Parents' feelings after reading in class

Reflections on Parents' Classroom —— Be a parent who makes progress with children.

In modern society, children are the most important thing in a family, but how can we educate children well and cultivate them better? I think we should constantly improve our quality, constantly change and correct our mistakes, discard the dross, take the essence, and make progress with our children, so as to set an example for them and lead by example.

First of all, in the process of educating children, we should maintain good living habits, improve self-intelligence, don't care too much about children's achievements, find more advantages in children, praise and affirm more, and constantly tell children the qualities that excellent children should have. There is an article "Be a Smart Learner" in parents' class, which reads: According to the report of China Women's Daily, from the situation of more than 3,000 children from all over the country admitted to Beijing Military Region Hospital, the main problem behind Internet addiction is family education. According to the case, these children all have one thing in common at home: "more criticism, less praise", and some even say. In the online world, these children feel "self first". Therefore, it is difficult to have an effect by blindly targeting children and correcting them only by external forces. Some Internet addiction children got rid of Internet addiction after counseling and correction by psychologists, but they "relapsed" soon after returning home because their parents didn't make any changes and didn't find even a little change in time to consolidate and appreciate it. It can be seen that the key to whether children can be trained well lies in the change and improvement of parents.

Secondly, in the process of educating children, we should read their books, learn from them with an open mind and respect them. Every parent knows what their children like to eat, wear, height and weight, but some parents may not be able to really understand their children psychologically, what are their psychological needs at different ages, what are their physiological characteristics and what kind of lifestyle they like. On the second day of the first month of the Spring Festival this year, our family of three went out to pay a New Year call together. When we got home at noon, it was already lunch time. In the process of going upstairs, the children suddenly found that the walls of the corridor were covered with small advertisements, and the corridor was also full of sundries, which hindered the appearance. The child immediately suggested cleaning first, and then having lunch. I was troubled at first, but I didn't agree with it in my heart. But on second thought, how valuable the child's idea of doing good deeds is, I quickly agreed, and suggested that my mother and I sweep the stairs and the child clean up the small advertisements. The child is very happy. The family prepared tools and worked enthusiastically, and it was soon completed, and the whole corridor was completely new. Although the child is a little tired, I can see that she is satisfied. To be a successful educator, parents should learn to think from their children's standpoint. Parents should also learn from simple children the sense of public morality and love that we ignore, learn new things that children are keen to do but unfamiliar with, adapt to the changes in children's psychological, physiological and behavioral characteristics, become friends with children, and make progress together with children.

Finally, I think we should create a good study atmosphere at home. Parents are children's first teachers, and their words and deeds can't be replaced by anyone. Therefore, in the process of educating children, the continuous improvement of parents' comprehensive quality is particularly important. I like a sentence in parents' class: parents study hard and children make progress every day!

The source of education is "love", and "love" is a powerful force of education. Whoever can use his life to multiply the precious spiritual wealth of mankind and educate himself well can educate his children well. The essence of educating children lies in educating themselves, and self-education is the most powerful way for parents to influence their children!