Deeply in love with a girl, falling in love for 4 years, breaking up, still can't leave? Very painful, what should I do? Why are you doing this to me,

It seems that what you said is very similar to my experience. Tell me about my own experience:

First of all, let me briefly talk about my situation. Like you, I was in love for 4 years and was ruthlessly abandoned. I hated women for two years and lived in hot water for two years. Learned to smoke, play games online and drink. . . Even dreaming in the middle of the night was awakened by chest pain, but I didn't know why I was dumped. Am I like you?

1, I know that many of your friends are comforting you now, and you are striving for it yourself. Although you hate it, you are giving true love. You won't give up easily, but you will strive for and keep it.

2. What you give is often more painful. You hate that you can't put a dagger in your heart. You don't want this kind of mental pain.

I understand your feelings very well. As for how to do it, it's up to you. If you can't win, don't hurt yourself again. I know it's hard for you to do it. Even if you can't control yourself, I want her and I want to marry him. Sometimes I have to admit that men are spoony, which is also very touching and sad.

Four or two years later, I met another girl. I just wanted to talk. Actually, to be honest, I'm not talking at all. My heart still belongs to the old one, and even looking for a girlfriend is based on her previous personality and hobbies. And I fell in love again. At the same time, I forgot my pain. The first year, I remembered her birthday and sent a message. But in the third year, I forgot that this was a great progress.

5, the best medicine is time, time can detect your true love, my suggestion is simple, but it is difficult to do: forget her as soon as possible, find a new girlfriend to fall in love as soon as possible, but be sure to be satisfied with yourself, and then slowly develop love, be sure to forget the previous pain and believe in yourself.

In addition, I would like to add that I am now 28 years old and have been in love twice. The first time was 4 years, and this time I have bought a house and am ready to get married. I also wish you good luck and get out of your misery in time! Don't dwell on that unnecessary pain. I believe you can do it, because we have similar experiences, and we are all pure men! ! !

Hope to adopt!