After being angry with my mother-in-law, our family will be fine.

I have been unable to please my mother-in-law because of my poor family conditions. After marriage, I can only be patient with my mother-in-law, and I will be angry with my mother-in-law when my husband is away. From then on, my mother-in-law made a 180 degree turn to me, and my husband said that I would marry my mother-in-law early.

My home is in the countryside. I finished college with a student loan and later became a teacher.

My husband lives in the county seat and is a civil servant. My mother-in-law used to work in a state-owned paper mill and had a pension.

When I was unmarried, my mother-in-law was dissatisfied with me, mainly because my family was in the countryside and felt poor at home, which would bring difficulties to my future life.

But my husband likes me and will marry me anyway. My mother-in-law reluctantly agreed and kept saying that I climbed his house.

I don't want to embarrass my husband, and I have always been patient with my mother-in-law. What she said is ugly. As long as it doesn't involve the bottom line, I won't dispute with her.

My husband went out to study for a week, and when I was eating that day, my mother-in-law began to be picky again, saying that I was a countryman and deserved to eat rural food (my mother sent me pickles made by herself two days ago), and the food I bought could only be eaten by her and her grandson.

I was angry at that time, so I couldn't help asking her: Do you think I climbed into your house, bought me a house or a car, became an official or made a fortune, or gave me 32 thousand a month? You said that I am a countryman and only deserve to eat rural food. I paid for the food you bought, and even the lard for cooking cabbage was sent by my mother. The countryman you despise sends rice, meat and eggs to your family every year.

My mother-in-law didn't expect me to be angry. She wanted to marry me. I didn't give her a chance to continue to marry her.

Is it good for your son to go through all this trouble? Did you call me a countryman in front of your grandson to find a sense of existence? You think you're above me? What will your grandson think of your mother and what image will you be in his mind? What will your relatives think of me and you? It's a shame for you to find a countryman as your wife every day. Are you happy when you say this?

My mother-in-law put down her chopsticks and wanted to go back to her room. I stopped her and continued to ask her: Are you happy that your son divorced me? Didn't your son want to remarry when we divorced? You think it is easy for your son to find a wife. Do you think the woman your son is looking for will be kind to your grandson? I'm a countryman, although I don't have much skill. At least I can fight with your son and take care of your grandson. I'm not afraid of divorce. I just don't want to break your son's heart.

I don't expect you to respect me more, but don't talk about the countryside easily. I come from the countryside, but I don't think city people are noble and rural people are low. I am already the mother of your grandson, and no other woman is so kind to her children as her own mother. Divorce is not a good thing. Your son and I divorced, and you won't feel better yourself.

My mother-in-law can't say a word.

From then on, she stopped calling me a countryman, talked too much and respected me more.

I told my husband about my mother-in-law, and my husband said I should marry my mother-in-law earlier, so that I wouldn't have to be angry with her all these years.

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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal issue in the history of China. How many "dongfeng evil has a poor marriage" failed to get married because of her mother-in-law, and how many families divorced because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

Parents want to be kind to their children, but not all mother-in-law can understand what is really good. The mother-in-law regards her daughter-in-law as an enemy. Will her daughter-in-law be kind to you? If one person stumbles, this day will not be peaceful.

A clever mother-in-law should understand that the daughter-in-law is the one who has lived with her son all her life, and she is just an outsider after her son gets married. A good relationship between a son and his daughter-in-law is the greatest good in this family.

Good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is more useful than having a good son.

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