What do you think of "grandma, your daughter always asks my husband for money when she comes back"?

Life is like playing chess, and it is like marching to fight. IQ and EQ are used everywhere.

Sometimes, the effect of hard work and brute force is not good, but if you use a little skill, such as returning what the other party has been doing in the same way, it is a more useful and effective way to see if the other party can accept it. This trick, put in Jin Yong's martial arts book, is Gusu Murong's "Give him a way, give him a life."

For Jie Jiang, the daughter-in-law of her own family, Aunt Xiang often mentioned it to outsiders, but also covered it up in many ways to give her a circus. But when I returned to my son, it was a different scene. I get angry when I mention it, but my son is weak and not as strong as the other.

Men always want to live in harmony at home and don't want to have an argument with their daughter-in-law. The other party just saw her husband's temper and found his characteristics, so he will become more and more presumptuous, dare to make up his own mind about everything, and completely ignore her husband and in-laws.

I want to ask why Aunt Xiang has such a big opinion about her daughter-in-law, mainly because her daughter-in-law is a brother-in-law. Since she married into her own family, she just doesn't know how many things she has subsidized her brother.

Her brother is idle, but he wants to live a good life and refuses to work hard. They are not interested in knowing how his daughter-in-law defended her family when she was at her parents' house, but most people in her husband's family only saw and heard about her practice after they got married.

Although she still does it secretly most of the time, there is no windtight wall in the world. "Good things don't go out, and bad things spread thousands of miles." Some things are born with clairvoyance, clairvoyance, and walking on clouds will all enter the aunt's ear.

No matter what he lacks or wants, her brother directly asks this married sister for it and uses her as an ATM. Daughter-in-law marries her own family, and her son is not a son-in-law. Why do you take care of her mother's brother? Aunt Xiang can't be angry. But no matter how you have opinions, love me, love my dog, because of my son's face, she is not easy to get angry, for fear of hurting the harmony between families.

Aunt Xiang has worked hard in the society for decades, and when she saw some ups and downs of life, the old revolution, rivers and lakes, her eyes blinked and she thought of it in her mind. Since the daughter-in-law doesn't understand what's wrong with her behavior, it's better to draw a gourd ladle for her to experience. It was her hand that helped her daughter-in-law get rid of the role of helping her brother.

After that, every time she came back, she asked her daughter who was studying in other places to go to her brother's house for living expenses. After a while, Sister Jiang couldn't stand it and quarreled with her husband many times.

First, his mother has talked to him about it before, and second, his wife has been helping his brother. He also has his views and opinions from a long time ago. This time, he did not give in. No matter how noisy the wife is, as long as the younger sister opens her mouth, the man asks her what she has done to her younger brother and never refuses.

Jiang Jie felt that it was almost impossible for her husband's family to take good care of her daughter and her brother's family to live a normal life. She wanted to see why her mother-in-law allowed her daughter to reach out to her brother's sister-in-law and angrily ran to criticize her: "Mother-in-law, your daughter asks my husband for money every time she comes back."

"Doesn't your brother want it, too?" When she finished speaking, Aunt Xiang's hair turned white. Today, she finally got her wish: "Why, your brother can, but my daughter can't. Daughter-in-law, there are some things that my mother-in-law doesn't want to tell you, but you have to understand the truth. How to balance the relationship between mother's family and husband's family? Now you should understand some? " She told her daughter-in-law meaningfully.

Jiang Jie blushed, and didn't know until she tasted the taste. What she thought was just that her husband's family had been forbearing. What she can't stand after several times, the other party has endured for many years. What position does she have to blame others?