How do girls talk? Do boys think this is coquetry?

This is called coquetry. For men, it is: emotional value+protective desire. Emotional value can explain why you hold your voice, and then, like in idol dramas, this coquetry is not suitable for everyone. Because first of all, if you don't talk at all, you really can't come here suddenly. In fact, this kind of coquetry is not advanced at first, and it is very limited. Almost only suitable for: 1, sweet voice 2, cute appearance 3, long-term habitual use. Then, this kind of coquetry will not have emotional value for all men, such as crying. Many women regard crying as a coquetry weapon, which is actually too ... wasteful. And more often, men will feel bored. The correct way to open a cry: first try to hold back the expression that won't make you cry, and then pretend and try to hide your smile. Pretend it's for you and try to show it to the boys. For example, when you are having dinner with a boy, the lid of the beverage bottle is screwed tightly. When other girls can't unscrew it, you don't have to hold it yourself and then secretly unscrew it on the table. It doesn't matter whether it can be unscrewed or not, because the boys are present, so it is not necessary. General girls withdraw: Oh, it's too tight to unscrew. Honey, can you unscrew it for me? The retreat of the master: pick up the bottle, pout and say: I don't believe I can't unscrew it, hum! Then I twisted my face for a long time, but I still couldn't unscrew it (although you could actually unscrew it ...). Then I pouted and handed him the bottle. This is the retreat of high position, which not only tries to be brave moderately, but also gives men a space to show off in front of you. In fact, a successful show-off is very enjoyable. He'll think it's so cute that you just pouted and couldn't unscrew the bottle. First of all, coquetry causes men's desire for protection. The protection desire of coquetry should be distinguished from acting and taking advantage. The essence of protective desire is to be needed. Men are sometimes as simple as that, and recognition+need+praise is almost invincible. At this time, Doby and Korea are perfect. But it must be distinguished from deliberately taking advantage. In other words, if you usually speak softly and have a gentle personality, then ask a boy for help and praise him after you help, so that the boy will be very useful. But if you can't do anything, what you need is not human feelings, but others to help you with the whole thing, then it's really "trouble you". Just like running. On the way, you were sweating and thirsty. Boys are willing to give you a towel and water, so that boys will feel needed. But if you can't run at all, you want boys to run directly behind your back. This is not a question of protection, but a question of ability. Finally, talk about the difference between coquetry and acting. As for the way women do things, I think there are three levels: low-level works, works that are used to exceeding the acceptance level of men and are not satisfied to a certain extent, but high-level works within the acceptance range turn works into life insights and make men become participants and coquettes from recipients, which is actually such high-level works. Therefore, coquetry can make men feel like spring breeze, while low-level jobs will only make men feel bored. If feelings are like playing chess, then although every step is important, not every step has an immediate effect. The woman who turned her work into a life atmosphere accumulated a lot of money, played a lot of humble chess and finally gained a lot; Turning a job into a woman who meets her own needs, although it is quick at one time and every step may receive immediate results, is finally caught in a vicious circle of sexual relations. The direction of turning coquetry into life sentiment is: I will give you a chance to get bored with me. This is to turn coquetry into a life mood and a strong mentality. Because this will not become weak because of coquetry, but will turn work into a small game that two people play tacitly. The man will change from a responsible party to a participant, and of course he can have fun with you. For example, as I said in other answers, after a man gives a gift, the direction he should give back is: in fact, many things can be bought by himself, but they are not as meaningful as those you give. This means that I received a better emotional gift and gave you a chance to enhance your feelings with me. It's not that I am too poor to buy this. You gave me this. It's just a continuation of my life. The coquetry at this time is actually releasing a signal that we should play. There is a word to praise women called reasonable. The so-called understanding means knowing when it is a big event and when it is a small event, and knowing that it should be treated differently. Therefore, for coquetry, a coquetry woman can master the opening time by herself. Know when it is playtime and when it is not.

Or often send some of these cute expression packs.