Seven-year-old boy climbs the window to "escape": safety is the first element of children's growth.

On the afternoon of August 15, a thrilling scene occurred in a residential area in Foshan, Guangdong. A 7-and-a-half-year-old boy stood shivering on the air conditioner outside the room on the seventh floor.

It turns out that the boy lives on the eighth floor and is alone at home. He heard something outside the door, thinking that a bad guy had entered the house and climbed down from the window of the eighth floor room to escape.

The boy's mother said that her daughter was going to class at 8 o'clock in the morning and she left her son at home before he got up. When she got home around noon 1, she couldn't find her son.

When she saw her son by the window, she told him in despair not to let go. Then she called the police and informed the property management.

The father who hurried back immediately climbed out of the window and finally came to his son after several attempts. With the help of property management, the father and son escaped smoothly.

Many people praise this father for being brave, but I just want to say that parents' safety awareness is really weak, and it is one of them to leave a child of active age at home easily.

Secondly, children are in school age, and parents' cultivation of their safety awareness can be said to be almost zero. Without teaching children basic safety knowledge, children just want to climb the window to "escape" when they hear a little movement, instead of calling the police for help, which almost leads to tragedy.

Educator Zhang Wenzhi said that today we live in a complex environment, and children may be in danger at any time and anywhere. Parents must have a clear sense of safety in order to better protect their children.

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Many parents are really big-hearted, nominally "watching" their children, but in fact they can't really "watch" their children. They always think that danger will not come to their children, and it will be too late when it comes.

On the afternoon of August 9th 1, a 3-year-old boy was playing at the entrance of the escalator on the third floor of Bao Li Square in Xiaogan, Hubei. Because the handrail slipped upward, the boy was picked up, fell to the first floor and died on the spot.

At the time of the incident, the little boy's parents and sister were sitting in chairs not far away, and watching the family crying in the video was really unbearable. Don't you really know that children can't play by the escalator?

The handrail of the escalator is taken out from the entrance, because it keeps moving, so it is easy for children to get caught playing here. Many shopping malls will have warning signs to remind parents not to let their children stay.

There was a video some time ago, which made people feel very sad. My mother pushed a trolley by the roadside and turned to a small shop by the roadside to buy things.

But the children sitting on the cart were moving around, and as a result, the cart began to slide backwards and slowly to the side of the road, just as a big truck passed by and ran over the children directly.

The children's stroller has a braking function. If you really can't get rid of your hand, you can brake first, so that even if the child moves, the stroller can be kept still and the personal safety of the child can be protected.

The safety of children is hidden in these small details, such as children sitting in safety seats in cars and holding hands when crossing the road. It is these seemingly insignificant little moves that keep children from being hurt when danger comes.

Parents are the first responsible person for children's safety. If parents themselves are not aware of the danger and cannot take preventive measures in advance, it is irresponsible for their children's lives.

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I am the mother of an 8-year-old boy. I have always attached great importance to my son's safety, but I also know that there are some things he must go through, but I must do my best to ensure safety.

Last summer vacation, my son said he would learn to swim, so I took him to sign up. My first question is, can parents stand by and watch by the pool? The people in the swimming pool said yes, but they had to pay the venue fee.

I said no problem, pay right away. Every time my son enters the swimming pool, I stand on the shore and look at him. My eyes have been following him, and where he is, my eyes are there.

My best friend Xiao Min listens to me and makes fun of me if I am tired. I said seriously, "Of course I'm tired!" The swimming pool is stuffy and hot, and I have to stare at my son all the time and sweat every time! "

However, I dare not joke about my son's life. The pool tragedy in Xianyang, Shaanxi Province last year could have been avoided. It is precisely because mothers don't often look after their children that misfortune happens.

Ms. Xiao took two children to the hot spring swimming pool to play, but she was playing with her mobile phone. She didn't realize that her 4-year-old son had been struggling after drowning, and finally sank to the bottom because no one found him.

Cases of parents accidentally injuring or even killing their children because of playing mobile phones often occur. You really should take a warning. Don't play with your mobile phone when taking care of your children, because you have no time to react when danger comes.

Since it is playing with children, parents should put away their mobile phones. Don't let children play by themselves in a perfunctory way when interacting with you. You should know that "accompany" is not equal to "accompany".

Dangers in life are everywhere. Parents should have the ability to predict the danger in advance and take preventive measures to protect their children when the danger comes.

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This tragedy again and again, but always can't alert some parents with big hearts. No wonder Kotaro Isaka said that it is terrible to think that parents don't need to pass the exam!

Parents should strengthen safety awareness and give priority to children's safety.

Parents are adults, and many factors that are dangerous to children are not a problem for adults. Parents should consider their children's safety instead of being self-righteous.

Be familiar with the safe escape route in the community and keep normal contact with property management. When staying out, pay attention to whether the fire-fighting facilities are complete and whether the safe passage is smooth in case of emergency.

Parents need to go out, they can ask their neighbors to look after them, and they can't leave their children at home alone to prevent Xiong Haizi from doing dangerous things with his brain wide open.

When taking children out, try to hold their hands to prevent them from running around and playing, ensure that they are within their safe sight, and do not allow them to stay in places with potential safety hazards.

Some children may like to play by escalators or fountains. Parents should not stop them rudely, but tell him the reason why he can't play. They can show him the sign of prohibition, and the child will be more easily persuaded by his parents.

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Parents teach their children safety knowledge and improve their ability to cope with danger.

It has been said that wise parents know that the most effective way to protect their children is to let them learn to take care of themselves.

Parents can always pay attention to safety in their daily lives, and children will be subtly influenced, so that when parents teach their children safety knowledge, children will learn faster.

For children under 6 years old, you can tell them where not to play and where not to touch by reading the picture books of safety education, so that they can learn to stay away from dangerous sources.

For children aged 6- 10, under the supervision of their parents, they can be taught to use electrical appliances correctly, obey traffic rules and protect their own safety in any occasion.

For children over the age of 10, you can gradually let them do things by themselves. Parents should tell their children all the predictable risk factors in advance, teach them how to deal with risks and exercise their self-protection ability.

Parents can't protect their children step by step for life. The most important thing is to teach children to stay away from danger and know how to deal with different dangers in order to really protect children.

Psychologist Wu Zhihong said that if children are angels, then parents are not gods, but just guardians of angels.

As parents, we should always put safety first, tighten the string of safety, gradually cultivate children's safety awareness and ability, and truly set up a safety net for children in advance.

Life always comes first. If there is no life, children can't talk about it. Let children grow up healthily under the protection of their parents, and children will have a bright future. This is the best love for children.