My daughter was ill in hospital, and her ex-husband came to visit and saw his back in front of the ward. What should I do?

Since I divorced Zhigang, I have lived with my 3-year-old daughter. Sometimes I am busy at work and have to take care of my daughter when I go home. It seems that the whole person is going to be hollowed out. No matter how hard and tired you are, you can only carry it alone, because others will not sympathize with you, and only strong efforts can get through the current predicament.

Four days ago, on a company outing, I accompanied a colleague to another city on business. Before I left, I left my daughter to my mother's care. When I got home, I found my daughter had a high fever for three days in a row. I immediately sent my daughter to the hospital. As soon as the doctor saw that the child was seriously ill, he was sent to the intensive care unit.

I waited anxiously outside the door, but unfortunately my family only saw my daughter once a day. I feel uneasy, for fear that my daughter will have an accident. I blame myself. If I hadn't been on a business trip, my daughter wouldn't have suddenly fallen ill. How can I support my daughter if I don't work?

Outside the ward, many people came one after another. Most of them are couples who bring their children to see a doctor. On the other hand, being alone is special to me. I was a little regretful at that time. Why should I resolutely divorce Zhigang? Did I do something wrong?

02.

Seeing her granddaughter's illness is so serious, my mother always blamed herself and said, "If I had known Nannan's illness was so serious, I would have sent her here ..."

I comforted the old man and advised her not to think about it. That night, I sat alone outside the ward, my thoughts drifting away. At this time, her ex-husband Zhigang suddenly ran upstairs and came up to me with a serious expression and asked, "What happened to Nan Nan? Does it matter? Where is she now? "

Looking at my ex-husband's nervous expression, I felt sour and whispered to his daughter about the illness. Without saying anything, Zhigang went directly to the window of the intensive care unit and looked inside with a probe. He searched back and forth for a long time, but didn't see his daughter.

Looking at the familiar back and his worried expression, I felt guilty and burst into tears. Those warm pictures of the past flashed in my mind. Zhigang smiled and fed his daughter. He knelt down to play games with her. He took the trouble to come back from other places to spend her birthday ... My ex-husband is a qualified father and a responsible man, but why did he come to this stage?

After a while, the ex-husband came back depressed and was about to speak. Seeing me crying into tears, he hesitated for a moment to comfort me not to worry. He also said that even if everything is paid, the safety of his daughter should be guaranteed. I have mixed feelings in my heart and I can't wait to hold him and cry.

03.

Speaking of my divorce from Zhigang, I am mainly blamed for being too sharp. I'm weird when I'm small-tempered. No matter what happens, I will not let myself be wronged. This strong personality made Zhigang suffer greatly. Although he is patient with me again and again, I don't know how to satisfy him. I quarrel with him almost every day. Even my mother advised me to stop and cherish the happy life in front of me.

But a year ago, I had accumulated too much resentment in my heart. Finally, because of a small matter, I decisively proposed to divorce him. Even though he kept me, I left the place where I lived for five years without hesitation.

Now that I think about it, my ex-husband is kind and loyal to others, which is better for me and my daughter. Why should I be angry with him if I am not satisfied? People are always like this. You don't know how to cherish until you lose it. In this year's divorced career, I also felt the hardships of life. Every time I think of the previous dribs and drabs, I feel a lot.

Who can blame this? I brought this on myself. When I want to understand this, I hope that Zhigang can come back to me, but I am too proud to bow my head and admit my mistake, so our relationship has been so deadlocked. He comes to visit his daughter from time to time, but I always ignore him with a long face when I see my amiable expression.

04.

My ex-husband saw me crying just because he was worried about his daughter's safety, but he didn't know his guilt and regret.

A week later, my daughter finally recovered, and my ex-husband specially drove us home. I specially cooked several dishes and invited him to stay for dinner. After dinner, I got up the courage to tell him, "Gangzi, I'm sorry. I was so mean before. It's all my fault ... "

Zhigang was surprised and seemed unable to believe that I would do this. Later, I proposed to remarry, and Zhigang was moved to tears.

Suddenly found that my ex-husband has been waiting for me to turn around. He wiped his tears and said excitedly, "Wife, is this true?" Great, I knew you wouldn't leave me ... "

We, a couple who left for a year, finally embraced, and our daughter jumped up happily, clapping her hands and shouting for us to hug her.