Why does the woman get married with a bride price?

In fact, the bride price should not come, but a natural etiquette.

In marriage, the woman seems to have been in a weak position. Take the baby to do housework, work to earn money, and deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. All kinds of trifles are piled together, which makes people breathless.

Bride price is a kind of etiquette that existed in ancient times. At that time, marriage was "the life of parents, the words of a matchmaker". After being together, the possibility of divorce is very small.

Nowadays, after getting along with each other for a period of time after marriage, most people will choose to divorce if they find that their personalities are incompatible or have such contradictions.

Marriage brings too many constraints to women, and the workplace is very harsh on women's living environment.

The positive debater in "The Story of Chipa" said such a data in his defense: "According to the survey data of a large recruitment website, 45.5% of women said that their career development was negatively affected by gender and marriage and childbirth in the workplace."

Some people are even asked by their superiors not to get pregnant for one year during their career promotion.

Marriage is not the meaning of a woman's life, but the reality is that most women lose the opportunity to be themselves after entering marriage.

Therefore, giving a bride price when getting married is a comfort and a promise to women.

Bride price is the guarantee.

"Buffett's lifelong advice to children" wrote: "The bride price is not only the key to marriage, but also the concern of the woman's parents. The man's parents have a clear attitude and life will be happier in the future. "

I'm impressed.

If love depends on feeling, it is the sweet feeling when you are with each other, then marriage must have material things, and marriage without material things can't support two people to go on.

Marriage is not between two people, but between two families. In addition to the sweetness of love, there is also some worldly wisdom.

If the two families can't reach an agreement on the bride price, how can they ensure their happiness after marriage?

There is a problem on the internet: I have been with my boyfriend for six years and I am impatient when it comes to bride price. What kind of psychology is this?

This problem deserves our consideration. Seeing a problem from the perspective of two people is actually a two-way psychology.

In the first case, the boy doesn't want to be responsible for her; In the second case, the amount proposed by the woman puts pressure on the man.

I am very touched and have experienced many difficulties and obstacles. I will give up all my efforts when it comes to bride price.

Because on the issue of bride price, we can really see each other's attitude and whether the marriage of two people can be guaranteed.

Before marriage, the other party is not willing to take you to heart. If you don't treat the feelings of two people well, the damage after marriage may be doubled.

Only two people are sincere enough, and marriage life will be more secure.