In the crisis of thirty, besides money, what else do you think there is?

There are actually many crises at the age of thirty besides money. Some people will encounter a marriage crisis, some will have a family financial crisis, and some will have a career bottleneck. So, in fact, everyone has their own pressure, and the sense of crisis is something that each of us must have, and we can empathize with it.

For me, in addition to the financial crisis at the age of thirty, there is also a marital crisis. When I turned 30, my marriage ran into trouble at least twice, both times reaching the point of divorce. Fortunately, there was a turning point later, otherwise I would have lost my marriage and my life and work would have been in a mess. But in the final analysis, whether it is a marital crisis or family disharmony, in the end it is actually caused by the economic crisis.

Sometimes I think about it. The material conditions of the family are relatively low. On the one hand, it is the pressure on young people, and on the other hand, it is also their motivation. When many people achieve material freedom through their own efforts when they are young, they feel empty inside and lose their fighting spirit in life. At that time, unhappiness really begins.

After turning thirty, I realized a truth: no matter who you are, no matter what environment you are in, no matter whether you have a family or not, you don’t need any reason to make money. It has to be said that many people hate the rich, but more people hope to be in that wave of rich people. We try our best to become rich, and we are also trying to maintain our self-esteem, because if you want to have family, friendship, and love, you want to get your sincerity, all of which do not require money to defend.

Although many people will say that talking about money hurts feelings, this is an era of talking about money. Talking about money hurts feelings, but talking about money is more about security and peace of mind, because in this world, no one should do anything for anyone, and there is no right.