The expression of lying

1

The details of the story do not match

The liar needs to remember what he said, so many times, he will forget it after a long time What did he talk about last time? For example, if you ask him who he went out with last week, he may have told you last time that he went out to Office A with his colleague Xiao Zhang, but you may ask him again in a few days. At that time, he forgot that he said that he and Xiao Chen went to B place, which was inconsistent with each other, which can prove that he lied.

Two

Don’t dare to look at you directly

Like a child, he will feel guilty if he tells a lie and will not dare to look at you, but if you ask him some principles When it comes to sexual issues, he needs to think about it. Then, he needs a period of time to think about the logic of the story he is going to tell next. He will also be afraid of flaws in the story and the inconsistency of things. With so many worries in your mind at once, you will naturally feel guilty and afraid to look at you, except for narcissists and psychopaths. These people can calmly look into your eyes and lie.

Three

Parroting

When a liar is confused, he will follow what you say and follow the script you give him. Will follow suit, for example: Did you go out to eat with your friend Xiao Li at a restaurant near the company last night? He would say: Yes, yes, I just went with him. Usually if these are lies, he is too lazy to make up a lie to tell you, because it is too tiring, so he might as well develop according to your script, which saves worry and trouble.

Four

Self-protection actions

When mom says dad is lying, she will cover her mouth. I guess dad is afraid of being slapped twice by mom? I asked my father why, and he said that he would unconsciously cover the places he felt he needed to protect. I discussed this with my colleagues at that time. In fact, when everyone lies, they will not protect the places they feel vulnerable. This is instinctive. reaction, so if you observe more at ordinary times, you can know which are his little actions after lying.

Five

It is difficult to answer a very simple question

It is generally difficult for a liar to justify himself, so before lying, he will consider the need How to say it, how to echo it back and forth, so even if you ask him a simple question, for example, where are you going tonight? If he is lying, he will think, should I tell Xiao Li or Xiao Zhang, how should I talk to them after talking, what did Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang do tonight, and what should I tell my girlfriend if they ask? Said... So, even if it is a very simple question, it will take me a long time to tell you.

Six

Nervous manifestations

If a liar is questioned, some people may become nervous and may appear incoherent, blushing, or sweating excessively. Symptoms, but there are currently relatively few such people. If there are boys with such symptoms, I guess they are also very shy, and most of them are thinking of preparing a huge surprise for you.

Seven

Be extra cautious

When you lie, you are most afraid of being found out in the future, so you will be extra cautious. You will clear your chat history and call history. It is better to leave a thin line and kill everything now, so the other party will be extra sensitive. Even if you just ask briefly about anything that makes you feel wrong, he will explain it for a long time. At this time, the explanation is just a cover-up. You will think that it should be fine. After all, he So much to explain, but this is his strategy.

Eight

Self-brainwashing

Liars will brainwash themselves. You ask him: Have you contacted your ex-girlfriend? He will say: No, I have no contact, how could I contact me? No, I, no, I, no contact, I won’t contact... Such self-brainwashing, gradually he also feels that he has not contacted his ex-girlfriend, you When asked again, he still said the same thing.

Nine

Escape

If a liar is too lazy to tell you, he will directly choose to escape. For example, if you ask him where you were last night, He would say: It's okay, it's okay. Yesterday was okay. It's all over. What do you want to eat tonight? He will slowly change the topic. At this time, it seems to him that whatever you ask is fine, because he wants to end your topic more, and he will prevaricate and deceive you.

Ten

Your intuition tells you

I have to admit that women’s intuition is very accurate. If you feel something is wrong, finally I feel that there will be some problems, but what I want to say here is that it is not recommended for most male compatriots to lie to their girlfriends. You can judge yourself for white lies. Sometimes your girlfriend knows when you lie, but she just Just like watching how you try to prevaricate her or deal with her, she will naturally leave after being disappointed. When two people get along, they should be honest with each other.