Never marry a man who helps you with the housework. What does this sentence inspire you?

Some time ago, I saw such a passage on the Internet, which impressed me deeply. An old professor said, "I will definitely tell my students that if my boyfriend tells you that I will help you with the housework after marriage, you can't marry him." It is wrong to treat housework as help, and husband and wife should share housework together. "

A husband who helps with housework is not a good husband. When I saw the professor's words, I couldn't help thinking of my friend Liu Yun. Her husband is really good-looking and good to his wife, but he just doesn't want to do housework. Once I went to his house as a guest, Liu Yun asked her husband to help him clean the table, and called several times, but her husband didn't move. Until Li Yun said, "Help me clean the table." Yes, you are not mistaken, that is, "help". He hardly picked up the rag. Liu Yun's mother-in-law is a very capable person. She never needs anyone to interfere in housework. Her husband has developed this habit since he was a child, thinking that housework is a woman's business.

The second is a good husband who shares housework. Colleague Xiao Jing has been married for more than three years. She seldom does housework at home and never touches a drop of water when she is pregnant. The child is now more than two weeks old, and the clothes are all washed by the husband. The work of washing milk powder is also done by my husband, even including washing bottles. Their daily marriage really makes us envy. Home is originally for two people, and housework should also be for two people. A husband who can take the initiative to do housework is a good husband.

Third, a good husband can be cultivated. If you want to live a good life for two people, you should also pay attention to some routines. For example, don't directly tell your husband what to do. You can say, "Are you washing clothes? Still washing dishes? " This is an alternative, everyone should do one thing, and no one feels lost. This era itself has high requirements for women. Being a professional woman will say that you don't care about your family. If you were a stay-at-home mom, you would say it was your duty, not a career at all. There is no law requiring women to do housework. Home is the home of two people, and it needs two people to run it together.