Beating around the bush said that he had a bad temper.

Do you feel that others want to express themselves too much, or do you feel that you have something wrong to express your unintentional and sorry? I think it's mostly the latter: I feel that I often say and do things without thinking, but I immediately realize that I am wrong, but what I say and do is like spilled water, which can never be taken back. I knew it, but I couldn't consciously control it at that time.