Some old people want to talk to their wives.

When people are old, they become single because of various trivial matters or accidents in life. They always want to find another partner to spend the rest of their lives with, to accompany themselves to resist loneliness and loneliness in life.

The person who walks with you on the old road is called "wife". For the elderly, the wife is not only a companion in life, but also a spiritual pillar. The happiness brought by a wife and the happiness of companionship cannot be given by children, and no amount of money can buy it.

Now in life, many people will put economic conditions first when they find a wife again, and feel that as long as they have an economic foundation, they can live a happy old age.

In fact, the happiness of old people's life comes more from their real feelings. If two people just remarry or board for money, they will be troubled by trivial matters of life. Without sincere trust, they won't go far.

Grandpa Zheng, 72, and Aunt Qin, 60, have remarried 10 years. Up to now, if it is not a remarried family, no one can see it and think it is the original match.

Many old friends want to learn some classics from Uncle Zheng and his remarriage management. Grandpa Zheng said: when you find a wife again, you should trust more and calculate less, and you will be happier in the future.

I am 72 years old and remarried with Xiao Qin 10 years. I can't live without her more and more, and I will be happier and happier for the rest of my life because I married her.

My ex-wife and I have a son and a daughter. After all the children got married, my wife died of a sudden illness and left me.

At that time, before I retired, I felt that my life was really lifeless. My life is even worse without a woman to take care of me at home. I often drink with my buddies until late, and no one asks if you are warm-hearted, let alone uncomfortable.

Then my buddy advised me to find someone else. I have met several of them. Although they are all young, their requirements are too high. Some people want to buy a new suite, and some ask how much they pay at a time, which makes me feel that remarriage is more troublesome than the first marriage, so I choose to give up.

After retiring at the age of 60, there is no one left, and the children don't need my care. So I followed my brother to the square to learn to practice Tai Ji Chuan and exercise with them, and I felt that life was still very good.

Time flies, but at night, when a person is lonely at home, he will think that when his wife is alive, we will walk together, watch TV and chat with each other at night. That happiness was ordinary, but now it seems so precious.

In spring, a young woman from our Tai Chi team came to study and practice with us. She said that she was 50 years old, just retired and had nothing to do at home, so she wanted to learn to practice Tai Ji Chuan together, not only to exercise, but also to cultivate one's morality.

I think she is in her early forties. She looks thin and energetic, especially when she wears sportswear. I think she looks like a young man. She is the youngest in our team, so everyone pays special attention to her.

Soon, she will be able to do some simple actions and simplify Tai Ji Chuan with Formula 24. Everyone praised her for her aura, flexibility and foundation.

When we were chatting together, I knew that she lived alone and my wife died in an accident a few years ago, so I had an idea. In fact, no matter how old a man is, love can't be hidden when it comes.

I asked my Tai Chi team's sister to tell me about it, because our age gap is a little big, and I'm afraid she thinks I'm too old. Unexpectedly, she agreed to date for a while.

In this way, the two of us came together and talked about love for more than a year. Speaking of which, I don't feel crazier than when I was young.

We once drove out for a month, when we were in love and were very keen on each other. Xiao Qin thinks I am a steady person, and everything I say and do is very reliable. I am a trustworthy person.

What I like more is her personality and temper. I always feel that a woman who loves to laugh and tell stories is full of love at heart. She will know that you are hot and cold, and it is not easy to understand you and understand others.

At first, my children thought it was not good for me to find a woman to remarry when I was so young, for fear that I would be cheated. At that time, Xiao Qin's son was not married. The child is afraid that Xiao Qin wants too much, or let me buy a suite or something directly.

When I told Xiao Qin that I wanted to remarry her, she asked me to think about it, because her son was not married, and there were still many places that needed her support in the future. If I want to, she doesn't care about falling in love with me all the time

I said what I thought. I told Xiao Qin that there was no conflict between our remarriage and her son's marriage. I will marry him home according to all the marriage etiquette. And my pension should be taken care of by her, and I will give her my happiness for a lifetime.

We signed a property agreement before marriage. Before marriage, everyone's property belongs to everyone and will be inherited by every child in the future. However, I gave Qin Xiao 654.38 million yuan as a bride price, which is my promise to our marriage and a guarantee to Qin Xiao.

Later, Xiao Qin's son got married, and I gave her son a bride price of 50 thousand yuan. Although many old guys around me call me silly, I don't know what I'm doing. What if people are selfish, or sick and in poor health, and people leave?

I have always insisted that since I chose her, I should trust her more and calculate less, because many people's calculations are all about themselves in the end. There can be no sincere feelings. Only by paying sincere feelings first can we get each other's sincerity.

Xiao Qin is also very kind to my children. Their children need help. Without saying anything, we will help together for a period of time. When the child is in trouble, she will also take the initiative to help.

At the beginning of this year, the children didn't go to work and stayed at home. Xiao Qin is afraid that the children will worry about the living expenses. She took the initiative to discuss with me and took out her savings in financial management to give her children 10 thousand yuan for emergency.

Although it is not much, it is really warm affection and warm care for children. My son asked me privately how Qin Yi treated them so well and whether I had given her all my savings.

I also scolded my son for being narrow-minded. Qin Yi is a generous and tolerant woman.

Now we are both in good health. I think even if we are in poor health in the future, Xiao Qin will not let me go. Our relationship is still relatively stable. Most importantly, we trust each other more than calculation. This is the foundation of our happiness for the rest of our lives.

When people are old, they should not only start from their own ideas, but also think from each other's standpoint, so as to establish mutual trust and tacit understanding.

If everyone is playing their own inner abacus, then no matter how beautiful the relationship is, it will eventually be trivial and will not have a good result.

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