The children are all biological, why do parents still show preference?

Precisely because the children are all biological, parents do not feel guilty when they show preference.

As long as there are two children in the family, the love of parents cannot be equal to a bowl of water. But when it comes to dealing with children, you must at least look objective and fair. Otherwise, it will cause a lot of negative psychology to the children.

I encountered something on the bus.

A father got on the bus with two children. The bus was very crowded at that time, with one adult and two children standing together.

They are all girls, about the same age. When there were seats in the car, the man sat down and called a little girl to sit on his lap.

I was standing next to them, and another little girl cried when she saw this scene. Then he squeezed towards the car window as if he was out of breath and stood there motionless. Moreover, I wiped my tears from time to time and secretly looked back at my father and the little girl on his lap.

After another stop, the people around my father were getting off. The father quickly put the little girl on his lap next to him and called to the little girl who was still standing.

The little girl standing at the car window was still crying secretly. But she held back her tears and shouted loudly: "I won't sit! I don't want to sit!"

No matter how much her father called, the little girl just couldn't go.

Such a simple thing, but it left a shadow in the little girl's heart. He should not sit in the seat himself and let his two children sit. Or, sit down by yourself and let the two children take turns sitting on his lap.

In this case, I can only say that adults are too simple and crude in handling such matters.

I remember a case where the old man was old and his three children did not support him.

Both the eldest and the second child said that the old man had been partial since he was a child and would give everything to the third child. And all the property in the family was given to the third child. If you want support now, then look to the third child, not us!

But the third child requires the three of them to support each other, and he cannot be allowed to bear it alone...

Integrity officials It’s hard to get rid of household chores. However, when dealing with your own children, you must be level-headed. Otherwise, it will have a negative impact on the child's immature psychology.