What are the three characteristics of a man's love for his wife (five manifestations of a man's love for his wife)

Xiao Pan's series of emotional essays

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As the saying goes, "Men are afraid of going into the wrong line, while women are afraid of marrying the wrong man". Many women are jittery and selective, hoping to find the love of their lives, but there are still countless looking for a marriage who complain that they have been infatuated with the wrong person and regret marrying the wrong person for life.

what is the right thing to do, and what is the performance of a man? Actually, there is a benchmark. In this benchmark, men's performance has these performances, but if there is one, women are happy. If they win three, then women really don't get married wrong in this life!

First, in marriage, men give women enough sense of security. The sense of security comes from men offering rather than women asking. This sense of security also means that in the relationship between husband and wife, men look everywhere at their wives.

Yingying is such a happy woman. In her marriage that has lasted for ten years, her husband gave her enough sense of security.

she doesn't have to worry about the financial conditions at home. Since marriage, her husband's work has been very stable. As a teacher, her husband is conscientious. Although she has not climbed year after year, she has won many awards. He always tries his best to teach every student well, and every salary is aboveboard. Although she can't be rich and expensive, in Yingying's heart, she never worries that such a dedicated husband will lose his job one day.

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She never worries that her husband will cheat. My husband's mobile phone and computer never have a password. If he comes home late, he will definitely report it in advance. He has been married for so many years and has never changed. Every time a husband socializes, he almost always brings Yingying. Ten years of persistence has given Yingying a sense of security that countless women have never had before.

She never worries that her husband will drink, fight or make trouble. In Yingying's mind, her husband has always been the most stable and knowledgeable one among her peers.

This sense of security given to her by her husband has made Yingying happy as a little girl, carefree, as long as she takes good care of her husband and children's three meals a day and completes her work, and the rest, as long as her husband is around, she can feel at ease.

Second, in marriage, men should always remember women's preferences. A big reason why many women think that their husbands don't love themselves is that their husbands never seem to know themselves, don't know what they want and like, and don't care about the result, that is, they will doubt whether their husbands really don't love themselves.

Many years ago, I attended a dinner party where several of our good friends, married with children, had a dinner together. At the dinner table, we could see how everyone's marital status was.

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Vivi's husband sometimes picks up some dishes that Vivi likes, for fear that Vivi can't catch them. In this gap, I will also look after the children. And Yanxia's husband, who only cares about eating hard, sometimes looks at his mobile phone, sometimes joins topics of interest to everyone, and is indifferent to Yanxia, who has no time to eat while taking care of his children. Occasionally, he will dislike Yanxia's inability to speak and improper use of words. After a meal, the relationship between husband and wife is clear at a glance.

What impressed us most was that when we passed by the shopping mall after dinner, Vivi's husband dragged Vivi to the back, and the two men whispered to each other. It turned out that Vivi's husband saw the makeup kit that Vivi had long admired and ran to buy it. Vivi lightly blamed him for falling behind us.

thirdly, I can accompany a woman to do what she likes. In places that women like, many men are unwilling to participate, and sometimes even if they do, they will be absent-minded and complain deeply, such as shopping. We often see girlfriends shopping together, but it's hard to see couples shopping together. Sometimes even if we do, we see men standing by with things and playing with their mobile phones, and our minds are never on women.

since they got married, Sheng Min's husband has been very attentive to shopping with Sheng Min. Sheng Min can stay with him as long as he wants, and he will interact with Sheng Min, giving Sheng Min serious advice on which clothes look good and which clothes are suitable.

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Sheng Min likes pottery, and her husband arranges them to do handicrafts every once in a while, and the house is full of their works. Sheng Min likes swimming, and her husband learns faster than her in order to accompany her. The feelings of the two people are inseparable, and outsiders look very envious.

Fourth, when you are away from home, you will be concerned about your own woman. Many men go wild when they leave home. They often don't communicate with their wives waiting at home on the grounds that they are too busy at work and too tired on business trips, but in fact, they just want to finally get rid of their wives' control, out of sight and out of mind. . In this way, it is easy for a delicate woman to think more, and there will be contradictions between husband and wife. A good marriage should not be like this.

My friend Pan Ting's husband never lost contact when he was away from home, and even refused to talk to Pan Ting by video with various excuses. Pan Ting received her husband's greetings every once in a while, full of concern.

Fifth, if you quarrel with a woman, you will sincerely admit your mistake first. When a man quarrels with a woman, it is common for a man to admit his mistake first, but there is such a man who is full of grievances even if he admits his mistake, without the slightest sincerity, but full of grievances. Such a mistake is not only ineffective, but will make women more angry.

besides career, the most important thing for women in this life is to marry a good husband, and the good thing here is that men should "love" women! Women need the nourishment of love and marriage, but also the care of men. A good partner and a right man is to give women irreplaceable love. The man who "loves his wife" is the most attractive man in the world. I hope that every woman can meet her Mr. Right and the man who can make you categorically say that she didn't marry wrong!