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Story: I married a PE teacher who is 1.8 meters tall. He is often beaten by his wife. After enduring it for several years, he collapsed.

1

Lao Zhou and I have been married for more than half a year. We are just newlyweds, and we can't wait to be bored together every day. Just right, in two days, it will be the Qingming three-day holiday. I made a long-term strategy and planned to go to Yangzhou with Lao Zhou.

No matter what festival it is in Tomb-Sweeping Day, as long as it is a festival. I have recited the poem "Fireworks in March in Yangzhou" since I was a child, and I have never been to Yangzhou.

After dinner, I took Lao Zhou to sit down and put forward my strategy as a treasure. After listening to my plan, Lao Zhou didn't have the surprise I expected, nor did he say "suit yourself" as usual, but scratched his head and looked embarrassed.

"Daughter-in-law, I'm going to a city in Tomb-Sweeping Day, so I can't accompany you ..."

I suddenly nasty, "what are you doing in a city? Business trip? Working overtime on holidays? Does your company still have humanity ... "

Lao Zhou interrupted me reluctantly. "It's not overtime, it's private."

I looked at him suspiciously. "What private affairs? Do you still have secrets from me? "

Lao Zhou has a strange expression on her face. "I ... went to visit my friend's grave."

This answer surprised me, "sweeping the grave?" To whom? "

"Xiaodong, you know."

I tried my best to search the name from my mind, which seemed a little impressive, but it was particularly vague.

"He is dead? How did you die? "

"Jumping off a building has been dead for more than two years." Lao Zhou said simply.

I didn't expect this. I don't know what to say. It took me a long time to ask, "Why?"

Lao Zhou was silent for a while and said, "Many things."

"I remember he was just your colleague ... do you have such a good relationship? Tomb-Sweeping Day also ran so far to visit his grave? "

Lao Zhou nodded, "I have never told you that he is very important to me and has helped me a lot. We are not only colleagues, but also good friends. He left so suddenly that year, or in this way, I was particularly unacceptable and suppressed for a long time. " Lao Zhou said, with a trace of water vapor in his eyes.

Lao Zhou is a very manly man. It's rare for him to do this. I gently took his hand and said, "Can you talk to me?"

My relationship with Lao Zhou is not smooth. We talked for many years and broke up for two years, so I missed a lot of things about him, such as this one, which should have happened at the time we broke up.

Lao Zhou asked, "Do you really want to hear it?"

I nodded and said, "I want to hear it."

Lao Zhou sighed and said, "I dare say that no one knows Xiaodong better than me. I saw it all the way. "

2

In 2004, Lao Zhou switched to sales, and Xiao Dong took him in the company. At that time, Xiaodong had sprouted and was a famous "lone wolf" in the company.

The reason why Xiao Dong is a "lone wolf" is because he hates being restrained and managed. His mantra is "If everyone is conscious, there is no need to manage at all". This arrogant remark came from Xiaodong, but no one thought he was overreaching, even the company leaders acquiesced.

Because Xiaodong is the best salesman in the company, no one can say anything about the performance at the end of the year.

Xiaodong is really a "conscious" person. As he said, he works extremely hard. Lao Zhou said, "He took me to the market, plunged into it after breakfast and didn't go out until eight o'clock in the evening. I was tired and hungry at noon, and he didn't eat. I was too embarrassed to go out to eat by myself, so I had to hold back. You didn't see Xiaodong when he ran to the market. His eyes sparkle when chatting with others. He stood and talked for hours without feeling tired. After the chat, he immediately changed to another one, and no one could hold on after running with him for a day. The young salespeople in our company are unwilling to follow him, so tired. "

With Xiaodong's fatigue, he can learn a lot, and Lao Zhou soon matured and became an independent salesman. In this process, Xiao Dong helped Lao Zhou a lot, teaching him how to convince customers and how to maximize benefits in the middle. I even helped him negotiate a lot of lists. I didn't ask for a penny, so I gave all the commission to Lao Zhou. Lao Zhou is very grateful for mentioning these things.

I asked, "Why is Xiao Dong willing to help you like this?"

Lao Zhou said: "At first, I thought Xiao Dong's personality was quite strange. Later, I got to know him and found that he didn't like to talk. Actually, it's just because he doesn't know you. If he thinks you are a friend, he will be good to you. "

three

Not long after Lao Zhou and Xiaodong met, Xiaodong's daughter was born. Xiaodong is 26 years old and has just been married for a year. His daughter-in-law is in his hometown, living with his father, and Xiaodong is working hard alone in the provincial capital.

After Xiaodong came back from his hometown, Lao Zhou gave Xiaodong a big red envelope. Xiao Dong invited Lao Zhou out to dinner, but his face looked unhappy. Lao Zhou was very strange and asked, "What's the matter? Are prostitutes unhappy? "

Xiaodong shook his head and stopped drinking. After a while, he said drunkenly, "You must find a woman you like in the future, otherwise ... that would be fucking sad."

This is the first time Lao Zhou has heard Xiao Dong talk about his marriage. I don't know what to say at the moment, so I have to answer casually: "I like her, and she has to like me."

"If you can't find something you like ... I'd rather not get married than play like me ... since I got married, I haven't stopped for a day ..."

Later, Lao Zhou learned from Xiaodongkou that his wife's name was Xu Li, and the two met on a blind date. Xu Li is nearly 1.8 meters tall, which is higher than Xiao Dong. She is a primary school physical education teacher. Xiaodong didn't have a crush on Xu Li at all, but Xu Lizao knew her before she said she wanted to get married.

Xiaodong's father especially likes Xu Li, saying that she is not easy to be bullied, but she is still alive and urging Xiaodong to marry her. Xiaodong grew up without a mother, but his father brought him up. Father and son live alone. His father didn't remarry for him, so it was not easy to bring him up alone. Therefore, Xiaodong is extremely filial, and his father is what he says and never refutes.

On the one hand, it is a father who is unwilling to disobey, on the other hand, it is a lifetime of happiness. Xiaodong is very entangled. As he hesitated, Xu Li spoke the reason why he was in a hurry to get married. It turned out that her father was seriously ill and hoped to see his daughter get married before he died.

Under the triple pressure of his father, Xu Li and Xu Li's father, Xiaodong somehow married Xu Li, but he was never happy for a day. Xu Li has a bad temper, and Xiao Dong is eccentric. They quarrel every day. When the quarrel is fierce, Xu Li will insult Xiao Dong. Married to a physical education teacher who is 1.8 meters tall, she was often beaten by her wife, but she collapsed after enduring it for several years.

Hearing this, I was surprised to ask, "Who hit who?"

Lao zhou wry smile, "Xu Li in Xiao Hua. Xiao Dong is1.78m tall, not much taller. He is white and thin, and he can't beat Xu Li at all. Even if he could, he wouldn't hit a woman. " Married to a physical education teacher who is 1.8 meters tall and often beaten by his wife, this marriage has become his endless nightmare.

I asked, "Even so, Xiao Dong is still not divorced?"

Lao Zhou said: "Xu Li got pregnant not long after she got married. Besides, Xiaodong's father won't let them leave. Xiao Dong had to let Xu Li raise a baby in her hometown and hide herself to earn money, so as not to fight every day. "

The birth of the child did not ease the relationship between the two. In just one month, Xiaodong went back to take care of Xu Li, and the two men were still upside down. Xiaodong was so angry that Xu Li left home and came back to work when her front foot was out of the month.

Lao Zhou said: "I wonder why Xiao Dong is not very sociable, but he is generous and gets along well with customers. Why can't he get along with Xu Li? "

I said simply, "It takes two hands to make a sound. There is something wrong with marriage. It must be because of two people. "

Lao Zhou sighed and said, "Besides, something is wrong with Xiaodong. This marriage should not be married from the beginning. "

In a sense, Xiao Dong's unhappy marriage has become a catalyst for his career. He seldom goes home, just works hard outside and sends a lot of money home. Within a few years, Xiao Dong not only became the best salesman in the company, but also became a famous "East Brother" in the industry.

four

In 2006, Xiao Dong was 28 years old and met Chen Wei, who was two years younger than him.

Xiaodong and Chen Weidi met for the first time. He was on a business trip in other provinces and was talking to Lao Zhou on the phone. Xiao Dong said, "I'm going to meet a net friend."

Lao Zhou joked: "See netizens? It must be a girl. What are you doing at night? "

Xiao Dong smiled and said, "Don't talk nonsense. We met by playing games. We happened to be at her house on business. We made an appointment to meet. Nothing happened. "

"Girls play games? Rare, don't be too ugly. "

"What are you talking about? What does it have to do with me? I am married. "

Lao zhou "hey hey" smiled and hung up the phone, twist a head. Xiaodong is so handsome that many girls secretly like him. Although his marriage was unhappy, he didn't have any other thoughts, so Lao Zhou didn't take it to heart.

Unexpectedly, this seemingly ordinary meeting made Xiao Dong and Chen Wei fall in love at first sight.

Chen Wei is a typical southern girl. She is short, delicate and fair, speaks softly, and has a gentle and considerate personality. She is Xiaodong's favorite type of girl.

Chen Wei has long known that Xiaodong is married and has children, and he also knows that his marriage is unhappy. Originally, he didn't think much. He thought there was a good relationship in the game, just meeting for dinner. It was also popular to meet netizens in those years. I didn't expect to be unable to extricate myself when I saw Xiaodong.

Lao Zhou didn't know what happened in the middle, except that the next year, Chen Wei quit his job at home and went north to Xiaodong's city alone. In fact, Chen Wei is not as weak as it seems. From her love of playing competitive games, we can see that she has a bold and tough side.

I curled my lips and said, "This girl is immoral enough. Xiao Dong is married. Why do you still post it? " Xiaodong, too, even if the marriage is unhappy, you can't cheat, love rat! "

Lao Zhou said, "You have seen them."

I was surprised and asked, "Me? Have you seen them? When? "

Lao Zhou said: "After Chen Wei came, she lived with Xiao Dong. In order to hide people's eyes and ears, Xiao Dong and I rented a house together, fearing that the villagers in the company would know and spread it to his home. He lives in one room with Chen Wei, and I live in another room, and announced that he would share it with me. We were just together that year. You come to see me, I'll take you back to get something, and I just met them at home. "

I remember, there is such a thing.

I was just with Lao Zhou that year, and I was still a shy little girl, so I was embarrassed to talk more. I remember that Lao Zhou pointed to a man and a woman and said, "This is Brother Dong and this is Sister Wei." I turned my head and introduced me to them: "This is my girlfriend."

Lao Zhou took something and took me out for dinner. I am in a hurry. After many years, I really can't remember clearly. I only remember that the men and women were handsome and white, standing not far away and smiling at me gently. It is very pleasing to the eye.

After I came out, I asked Lao Zhou, "How do you live with other couples? Aren't you embarrassed? "

Lao Zhou smiled awkwardly. "Hi, we are all close friends."

I walked out of my memory and squinted at Lao Zhou: "You didn't tell me the truth at that time."

Lao Zhou said shyly, "Their relationship is so special that there is no room for sand in your eyes. I am afraid that you are not happy. "

I didn't say anything. I used to be an emotional neat freak, but now that I'm married and have a family, I hate third parties and love rat love rat who cheated me. But I have to admit that when I don't know their true relationship, looking at such a pair of lovers will really give birth to some envy and appreciation.

Men and women really need an aura. The so-called collocation is probably the combination of gas fields. Unfortunately, many people who come early or late have no fate.

In the days when three people lived in the same room, Xiaodong lived happily. It can be seen that Chen Wei loves Xiaodong very much, and Xiaodong has lived a dream family life since childhood.

Xiaodong told Lao Zhou before that he had no mother since he was a child and his father was a big man, so the rough places in his life would not be good. It is for this reason that his heart has been longing for the gentleness and delicacy of women. But after marriage, Xu Li didn't satisfy his desire at all, but gave him more pain. The appearance of Chen Wei filled the hole in his heart and became his spiritual pillar.

Of course, Xiao Dong won't tell Lao Zhou how deep his feelings for Chen Wei are, but Lao Zhou has observed them himself. Lao Zhou is a man with some details. Three people live under one roof, and the clues of happiness can't be hidden. Lao Zhou said that Xiaodong used to be eccentric and didn't like to talk, but when he was with Chen Wei, the whole person softened a lot.

Recalling this, Lao Zhou licked his lips and said longingly, "Daughter-in-law, you don't know, Chen Wei's cooking is really delicious! I can't say where the food is, it is delicious, and I have eaten a lot of rice. "

I snorted a little guiltily. As a woman who can cook, I am really embarrassed to comment on this, so I have to say, "Since I am so happy, why doesn't Xiaodong divorce and marry Chen Wei?"

Lao Zhou said, "Do you think he doesn't want to leave? After he confirmed his relationship with Chen Wei, he told his family that he wanted a divorce, but he didn't say the real reason, only that he had a bad relationship with Xu Li. However, his father resolutely disagreed, and Xu Li did not agree, even with death. "

I wondered, "What did the husband and wife do? Why didn't Xu Li get divorced? What's the point of dragging? "

Lao Zhou said, "How do I know what Xu Li thinks? Anyway, it's a matter of life and death. Xiaodong's father doesn't agree. He wiped his tears as soon as he mentioned it. Xiao Dong is so filial, there is no way, and he has been dragging. "

I couldn't help raising my voice: "Is Chen Wei too disadvantaged? What is wasted is her youth! " I didn't even realize it myself. Before I knew it, I was on Chen Wei's side.

According to Lao Zhou's memory, Xiao Dong often asked him out for a drink during that time and drank without saying a word. He was drunk and mumbled "I'm sorry" painfully, then he was dragged home by Lao Zhou like a dog, and then he was silently helped into the bedroom by Chen Wei. There is always a cup of tea at the right temperature on the table.

I asked, "Who am I sorry for? Xu Li or Chen Wei? "

Lao Zhou shook his head. "I don't know, maybe even Xiaodong himself can't tell."

five

In 2008, Xiao Dong was sent by the company to build a branch in the northwest, and Chen Wei followed him to the northwest. After they left, Lao Zhou also retired the rent and found a small house to live in.

In 2009, the company will open a branch in Nanjing and transfer Lao Zhou. One night, Lao Zhou was cleaning the newly rented office when he suddenly heard someone calling himself and looked up. Xiaodong stood at the door with a dusty suitcase at his feet and a gentle smiling face behind him. It's Chen Wei

The branch in the northwest has just stepped on the right track. Xiaodong was sent to Nanjing by the company to help Lao Zhou, and Chen Wei followed him to Nanjing from the northwest. The three of them started a life under one roof again.

When I first started to build a branch, there were so many things that I couldn't finish my phone calls and business. Xiaodong and Lao Zhou are as busy as a bee, and the only comfort is the meal cooked by Chen Wei after he came home.

That was the last time Lao Zhou lived with them.

Before long, the company transferred Xiaodong to Zhuhai, and Chen Wei followed Xiaodong on the south train without hesitation.

I sighed. "It's not easy for Chen Wei to run around from north to south with Xiao Dong."

Lao Zhou said: "I have never heard Chen Wei complain about Xiao Dong, but I may complain in my heart. After all, a woman's youth is too short to stand the delay. "

From the age of 26 to 3 1, Chen Wei spent the most precious and perishable time of a woman on Xiao Dong. However, Xiao Dong and his family failed in several divorces. Seeing that he is getting older, Chen Wei finally can't bear the pressure of his family.

Lao Zhou once called Xiao Dong. Xiao Dong said that he lived in the company dormitory. Lao Zhou asked about Chen Wei. Xiaodong was silent for a long time and said, "She went home on a blind date."

Lao Zhou was well-advised and didn't ask again. What's there to ask? A 3 1 year-old girl, in the eyes of outsiders, whose parents can stand not falling in love and not getting married?

six

Half a year later, Lao Zhou went to Zhuhai on business. Xiao Dong said, "Chen Wei is getting married soon."

Lao Zhou asked in surprise, "What's wrong with you"?