elders always like to warn us with such words.

When I was a child, I enjoyed the meticulous care of my parents. When it is windy, my parents put on my coat, and when it rains, my parents open an umbrella for us. Every time I go out, I have a small hand holding a big hand, and every step is led by my parents. We are very happy and proud to have such parents. We can be as simple as not thinking about anything, just because they paved the way for us to walk slowly.

When they grow up, they become rebellious, don't listen to their parents, and even refute their words, thinking that they are old-fashioned and don't understand the trend of the new era. So there is a generation gap between the two generations, and it is getting deeper and deeper, just because they don't understand what we call Jay Chou. Start to oppose our own decisions and limit our wise choices.

When we get older, many times we begin to learn to say no to our parents. Maybe at that time, we thought a simple sentence would make us feel much more mature. I feel that I have the ability to bargain with adults, and sometimes I even repeat the same no in various tones and loudness, but not knowing this simple word will make my parents feel sad, sad and disappointed. ...

We all know that we don't listen to the old man, but we don't follow him. Parents are the most selfless people in the world. They would rather fight for their children. How can they push their children to the unhappy and unsuccessful road? This is a truth that everyone knows, but we forget the original intention when we do things.

How many of us crossed the bridge on the river of life, but we fell into the river before the bridge was built. In the cold river, we struggled again, but the old man struggled on the shore, waiting for us to go ashore. Anxious to watch us grow up slowly, they are not so cruel as not to help us go ashore. They just want the younger generation to be truly independent and have the courage to take the road they choose, even if it is wrong, they must understand it themselves.

In fact, those words that sound talkative and cautious are the real care and love. In the eyes of the older generation, no matter how old you are, you are just a child. It is also possible that we are not so tactful in our speech measures, or that we don't pay so much attention to jokes or say a few words casually. However, when these criticisms encounter our low self-esteem, we will not listen to them. If they are serious, we will directly refute them or even turn our backs on others. Why do old people say that we actually know better? Out of concern and care.

When we are adults, when we are beaten by the wind and rain outside again, we miss the coat with temperature and the umbrella with lace, but when we are annoyed by doing something wrong again, how much we want to listen to the old man who has echoed in our ears for countless times!

Comment in the comments section below that you have all heard the words of those old people!