On the impermanence of life

1. No matter how lucky or unfortunate life is, it was once and it was the past. Good and bad are gone, good and bad are gone, just like the rain outside the window, soaked, wet, gone and far away. People who go straight around are smart, because they have found a shortcut, and those who go straight around are open-minded, because they can see more scenery, and life will still be confused and vicissitudes. Learning to smile is also a kind of wisdom.

2. Life is to live happily. Cherish every relationship, whether it is affection or love, because the world is so big, it is really not easy for us to meet and come together. Cherish others, take good care of yourself, don't blame others with emotions, and don't punish yourself with other people's mistakes.

When there is beauty in your heart, the world you see is completely different. Happiness is in your heart, and real happiness can't be taken away by others. Tolerance and sympathy are also a kind of strength, which makes us feel safer than anger and jealousy.

Love has an end, and everyone's love will have an end. Some people's love ends because of betrayal. Some people's love is separated by quarrels. More love is to die silently. What is the best ending of love? It is because of understanding that we no longer argue, because of loyalty and interdependence, because of affection and tolerance. A good man shoulders the family, a good woman guards her lover, and never leaves until the end.

I would rather stay alone than stay with people who are out of step.

6. In life, there are gains and losses. Therefore, the invisible see; Forgot, remember. We often cling to the utilitarian close at hand, to the gorgeous life, to the fruitless love, and it is easy to fall into a state of being at a loss. In fact, if you put down a little, you will get more; People who can let go are people who really know how to live, and they will live more smartly.

7. Be good to yourself. You won't live long. Be nice to the people around you. You may never meet them again in your next life.

8. People often run all their lives, and running is not an instantaneous outbreak, but a persistence on the way. Many times success means holding on for one more minute, but we don't know when this minute will appear. So, let's not stop until everything is decided. Because what we give up is not only a career, but also a dream! Giving yourself a gift every day is self-encouragement, self-affirmation and self-transcendence.

9. Life needs some moments. Slow down, calm down, listen to the sound of flowers and see the beauty of leaves blooming. Tell yourself, it's good to be alive.

10, stick a hot face on the other person's cold ass, and always feel that you are not doing well enough ... In your own eyes, this is love; In the eyes of the other party, this is annoying; In the eyes of others, this is cheap.

1 1. If you want to live comfortably, happily and smartly, you must learn to be content and be happy. Contentment, contentment is happiness. After all, life is not a show. You don't need too much powder, and you don't need to wear a mask to "take part in accidental amusement"! Laugh happily, sing whenever you want, earn more and earn less, and live a simple and natural life. This is comfort, this is happiness.

12, growing up and getting old means that what you once thought was unacceptable and unbearable can now be accepted and tolerated with a smile.

13. On the road of life, everyone is eager for success and afraid of failure. Only by learning to choose and give up can we fully understand life and have a broad realm of life. Giving up is not to say that you don't have a definite view and go with the flow, let alone to retreat despite difficulties, but a positive attitude towards life.

14, don't wronged yourself for others, change yourself. You are unique, precious, proud and beautiful. You must love yourself.

15. Once you start to hate someone, whatever he does will bore you.

16, there is always a way to go alone, so go alone bravely.

17, gradually understand that people's life can't be smooth sailing, you may be experiencing the pain of lovelorn, or you may be experiencing the decline of life. Or the greater hardships in life. But whether you are extremely happy or extremely sad, you must learn to let go. When you hold your hand tightly, there is nothing in it. Put it down and you can embrace the world. Letting go is a kind of liberation, an epiphany and a kind of wisdom in life.

18, some things can only be done by one person. Some customs can only go through by one person. There are some roads. You can only go alone.

19, love is not called love if it hurts; If love is humble, it is no longer love.

20. The first button is wrong, but you didn't find it until the last button. Some things are wrong from the beginning, but we have to admit it only at the end.

2 1. Someone reaches out a hand to wipe your tears when you fail, which is better than countless people reaching out and applauding you when you succeed. In the next life, I want to be a fish, with only three seconds of memory, and I can't remember sad things. You have to work hard, you can only pay what you want; Someone gave it to you, so you have to ask yourself if you can afford it. Really sad, there will be no expression, no emotion, no words; Silence is the greatest undercurrent.

22. Loving someone is actually very simple. He made you cry and let you down. Even so, when he stood there, you would walk over and hold his hand, involuntarily.

23. Sometimes, the question you ask, if the other person has been dodging, is actually a euphemism to tell you that the real answer is cruel.

24. Time will tell me how I got through that difficult time. Time will also tell you how you lost someone who was willing to love you with his life.

25. It's only appropriate for you to meet someone who can let you go and let you go.

26. I hope it is you who will accompany me from shoulder-length short hair to waist-length long hair. I hope it is you who will accompany me from youth to peace. I hope to wake up in 60 years and find that it is you at the pillow, and nothing else matters.

27. We always like to constantly guess each other's feelings, constantly doubt each other's ideas, and then start to feel uneasy, start to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, and start to blame ourselves for not being good enough. Experience tells you that caring too much is the beginning of loss.

28. Even if you lose weight and look good, everything will be fine. People who don't love you still don't love you. No matter how fat and ugly you are, no matter how bad you are, people who love you will never abandon you.

If you haven't experienced my journey, don't criticize my path. Everything starts with a determination and a seed. No matter how far, you can come to an end; No matter how deep the pain is, it will end one day. With the hope of tomorrow, we can be stronger in every painful and happy day; With a dream of the future, you will smile more brilliantly in every ordinary but not dull day.

30. The reason why couples quarrel is often not shallow feelings, but deep feelings. When two people are deeply in love, a little contradiction can make people hurt badly. Because I attach too much importance to each other, I can't let go. In fact, I don't love it anymore, and it doesn't matter if I break up. But with feelings, let's forgive and tolerate each other. Love, no quarrel, but the bottom line is not to break up. Because love is glued together.

3 1, you will know the value of friendship when you meet more people. You will know the value of understanding when you meet many things. If you fail more, you will know the value of mentality. If you succeed more, you will know the value of courage. There are more contradictions, and you will know the value of your mind. If you don't like it very much, you will know the value of training. How much flattery knows the value of sincerity. Only with more fame and fortune can we know the value of calmness. You don't know the value of purity until you have more entertainment. How many greetings do you know the value of persistence!

32. Life is a road, with shortcuts and twists and turns; Don't always think about who to rely on. Everyone is selfish. Some people love you, some people are jealous of you, some people value you, and some people don't take you seriously. You are injured, you are tired, you are lost, you are missed, and all this has nothing to do with people. You are responsible for your future.

33. Don't complain that others don't know yourself, just as you don't know others; Don't complain, others misunderstand ourselves, it's only because we don't maintain our own labels. No direction, travel light. As long as you stick to it, you will have many adventures. Hiding behind strange windows, closing your eyes, insomnia, yawning,

34, life is really tired, see how you taste; The future is always full of thorns, and dreams are always out of reach. If life brings you some difficulties, don't complain. Even if you can't stop complaining, you should complain as little as possible and have a more positive attitude. Complaining is like shooting yourself in the foot, which is bad for others, bad for yourself and useless.

There is one thing in the world that is more loyal to you than anything else, and that is your experience, your feelings and thoughts in it. They only belong to you and cannot be transferred to anyone else, but as long as you cherish them, they will be your most reliable wealth and no one can take them away. However, if you don't cherish it, it will be lost with the years and can't be found anywhere in the world.

36. Be grateful; No matter what you have now is good or bad, wake up every day and remember to thank life. You know, somewhere, some people are fighting for their lives. Don't always nag about what you lack, think about what others lack and what you have!

37. Will it last forever? Of course there is! Why don't most people believe there is? Because they haven't found the one that suits them best in their life journey. That is, the one who is destiny takes a hand. Why can't you find it? The vast sea of people, life is like dew, how easy is it to find the one that suits you best? You may be able to find the right person at the age of 40, but can you wait until 40? I couldn't find it in my twenties, so I had to get married. I found it in my thirties and forties, but I had to give it up. This is the sorrow of life.

38. It is absolutely scientific to judge people by their appearances. Character is written on the lips, and happiness is exposed in the corner of the eye. Rational sensibility is put in the voice, and sincerity and hypocrisy are reflected in the pupil. Standing posture shows talent and tolerance, and gait shows self-cognition. There is a recent mood in the expression, and the past years are in the brow. Clothing shows aesthetics, and hairstyle shows personality. Career depends on hands, cultivation depends on feet. Poverty will radiate all over the body.

39, eager to get what you need, impulsive, hasty, will be unfortunate. When things happen, you have to use your head and think more to succeed. Don't look down on anyone, because the weak will retaliate when they are bullied. Growth is an experience, and maturity is an experience. Mature people don't exult for gain, don't grieve for loss, and accept it calmly after exhausting their heart and efforts; Only mature people can take responsibility.

40. Don't try to correct the shortcomings and mistakes of everyone around you, so that everything will be as you wish, just as we can't remove all the stones and thorns in the world and make the road ahead smooth and straight. In fact, it is not necessarily that others are really wrong, but that our perspective on the problem has deviated. If you want to go further, you have to wear a pair of shoes that adapt to stones and thorns; If you want peace of mind, you must learn to accept everything with a tolerant heart.

4 1, life is like a blink of an eye, you will walk through it once. Life is like drawing a picture on a blank sheet of paper. We can fail, but we can't repeat the same failure. Life without stories is a straight line. The story is not like a sketch, but it is wonderful, just like the riverside scene on Qingming Festival. There is no particularly excellent drawing skills, and details are more important than trivial.

42. Life is different, and each has its own merits. Just like a lame comedy, all the characters are indispensable, so we should have a "normal heart". The others are right. You are serious. That's not true. Just think of him as reciting his lines, turning a blind eye and listening, and don't take it to heart.

43. People should be content, tolerant and generous. Many things are always experienced before they are understood. After the pain, it is strong; When you cross it, you are mature; If you are stupid, you will know how to cherish and give up at the right time. Always lose something, you can learn to cherish something; Before you learn what to change and what to give up, you always hit a wall.

44. In life, there are always many gullies that we need to cross. There are many things worth pursuing in this world. However, don't give yourself a hard time when you are running on the road of pursuit. You should do what you want to do according to your own will, love the person you want to love, and achieve the career you want. This kind of life has no regrets.

45. In life, everyone has troubles. Everyone has problems at work. Everyone has difficulties in life. If you think simply, have a pure vision and a normal state of mind, you will have a lot less inexplicable troubles. If you can afford it, you should put it down. Cherish the happiness around you and appreciate your own possession. Put it down if you can't carry it; If you can't afford to hurt, you will be free; Look down if you can't figure it out; Throw it away if you want.