Why is it so much more cruel to scold the virgin Mary online than to scold her in cold blood?

The word "Virgin Mary" originally comes from the Virgin Mary in Christianity, which represents a perfect image of standing on the moral high ground and surpassing ordinary people. However, this kind of perfection in human society, especially influenced by the negative characters created by various film and television cultural works, has become a derogatory term for hypocrisy in the secular world. We can regard the Virgin Mary as some kind of idealist, who wants to achieve the satisfaction of moral standards in their hearts, regardless of gains and losses in the process. It is good to have this desire, but the key point is that they are just the constructors of perfect fantasy. In fact, they impose their wishes on others by "kidnapping" and let others implement them instead of them and bear the corresponding consequences.

A while ago, there was a very popular TV series "Emergency Doctor", in which there was a representative of the role of "Virgin Mary". In one scene, the protagonist saved a homeless child who was stealing but was seriously ill. Because the street children have no one to pay for his medical expenses, the protagonist proposes to set up a fund in the department, and everyone has to pay a share. At the meeting, except for her excellent family, she paid tens of thousands of dollars herself, and the rest of the nurses and doctors had to pay hundreds of dollars, and some even paid the whole balance. At this time, open the video barrage and instantly jump out of the "Goddess Bitch" comments reprimanded by many viewers. Then, why do people feel uncomfortable about this story of dedication to love? Isn't it a merit to set up a fund to treat children? I probably analyzed the following reasons: First of all, the protagonist suddenly took the lead in donating money without asking or telling other colleagues in advance. Maybe in her world, donating money is a matter of course for everyone, just announce this proposal in a high-profile way. Secondly, she didn't estimate her identity at all. In office politics, although the establishment of a fund is a personal act, there is no compulsion on the surface, but with her as the deputy director, others dare not follow. This is a process in which she was unconscious but also caused a "moral kidnapping".

Why is the audience demanding the Virgin more harshly than cold-blooded cruelty? Because cold-blooded people may have a fever and recover one day, and Notre Dame disease is a person who only indulges in his own good expectations but does not want to walk off the altar. One is willing to make a little change for the world, and the other is a dreamer who blinds his eyes and doesn't distinguish between human suffering. Therefore, it is natural that the latter is difficult to be recognized by everyone.