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The son-in-law ate at her mother-in-law's house for three years, and her mother-in-law collected living expenses. Why does mother-in-law say that he is still a child, don't force him?

How old is a man to be truly mature? Some people think that as long as you are over eighteen, you should be mature; Some people think that entering the society after graduating from college is maturity; Some people even think that a man is really mature only when he has a family and career. It is good for a man to mature late, but it is wrong to always refuse to take due responsibility on the pretext of maturity late. The son-in-law stayed at her mother-in-law's house for three years. My mother-in-law wants to collect living expenses, but my son-in-law doesn't understand. She also encouraged her mother to plead, which made her very angry.

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When A Qiang graduated from university for one year, he couldn't find a satisfactory job because he didn't have a good degree. He also tried to start a business, but he didn't succeed. At present, I am working as an ordinary laborer in a small company, with a monthly salary of 5000, and the urban housing price is so high that I can't even afford to rent a house, let alone buy a house. It happened that her mother-in-law had a house in the city, so A Qiang interceded with her daughter-in-law and said, "Look, we don't have that much money now. Tell your mother to let me live in your house and buy my own house when the money is enough."

Daughter-in-law loves A Qiang, so she told her mother about it. The mother-in-law didn't want her daughter to suffer with him, so she had to promise to help the young couple and relieve their pressure.

So A Qiang and his wife lived in their mother-in-law's house. My mother-in-law just thinks that two more people without a pair of chopsticks will not increase the economic pressure. But after getting along for a long time, she found that this son-in-law is not simple. He is usually lazy. He hasn't taken the initiative to clean the housework since he lived in his house. Even if there is a piece of paper on the ground, he won't start sitting. Besides, he is very picky about food. If there is no meat in a meal, he will be unhappy, lose his temper and not eat. And a family coaxed him. At first, my mother-in-law could bear it, but my son-in-law lived for three years. After a long time, her mother-in-law began to bother him.

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However, my mother-in-law is embarrassed to let him move out, and my wife is afraid to say that she is afraid of affecting the relationship between husband and wife. So my mother-in-law came up with an idea: if you still want to live in my house, fine, but you must give me two thousand yuan a month for living expenses. I can't let you eat and drink for nothing!

A Qiang was very unhappy when he heard this. He is a family. He just ate a few bowls of your food. He intends to charge 2000 yuan a month. Do you still consider yourself a family? He didn't want to promise it, but there was nothing he could do. He doesn't know what to do. His mother-in-law just knows this, and she doesn't want her son to suffer in this respect. She also deliberately found her in-laws to convince each other to give up the idea.

Mother-in-law said to her mother-in-law, "Boys mature late. He has only graduated for four years and is only 28 years old. He is still a child. Do not push him. He will pay you back the living expenses he owes you sooner or later. Can't you just give him some time to grow up? He stayed in your city for your daughter. If they come to our city to develop, let alone collect living expenses, I won't accept any money, and I will help them repay the loan. After all, we want our children to live a happy life, not an unhappy life. You are also a mother. Why don't you understand? "

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When my mother-in-law heard these words from her in-laws, her anger suddenly came up. She didn't care about her in-laws' faces at all, and said directly to her face, "I'm 28 years old, but I don't want to grow up. I'm not mature enough. Can I mature to 48 years old? " Men are gentlemen. If you don't struggle when you are young, it will only get worse when you are old. "

My mother-in-law retorted, "Not yet, not yet. The child is still young and will struggle in the future. Now is their most difficult time. As elders, we should help them more. "

My mother-in-law said, "I agreed to get married because my daughter likes your son. Now it's all right. After four years of marriage, I didn't even save a penny for the down payment, and I didn't even pay for my living expenses. I eat and drink for free in my home. Why give him a pension? If I had known your son was like this, I wouldn't have agreed to marry my daughter to him! The child's irresponsibility and lack of progress now has a lot to do with your mother! Now I hope you let go early, which is good for him. "

Conclusion: Men should understand the burden on themselves. It is a fact that young urban men and women are under great pressure now, and we will understand, but this is not our escape, and this is not the reason why we are not eager to make progress! A Qiang was not well educated, so he lost at the starting line. If he doesn't work hard and depends on his elders all day, can he rely on his elders for a while and for a lifetime? Besides, he doesn't feel guilty at all. When his mother-in-law asked for living expenses, he was particularly reluctant to encourage his mother to intercede. Isn't this a giant baby who hasn't been weaned? For her mother-in-law, she doesn't want her son-in-law to give her daughter a rich life. She only hopes that her son-in-law can give her daughter a stable home. This request is not too much. As a result, the son-in-law can't afford to raise his daughter, but he has to raise his daughter by himself. Which family can stand it? Only when men understand the burden on their shoulders earlier can they be more motivated to work hard for the future.