How to talk and chat gently

People often say it's gentle, so I should be able to answer it. Tone is not that important, what matters is content. Put yourself in others' shoes and say what to say, what not to say and what not to say in another way. I don't have the heart to hurt others. It's probably gentleness.

1. Emotional intelligence and the art of speaking

Understand the situation of others and take care of their feelings.

What to say, what to say later, what not to say.

Be gentle

That's probably what it means. A grateful person naturally smiles at Le Monde. A person with regrets is naturally disappointed with life. A person with a grudge is naturally hostile to Le Monde.

First of all, I think people who pay a little attention to this aspect can be cultivated slowly. Secondly, the hardest thing to do is to be gentle when you know that life is hard, unfair and difficult. People who can do the second point are often what we call gentle people.

Speak softly and talk about specific strategies.

1, replace some words with intense emotions and paranoid tendencies, such as "you are wrong, I am right", you can say "this issue is still negotiable!" . Many times, there is no absolute right or wrong, just different positions.

2. Learn to add modal particles, such as "ah, ah, oh, wow", "ah," ~, (o^^o), "and other symbols. When chatting face to face on the Internet, it has many decorative effects on nonverbal coldness, making the tone more gentle.

3, be more patient, be patient and communicate with people around you like a child or an old man, is it a lot gentler?

My male god Natsume, every time I see his tenderness for the little fox, I want to marry him with a dowry at once.

My therapy system is My Neighbor Totoro Animation. I will be gentle for half a year after reading it and brush it twice a year.

4. People's trouble lies in being a good teacher. Dialogue should be equal and frank, modest and low-key, and don't talk condescendingly.

5. In any case, don't speak with warm and angry emotions, and try to reduce the decibel. Is it not gentle to talk loudly on the subway bus in the street and everyone on the bus hears it?

6. People who can speak softly must be soft from the inside out, not deliberately artificial. People who "know the greatness of Kun, but still pity the lush" are often open-minded and ambitious.

In short, put yourself in the other's shoes, "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you", and don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you, be gentle and natural!