Why do you feel happy every time I'm sad? You care about me, of course I am happy!

Recently, I accidentally saw a movie "Love" on iQiyi. When I first clicked on it, I felt like I had seen it before. The later clips reminded me that I had seen this movie before. When I saw the name of the movie, I clicked on it and watched it. I finished watching it, but I didn’t remember all the plot. I saw the show again this time and wanted to watch it. It was fate that I clicked on the same movie twice. I think it was fate. I also have an indissoluble bond with this movie, and I want to share this movie with everyone. The first time I watched it, I just saw the story, but I didn’t remember it. The second time I watched it, I got into it and saw the story behind the story.

The movie tells the story of the death of my grandmother, and my mother wants to go to her grandfather’s hometown and bring her grandfather’s grave into the city to bury her with her. However, my grandfather still had an unregistered wife in the countryside. Because there was a famine in the countryside, my grandfather wanted to go to the city to make a living. Once he left, he never came back. He still married a wife and had children in the city. However, my grandfather's first wife took care of my grandfather's parents all her life and guarded the vacant house all her life. My grandma (my grandfather's first wife) looked forward to my grandfather day and night. In the end, she only hoped for the arrival of my late grandfather. After my grandfather passed away, he was sent back to his hometown for burial. ! Therefore, the original wife’s grandma stayed with my grandfather all his life, whether he was alive or deceased. Now my mother wants to move the grave, but grandma will definitely not agree, because grandpa sends living expenses home every month. In grandma’s heart, she is a member of the Yue family, and she is also grandpa’s legitimate wife Yue Zeng. The chastity memorial arch at the entrance of the village is Represents women like grandma. But why did mother have to move the grave? My mother choked up and said this to my grandma in the movie: "Grandma, my mother is my father's only legal wife. They fell in love... fell in love, got married, and took care of each other all their lives. In my memory, they never spoke loudly to each other. I said something. It is only natural that they can be buried together. Can you understand my daughter's feelings?" At the end, grandma asked the villagers to help move the grave, while mother and father were preparing to take away grandma's ashes. Sent to the countryside to be buried with grandpa!

The movie revolves around the love of three generations. The first generation is the story of the grandmothers and grandfathers, which has been introduced above. The following is the story of the second generation’s father and mother. The mother is very strong and wants everything. It’s up to you to take care of your husband and your daughter. My mother is a teacher. It may be an occupational disease. She always likes to nag and criticize people. My mother, who has been a teacher all her life, is about to retire. My father is afraid that my mother will be lost. I prepared a retirement gift for my mom and wrote a card! My daughter and her boyfriend joked on the phone, "My dad wrote a card to my mom. It's so romantic!" Yes, love must be expressed, no matter what form it is, let the other person feel it! Later, the mother and daughter disagreed on many things, and finally had a big fight, and the daughter Weiwei wanted to move out. This is the third generation of love in the movie.

Weiwei’s boyfriend is Song Ningfeng, a bar singer who wants to go to Beijing to make a living. He comes to Weiwei to see his friends, and they accidentally meet each other and fall in love quickly! The boyfriend in the story started to feel unreliable. There are not many reliable people who work in music. Most people think so, and I am no exception. It wasn't until the appearance of the single mother played by Tan Weiwei later that I saw the affectionate and righteous side of Weiwei's boyfriend Song Ningfeng. Song Ningfeng protected his grandma on the TV station, and later combined the photos of his grandma and grandpa and gave them to Weiwei, asking her to send them to his grandma. These things gradually made me see the kind and sincere side of Song Ningfeng, a person with an innocent heart. .

Later, he decided to go to Beijing. The two hugged each other and Wei Wei cried and said to him: "I really won't wait for you!" Turning her head, her mother asked Wei Wei how they were doing, but she said: "Then I will Wait for him!" Mom said, "Wait! How long can you wait?" Weiwei said, "A lifetime!" She paused and whispered, "How long is a lifetime?" Mom sighed with disdain. At that tone, neither of them said anything else! We all long for eternity, and those who can truly go to the end together are happy. Remember to cherish those who stay with you and never leave you!

How deep father’s love for mother is, you will know by looking at the following dialogue. The scene cuts to the gate of mother’s school. Dad drove a new car to pick up mother. When mother saw the new car, she asked: "Whose car is it?" Dad said: "New car," Mom said: "I know new cars, whose new car is it?" Dad said: "Ours!" Mom looked confused, and after getting in the car, Dad played a song " "Girl in the Flower House" said: "I remember the two of us took Weiwei to Beijing in 1990. On the train there was a young man carrying a tape recorder, walking from one end to the other, and then playing it. Don’t you remember this song?” Mom said, “I didn’t hear you wanted to buy a new car?” Dad said, “I want to take you for a ride!” Mom said, “I don’t want to go anywhere. How much did you spend?” "Ah!" Dad said, "You don't even remember. At that time, we said we would buy a car of our own and go for a ride together! Now that we have a car, we have a song!" "My mother didn't say anything, and my father continued: "Maybe it's my fault that you have suffered so much for so many years." My mother sat in the passenger seat and looked at my father and still didn't say a word. My father continued: "If you are willing. , I can let it go, and you can live it again. "My mother looked a little touched and a little aggrieved at this time. She still didn't say anything and looked at my father. My father continued: "I must go out myself, and it's best if you are here. If you're not here, I'll go by myself." Mom sobbed slightly and said, "I had a dream yesterday about a man's face. I couldn't remember who he was, but then I remembered it. "When it came to this, my mother couldn't hold back and cried, "It's when you were young." She suppressed her emotions and sobbed a few times, saying, "Mrs. Wang is not allowed to ride in this car in the future!" Dad said. : "Mrs. Wang? Where are you thinking! Huh?" Mom cried and said: "Every time I am sad, you are very happy!" Dad said, "You care about me, of course I am happy!" Dad hummed. He sang: "You took me into your flower room. I couldn't escape the fragrance of the flowers. I forgot about it unknowingly, oh oh!" Mom cried beside her and said, "Why is your singing still so ugly?" Dad said : "That can't be helped, haha!" He continued singing: "I said you are the kindest in the world, and I unknowingly thought Hehua..."... When I saw this touching conversation between my parents, I cried unconsciously. When I cried, it was like my mother and I had inexplicable grievances hidden in a corner of my heart. Their conversation brought out the grievances in my heart, and then released them. After crying, my mood changed. Become more relaxed and quiet, and your whole person will feel more refreshed. People can't live without love. They are busy all their lives. While worrying about the whole family, don't forget to love yourself!

The love story of three generations is a true portrayal of the love concepts and expressions of those born in the 40s, 60s and 80s. The three generations may treat love in different ways, but their love for each other is the same, and love is love! Life is not long, respect your inner choices, don’t wrong yourself, learn to reconcile with yourself, and let yourself live calmly and happily!