Why are men willing to spend a lot of money on their sons and nothing on their wives?

Give money to your parents because of filial piety, but don't give money to your wife because you don't love you.

Filial piety is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and filial piety is the first of all virtues. People who have no filial piety in ancient times will not be respected. Crows still know why they can't feed their mothers. There were 24 filial piety in ancient times. Although this tradition has been passed down to this day, many people oppose "foolish filial piety", but the basic filial piety still needs to be done.

This is not only the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation, but also the most basic conscience of a person. It is our bounden duty and obligation to honor our parents, whether in ancient or modern times. Parents not only gave us life, but also brought us up with great pains. They gave us the firmest support and the most careful care in our lives. They will always be our solid backing and give us the most intimate care when we are sad and frustrated. So giving money to parents is the embodiment of that person's filial piety.

But for the wife, because she doesn't like it, she will be penniless. Some men treat their wives as nannies, thinking that taking them home means continuing the incense, washing and cooking, and working for their own money. In their eyes, the wife is a woman, not a woman. He won't take her out to meet friends, and he doesn't expect to earn face by her. I just hope she stays at home honestly and does her job well. Therefore, there is no need to buy her a beautiful skirt, and don't think about buying any high-end cosmetics.

In front of other women, he would say, "Men should make money to spend on their wives, buy clothes and bags for their wives, and buy cosmetics." Women just have to learn to dress themselves up and please themselves, and men just look pleasing to the eye. But the actual action is just the opposite. To put it bluntly, this kind of man is hypocritical.

Some people are kind to their parents, which is also a face factor. Men are sometimes generous to their parents, and they are not necessarily big filial sons. They just have a better face. The significance and effect of men showing off in front of their parents are different from those of women.

They prefer to see their parents go out into the society and say how my son treats me, so that he will have a lot of face. To a certain extent, the wife is closer to her own than her parents, so there is no need to pretend in front of her own. This play is always shown to outsiders.