Work pressure, my husband is going to retire, and I don't know where to go. I feel irritable every day. What should I do?

Stress and troubles are all given by yourself. All unpleasant things are temporary. Even if you come back from the army and feel inappropriate for a while, it is short-term. As long as you keep looking and work hard, you will find a way. Many people will still face these problems after leaving the army. Don't worry about what hasn't happened yet. Thinking about solutions is more practical. You can only adapt to your job or change jobs. If you adapt, do well, change departments, change jobs, the situation will change. If not, change a job. It seems that you are still young. Solve the work first, and the children can wait for a year to delay their work. Why should we take all things that have never happened to heart? When you are in trouble, read other people's blogs at night to see how people younger than you are doing. I believe you will feel more at ease when you see this.