Wang Xiaofei said that the big S was delayed: Is it possible for a woman who gave up her career for her family to be happy?

Big S and Wang Xiaofei, the couple, are frequent visitors to hot search, and any trouble is enough to trigger a discussion.

A blogger sorted out the photos of Da S attending Cannes Film Festival in 2006, when Da S was only 30 years old.

The big S in the photo looks very young and even has a childlike feeling.

That year, Big S participated in the Taiwan Province thriller Mystery and was selected as the "Official Watching" unit of Cannes Film Festival.

That may also be the only time that Big S was selected for Cannes. Seeing these photos, I was in a trance: Big S used to be a hot actor with his bare hands.

Wang Xiaofei forwarded this group of pictures and wrote: Why do I feel that I have delayed my wife?

In fact, it is not too much to say that it is delayed.

Big S and Wang Xiaofei got married on 20 10.

Before that, Big S had many works, such as Love at the Corner, Summer of Bubbles, Meteor Garden and so on.

At that time, big S was very desperate for his career, and he also had good resources to cooperate with many big coffees. According to the demeanor of Big S in those days, if you keep fighting like this, your career will not be bad, and you may even be an actor who won the best actress.

But big s didn't. After she married Wang Xiaofei, she hardly had any film and television works. The only one was a driver seven years ago. In recent years, Da S only participated in some activities and variety shows, and even many people forgot Da S's actor status.

After nine years of marriage, Big S is now 43 years old and has missed the golden age of an actor. She once said that the role she is looking for now is just a mother-in-law, and it is unacceptable to always create a big S for girls.

Is it really worthwhile for Big S to give up his career for his family?

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Married to Wang Xiaofei for 9 years, Big S gave birth to two children. Having these two children, Big S also suffered a lot.

The first child, in order to get pregnant, changed his vegetarian habit and began to eat meat, and his hair was cut short, regardless of his figure.

The second child had a seizure during childbirth and woke up in a coma for ten days. Big s said he almost died on the operating table.

Even though she suffered a lot, when she was pregnant with her third child, she insisted on giving birth. At that time, she was shocked by netizens: "This is simply giving birth to children with life."

But big S said it was his own right, and no one could interfere.

Of course, the third child ended in abortion.

Give up your career, return to your family, and have children desperately. What do you think of these words?

If you don't know the client, the girl will feel that this woman is unhappy, so she wants to use her children to enhance her value.

But the marriage between Big S and Wang Xiaofei, all the way down, has to say that Big S is really lucky.

What Wang Xiaofei mentioned most in Weibo was Big S and children, which shows that this is a family-oriented man.

Not only that, before they went to the variety show, the big S was repeatedly searched and cried at every turn. She also said that her husband must peel shrimp, which is simply a capitalized daughter.

While the whole world is talking about Big S, only Wang Xiaofei stands up to the netizens.

There are really too many such scenes. As long as big S is criticized, Wang Xiaofei will always stand in front of big S. ..

Now the big S is in good shape. Although people reach middle age, they are full of happiness.

I remember her describing herself like this: I was a wolf before I got married. Although I am married and have a family, my personality is still a wolf. You can ask me to go out for food and hunt, or you can ask me to stay at home and watch.

Compared with career success, Wang Xiaofei brought her a sense of belonging and security, which Big S cherishes more ... It is worthwhile for Big S to sacrifice his career for his family.

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In the past two years, we have been advocating that women should be independent, never give up their careers for marriage, have economic freedom and never lose themselves.

So we will praise those actresses who come back quickly after giving birth. In the social system, we all acquiesce that women will be happy only if they are independent.

But on the other hand, is it really unhappy for a woman to focus on her family? Actually, it's not necessarily, but it's still divided. Like Big S, she made herself happy.

To sum up, it depends on two factors: your own value, the way you run your business, and the man you choose. Let me talk about these three aspects first.

1/ self-worth S Although she gave up her career, her early fame and resources will bring her value.

You see, she frequently appears in variety shows and has many endorsements. Although she gave up her career as an actress, it doesn't mean that she doesn't make money.

Besides, big S is a very capable person. When the hotel in Wang Xiaofei was in crisis, Big S helped her behind her back.

It can be said that even if Big S quits the entertainment circle, she will not become a useless housewife. She can fight for her career and help her husband's career.

Such a woman is the tough guy in marriage.

The really terrible housewife is Luo Zijun, who knows nothing but daily necessities. She can't provide her husband with career help or emotional value, and it's natural to be abandoned in the end.

Therefore, don't underestimate those women who give up their careers for their families and still live well. They have abilities you can't see.

2/ The way you run your career in marriage shows that Big S is a person who knows how to show weakness.

When Big S married Wang Xiaofei, she was considered a strong woman.

In fact, the character of big S is not weak. She is as aggressive as a wolf. She once yelled at her husband, "If you treat her badly, I'll break your leg."

But in front of Wang Xiaofei, the big S you see is always weak and needs protection. She always stands behind Wang Xiaofei, worshiping and relying on Wang Xiaofei.

In fact, this is the art of controlling the husband. Women can be tough outside, but in the face of lovers, you can completely lay down your weapons and satisfy men's vanity and desire for protection.

3/ The man you choose meets the above two requirements. If you don't meet the right person, everything will be in vain. I have to say, Big S has a good eye and chose Wang Xiaofei. This man has a background, the key is willing to take care of his family.

No matter how rich a man is, it is a nightmare for a woman if he doesn't care about his family.

Visible Wang Xiaofei is a good man, take care of big S, take care of children, and shoulder the burden of life for big S, so the woman behind him is naturally quiet.

If a woman chooses the right man, your marriage is likely to succeed. Wang Xiaofei said that delaying the big S can also show that Wang Xiaofei is a person who knows how to cherish. It is worthwhile for such men and women to pay.

A woman who gives up her career for her family is not doomed to be unhappy. There is also a big S who is good at life: she keeps her value, knows how to operate, and has the vision of choosing a man.

Some people have both family and career, while others choose only one. In fact, there is no right or wrong choice, just look at how you are responsible for your choice.