The child has a bad relationship with his classmates at school. How should parents guide him?

I usually communicate with my children at home because I am too shy to play with my classmates, because I am nicknamed by my classmates and don't want to play with them, or because I don't know how to communicate with my classmates. It is suggested that parents can set a relatively fixed "chat time", such as picking up their children on the way home and then going to bed. And ask children about their school for more information; Or, when you go out to play with your children on weekends, talk to them about what adults did and solved this week, and guide them to talk about what they did at school and whether they encountered any difficulties.

Encourage children to participate in sports activities and collective cultural activities to cultivate interest. When a child has certain advantages and specialties in some aspects, then he has made a breakthrough in interpersonal communication. In these activities, he gained confidence, and it was easier for him to integrate into the group and find friends. In addition, other class group activities, such as publishing blackboard newspapers and cleaning, also encourage children to participate more. The same is true for children, "labor exercises people, and practice makes true knowledge." Various class collective activities not only cultivate hands-on ability and brain ability, but also give children opportunities to communicate. Brewing needs space, and children's friendship also needs space. Class collective activities are the best brewing device.

The imitation of children before the age of seven is unconscious, and many of our good qualities are unconsciously acquired by imitating the behavior of family members in the early life. Therefore, as adults, parents should set a good example for their children and create a good family atmosphere. For example, parents go home and take the initiative to greet the elderly at home; We find that there are guests at home, parents will take the initiative to say hello politely, and so on. These are all things in the eyes of children. A family is a whole, and parents and children work together to make themselves better.

Ask your child what hobbies he wants to get along with. Like to read more books, let children bring books to read together; More people like sports and let their children bring tools (such as basketball, football, table tennis). Playing ball together is a group activity. Try to increase the possibility of playing together. Cultivate more abilities that children don't have, such as children's cross talk, such as robot programming ... most people envy others' abilities. This makes children more complementary than others. It can also increase children's ability to get along.