Language: It can be a prayer or a curse.

There is a saying that love begins with talking well!

Between people, language is a bridge connecting each other!

Some people also say: living in this society, no matter what industry, occupation or life you are in, one of the hard skills you need most is expressiveness! This shows how important language is!

Let's talk about language violence. What is verbal violence? Marshall Luxembourg put forward in nonviolent communication: "The root of most violence is that people ignore each other's feelings and needs and blame each other for the conflict!

I remember once, I took my daughter to the bookstore to buy books. A boy cried at the top of his lungs and asked his mother to buy him the book he wanted. My mother refused. I think the mother must have reasons for her disagreement, but she responded to the child with a fierce expression and a rude voice, as if she had had enough of the child's crying!

But some psychologists have said that when we must communicate with each other by shouting, it means that our hearts are too far away, and we directly think that only shouting can make each other hear us!

The child cried for a book at the top of his lungs, not because of a book, but because his mother didn't hear the voice in his heart and could only express it by shouting. No crying for no reason, or really sad!

NLP neurolinguistics has this content: Everyone's behavior has only two purposes: 1. Express love and 2. Call for love! Whether it is affection, friendship, love, the foundation of love is: talk well, respond to each other's words well, and communicate badly, which will break the bridge connecting each other. ...

The more mature people are, the more peaceful they are.

The more mature people are, the more tolerant they are.

The more mature a person is, the more he learns to say good wishes to others.

Bottom line: either bless others or consume others! Don't say anything that consumes others at will. Blessing others is also your own good luck. There is nothing in this world: I am this straight-tempered. You have to understand, who has the obligation to pay for your straightforwardness?

Language can be a prayer or a curse!

Beautiful, have a good chat first!