Talking about father and son playing together

Truth is hidden in every little thing in life.

Perhaps an expression, a look, a word, is the greatness in the ordinary.

Smart parents will seize every detail and teach their children the truth of being a man and doing things.

Let's take a look at eight humorous conversations between a father and son, hoping to inspire you.

A father and son met a beggar in rags on the street corner.

Son: Dad, he is a beggar.

Father: Yes, he lives in poverty.

Son: He looks poor. Can we help him?

Father: If you study hard, you can change a vulnerable group like him.

At that moment, my son felt an unprecedented burden, which was responsibility and pride. It turns out that reading is not only for yourself, but also for helping others.

Feeling: What would you say if your child saw a beggar? Would you say, "If you don't study hard, you will be like him in the future?"

Different perspectives lead to different education for children. The former will make children feel responsible, while the latter will make them depressed.

My 2-year-old son stumbled over a stone while walking and cried.

Father: What happened to the baby?

Zi cried and pointed to the stone with tears in her eyes.

Father: Did you step on a stone and fall?

The son nodded.

Father: Stop crying and let's rub stones, shall we? It hurts, too You stepped on it.

My son stopped crying and touched the stone, just like comforting small animals, with gentle movements.

From then on, he knew that even a stone would hurt, and he understood kindness and tolerance.

Feelings: Most parents will say "Don't cry, I'll help you", and then kick the stone far away, which seems reasonable, but in fact it will make the child form the victim psychology and shirk responsibility from now on.

On the way to work at night, a father and son followed.

Zi: I want to eat Zhajiang Noodles later.

Father: Is Zhajiang noodles delicious?

Zi: Delicious, especially delicious. It would be better if there were 1 egg.

Father: How about two eggs?

Son: So much the better.

Father: How about three eggs?

Zi: That's even better.

Father: How about four eggs?

Zi: That's even better.

Father: How about five eggs?

Zi: That's better, better and more delicious.

Father: How about six eggs?

Zi: That's even more, more and more delicious.

Father: How about seven eggs?

Zi: That's more and more delicious. Haha, then I'll hold on.

Unconsciously, the pace slowed down with them, and I had the last laugh.

It turns out that happiness is simple.

Feeling: Feel children's happiness with your heart and follow their thoughts without judgment. What they want is actually very simple.

In early autumn, a father and son passed by a small river, and the river was crystal clear. My son wants to swim.

Son: Dad, I want to swim.

Father: Yes, but we have to go home and change clothes first, otherwise, how can this dress get into the water?

Zi: Then let's hurry back and change.

When they got home, they were changing clothes.

Father: Do you feel a little cold?

Zi: It's a little cold. The weather is getting colder.

Father: Do you still want to go swimming? I'm a little afraid of the cold.

Son: Then forget it. Let's go next time it's hot.

Since then, children have learned to think twice before acting, and things cannot be done overnight.

Feelings: Children are determined to do what you forbid them not to do, because their self-awareness is beginning to sprout.

Blocking is never as good as dredging, so is learning, especially games.

The father is rich and the son is proud.

Son: Dad, do you have any money?

Father: Yes, I am rich. I don't want to lie to you.

Son: Then I am your son. Am I rich, too?

Father: This is my money, not yours.

Zi: Then why can I still spend your money? You have to buy me toys and clothes. You can give me whatever I want to buy.

Father: When you can't make money, I will do my duty to take care of you. When you are independent, you must earn money by yourself. It doesn't matter to me whether you earn more or less, just as my money is not your money.

The son finally knew that his father's money was not for nothing. If he wants to have money, he needs to earn it himself.

Feeling: It is the correct values not to cry poverty in front of children and not to show off wealth in front of children. It's easier to give him money than to teach him to understand it correctly.

At the beginning of school, the father sent his son to school, and the son was reluctant.

Son: Dad, why should I study? There are many people who don't study, and they are still alive and well.

Father: Reading is not to make a living, but to make yourself more likely.

Zi: I don't quite understand Can you elaborate on it?

Father: People who graduated from primary school can go to work on the construction site without any skills.

Junior high school graduates can do some mechanical operations.

High school graduates can learn some mechanical maintenance operations and accept more knowledge.

College graduates can design high-rise buildings and railway bridges.

If he graduates with a master's degree and a doctor's degree, he can create something that we didn't have before.

So studying hard is to make yourself have unlimited possibilities.

From then on, my son began to have a deeper understanding of why he should study hard.

Feeling: children will be tired of learning. How to make them understand the truth of reading can impress him more than telling a concrete example.

A father used to go to a bar for a drink every day before going to work.

On a snowy morning, he kissed his wife and children goodbye and went straight to the pub.

I just walked to the door and found my son behind me.

Father: Why are you here? How did you know I was here?

Zi: Look at that footprint. I stepped on your footprints.

His son's words shocked him. From that day on, he stopped drinking and got rid of other bad habits.

In life, not only parents educate their children, but children can also educate their parents.

Feelings: We can find out what parents are like and what children are like. Remember, when you form a bad habit, think about whether your children will learn from you.

My son came last in the exam, and my father was a little anxious.

Son: Dad, I came last in the exam this time.

Father: Great, you don't have to worry about someone overtaking you.

The son was grateful that his father didn't blame him, and secretly decided to do well in the exam next time.

The second time, I got the tenth from the bottom.

Son: Dad, I made progress this time, and got the tenth place from the bottom.

Father: Wow, you are really something. Now you are only a few places away from the tenth place.

Encouraged by his father, his son is full of confidence.

The third time, my son got into the top ten.

Son: Look, Dad, I'm in the top ten this time. It's amazing.

Father: I didn't expect you to do so well in the exam. Your efforts have finally paid off.

Encouraging is more effective than criticizing.

Feelings: It is simple to criticize children, which can not only let them vent their dissatisfaction, but also let them realize their mistakes, but the harm is inevitable; Only encouragement can play a positive role in promoting children.

The famous German philosopher IELTS Bells said: The essence of education is that a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul summons another soul.

The hand pushing the cradle is the hand pushing the world, and education is everywhere.