Never marry a man who lacks a clear goal in life. Why do you say that?

Because a man who doesn't have a clear goal in life and only muddles along can't bring happiness to women, and such a man can't marry.

If a person doesn't have a clear goal in life and leads a muddled life, he will accomplish nothing in life. You may just talk about your own strength, but there is really no actual action. Some women love to hear men's flattery, so they fall into this trap. Of course, many people will refute me, saying that not all men have no goals in life now, that is to say, they will never have them in the future. Yes, I admit that there is such a man, but when you wait until he has a goal in life and doesn't dawdle, it may be time for him to lose you. You have to gamble on your happiness, and no one will stop you.

First, there is no happiness in marrying a man who has no clear goal in life and muddles along.

I say this because I don't have a clear goal in life, I don't know what I should do, and I don't plan my family's future life. Therefore, it is only painful for a woman to marry such a man, and life is getting worse every day, which is meaningless. Especially men who muddle along, there is no happiness at all, because no one can muddle along and will only be abandoned by life in the end. Therefore, we need to have clear life goals to support our better life and bring a better life to ourselves and our families. Only a responsible man deserves a woman's love.

Second, marrying such a man is tantamount to widowhood.

To tell the truth, marrying such a man is really a widowed marriage. Think about how you will live after marriage, because men can't even pay the rent, let alone raise and educate their children in the future. So in the face of such a man, I would rather not marry. If you don't get married, you can at least feel at ease. Although a little lonely, it's better than worrying about your life all day and upsetting yourself when you see him. This is a very difficult life.